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christy
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I can't believe the day has come.
After 16 AMAZING months home, I return to my teaching position tomorrow. I am terribly sad over this. I know I am not the only one to go through it, but I have been crying myself to sleep for days. I don't know if I am strong enough to get through it. I don't want my daughter to think I am abandoning her or that I don't love her anymore. I just feel sick. I wish I could resign, but I can't afford to be home for another minute. Thanks for reading.
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Janice
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
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| Posted 2/1/09 9:58 AM |
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LJSMommy
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
Think on the other side of the coin though! You got to be home for 16 months!! That's awesome & much more then a lot of Mom's are able to do!!
 Good luck!!
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| Posted 2/1/09 10:03 AM |
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christy
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
Posted by maybeajunebaby
Think on the other side of the coin though! You got to be home for 16 months!! That's awesome & much more then a lot of Mom's are able to do!!
Good luck!!
I am trying. It just hurts today.
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| Posted 2/1/09 10:10 AM |
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cantbelieveit
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
I can completely understand! I really need to work and had the same feelings about DD.
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Mkr09
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
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| Posted 2/1/09 10:43 AM |
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browneyedgirl
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
i'm right there with you--i go back tomorrow as well.
good luck. somehow we'll get through it
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| Posted 2/1/09 10:51 AM |
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MrsPornStar
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
I know how you feel. I went back to work 2 weeks ago and it hurt like crazy. It's tough but you will get through it. Just keep thinking about how happy your DD will be and you'll be when you see each other after work.
I cried the first week when I left DS and the whole ride to work. However, as it came time to go home, I was just so excited to see him and kept picturing his beautiful smile in my head. The second week was a little better.
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dapnkap
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
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metsgirlie
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
I'm so sorry Christy. It is very hard but you will make it!
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| Posted 2/1/09 11:27 AM |
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ASJ2008
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snowflake08
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
I am kind of going through the same thing; only I have only been home for 6 weeks
I am going back on Thursday and the thought makes me nauseous
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Tine73
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
It will be ok!!
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KAAM
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
Me too! I go back tomorrow after 7 months at home. my lunch is packed, coffee pot is set, I cant believe I have to get back into this routine again. 
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july0105
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
I'm in a similar boat. I'm returning to teaching tomorrow after being home since last March. I just sobbed as I put DS down for a nap. I went in to school two days last week and was so disgusted with my room and my schedule. I am trying so hard to be positive, but it is so hard! Hang in there!
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Daisy07
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
Posted by browneyedgirl
i'm right there with you--i go back tomorrow as well.
good luck. somehow we'll get through it
Me too
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dawnygirl25
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ME75
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
i was in your position this past september i thought there was no way she or I would survive it. and i won't lie, the first month was horrible for both of us. at 15 months she had to get used to being taken care of by someone else other than me, and i had to carve my niche as a working mom-AND get over missing her and the guilt, etc.
now, it is a whole different story. things are better than i would have imagined. i won't go on and on about how well we have adjusted and what an amazing thing daycare has been for my DD and why, b/c i know you are hurting and don't want to hear a long story. BUT i will tell you to give it a try and try to be patient. you will be strong enough especially if this is something that you have to do. you are doing it for your family. also, i am a school librarian and i think being a teacher is the best job you can have if you're a mom! the hours and the vacations can't be beat, and if you don't have a long commute it's even better.
good luck!! take your time with it! it is going to be alright!
p.s. summer is not too far away!!
Message edited 2/1/2009 2:55:07 PM.
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christy
Mommy of 2
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
Thank you so much for the hugs and responses. They really do mean a lot to me.
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InShock
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pixie
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
I just keep thinking June isnt that far away
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| Posted 2/1/09 6:10 PM |
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cloddy
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
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lovemy2boys
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
the end of the school year will come so fast
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Gatsbygirl
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Re: I can't believe the day has come.
2 weeks to Feb. break
You will be so busy at work that the time will sly and it will be so great to see your after school.
Good luck
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