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08mommatobe
LIF Infant

Member since 8/08 123 total posts
Name: Marissa
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I hate TTC...
Is anyone else with me???
My sex life has become about "work" rather than pleasure.
Im obsessed with poking and prodding my boobs, and looking into everything abnormal with my body.
I hate waiting to find out when Im o'ing and then waiting to find out if Im preggo.
My first child was a complete surprise, and I was looking forward to actually "trying" for a baby- but this is for the birds...
I really hope I get lucky and get preggo this month, because mentally- I cant keep doing this...
I waited so long to feel ready for #2, now I wish I wouldve just ended up with another surprise...
Baby dust to everyone!!!
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Posted 9/2/08 6:14 PM |
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QueSeraSera
Sugar & Spice

Member since 7/08 1351 total posts
Name: Liz
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Re: I hate TTC...
I know.....not fun at all! I was actually not even sad when AF came last month because I was glad to have 12 days of not wondering whether or not I was pregnant. It totally blows sometimes.....
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Posted 9/2/08 6:17 PM |
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Teachergal
We made a snowman!

Member since 1/08 3239 total posts
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Re: I hate TTC...
I know what you mean...but I have no advice because I feel the same way! It's like, the first couple of nights are fun, by the third night in a row I think, ok, let's do this and by the fourth night, I just think, let's just get it on. This is only our third cycle trying, but I can't imagine how I'm going to feel if we have to keep this up for many more months. Here's hoping that this is our month!
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Posted 9/2/08 6:18 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name: Deanna
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Re: I hate TTC...
i know, i always say this too.. i feel like its "work" and i have to learn how to have fun with it and not make it a chore.. you are not alone.. its not easy to deal with.
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Posted 9/2/08 6:19 PM |
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08mommatobe
LIF Infant

Member since 8/08 123 total posts
Name: Marissa
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Re: I hate TTC...
This is only my 1st month
I def. hear what you are saying- the first few times, it was fun- the last couple of nights it was like- "I dont care how tired we are just hurry up and give me some baby juice
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Posted 9/2/08 6:21 PM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

Member since 10/07 17048 total posts
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Re: I hate TTC...
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Posted 9/2/08 6:59 PM |
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luckysmom
Yes it is! Going as planned:)
Member since 6/07 5339 total posts
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Re: I hate TTC...
I feel like it's a chore sometimes
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Posted 9/2/08 7:07 PM |
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SeekingBFP
LIF Infant

Member since 8/08 79 total posts
Name:
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Re: I hate TTC...
I was TTC obsessed all summer bc im a teacher and i was off. Now that school is starting, im less obsessed. Also, after 9 mons of trying, im kinda used to it now
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Posted 9/2/08 7:30 PM |
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MrsPowers
So blessed!

Member since 11/06 10348 total posts
Name: Ivelysse
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Re: I hate TTC...
I agree. I think we all get frustrated at times.
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Posted 9/2/08 8:18 PM |
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TCOMF09
LIF Adult

Member since 7/07 1086 total posts
Name: Laura
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Re: I hate TTC...
I agree....no fun at all...
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Posted 9/2/08 8:33 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
Name: sara
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Re: I hate TTC...
I So agree with you and like you this is only month 1 for us too......I said to DH you better start praying that we get lucky quickly as I dont know if I have the patience for this. We have been bd'g like rabbits all weekend and I am so over it already.
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Posted 9/2/08 10:29 PM |
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Re: I hate TTC...
Message edited 9/1/2011 8:44:21 PM.
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Posted 9/2/08 10:48 PM |
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SweetCin
My green-eyed boy

Member since 5/05 13499 total posts
Name: Cin
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Re: I hate TTC...
I agree, it does seem like a chore
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Posted 9/3/08 4:35 PM |
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!

Member since 1/08 2186 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: I hate TTC...
i am so right there with you the way my body has been messing with my mind i cant take it anymore.. and sex is like a job around O time i just cant enjoy it then cuz i feel like it just has to be done it totally sucks i for a BFp this month or i think im gonna have to stop ttc cuz i feel like i am making myself crazy
to you i hope its your month!
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Posted 9/3/08 6:59 PM |
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ker21318
LIF Infant

Member since 11/07 296 total posts
Name: Kerry
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Re: I hate TTC...
It might be from the stress. try and relax and take a night off from trying.
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Posted 9/4/08 11:13 AM |
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