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ItsaJoya19
my cup runneth over
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i can't do this anymore...
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
Ughhh...I'm so sorry! There is nothing wrong with taking a break for a bit if that's what you need. You have to do what's right for you. Please don't get so down on yourself though, you ARE worthy of being pregnant. When I start to have similar feelings and wonder why it's taking us so long but others have it so easy I try and tell myself that it is because I can handle it and maybe they can't. You can handle it, you can do it, and if you decide to take a break it doens't mean you can't. It means you are strong, smart and mature enough to know what your mind and body needs and when.
Good luck!
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| Posted 5/15/10 3:56 PM |
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
Today, you can be upset and think you are going to give up BUT tomorrow is a new day. You'll have another chance to try again soon. I know how hard this process is...I see people come and go, yet am still here, waiting 11 months later. Lots of and  and of course  for you.
It WILL work out, you have to believe it. Good luck to you! 
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| Posted 5/15/10 3:57 PM |
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
Posted by MrsDeVito
When I start to have similar feelings and wonder why it's taking us so long but others have it so easy I try and tell myself that it is because I can handle it and maybe they can't.
This is exactly what I tell myself too! God knows what I can handle (however, he's really testing me lately!)
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Harlow-J
Mason's mommy!
Member since 12/09 3623 total posts
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
First of all,
It's going to happen for you. As hard as it is to keep going through this month after month, try and stay positive.
So many women I know went through absolute hell to have a baby. Whether they were going to RE's, trying month after month, charting, temping, etc. They were all different ages, ranging all the way into their mid 40's. They all had histories of chemicals or mc's...or trying for years...
Bottom line is, eventually they all got pregnant and delivered healthy happy beautiful babies. And they are the most amazing mommies.
While I'm only TTC on month 2 so far, I hope this helps make you feel better. Please don't hesitate to FM me if you need ANYTHING or want to hear some of their stories.
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allIwant
Love my crazy life!
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I am so sorry you are having a rough time
i hope the ice cream helps and you wake up tom feeling better
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ns1011
I'm wide awake
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Nic
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
Your post sounds EXACTLY like mine was last month. I totally get how you feel and I'm so sorry that you have to feel this way . This is definitely one of the hardest things in life so far to deal with. I know it doesn't really make it any easier, but just know that you are not alone in this.
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| Posted 5/15/10 5:48 PM |
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AMPirate
Missing our peanut :(
Member since 11/09 1678 total posts
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Antoinette
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I'm sorry you are having a rough day. Try to have faith and know that it will happen for you. It may not happen in the time you want but it will happen.
Do whatever it is that makes you feel better. Take a little time for yourself. Know that we are here if you need us.
Baby dust for next cycle!
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| Posted 5/15/10 6:29 PM |
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angel333
Sigh.....
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curiousO
he is here.. thank you God
Member since 10/07 2344 total posts
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Me
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
i am so sorry hun... goo dluck for next month!
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MillerTime424
LIF Adolescent
Member since 7/09 737 total posts
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Colleen
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
im sorry you are going throught that!
maybe take a step back and stop "trying" and just continue your normal life and see what happens and be sure to  as before...maybe by not thinking about it , it could happen!
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Exarina
My Two Girls
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Lisa Marie
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I understand how you feel, I feel the same and you know what you are right- you need to take a break because minus the 2 week wait and the week worth of days to BD., we only have a week and a half to not obsess with BDing.
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| Posted 5/17/10 9:59 AM |
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MrsFein09
We are so in Love with you!!!
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I am sorry you are feeling this way!!.
I know how you are feeling. I was feeling that way at the end of my March and DH and I took April off. I can tell you taking the one month made all the difference.
You have endured so far you are a very strong woman. Keep your chin up you will get your BFP!!
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| Posted 5/17/10 10:34 AM |
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dkny
LIF Infant
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I am so sorry lots of for next month
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bmm238
LIF Infant
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I'm so sorry.....This really is all soooo frustrating!!!
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AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/09 864 total posts
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EDD 10/22!
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I'm so sorry! I know how you feel, I never would have imagined how hard this process would be for some of us.
Many for you!!!!!!!
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| Posted 5/17/10 6:36 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I'm sorry hun!
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DaisyGirl
LIF Adult
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I'm so sorry. This is not always an easy journey. Give yourself time to be upset, disappointed and angry then... try to be positive for your next cycle.
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Re: i can't do this anymore...
I am so sorry
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