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How much $$ should we give total?

Forum Opinion Poll
What we would normally give if it was here 15 13.76%
$100 29 26.61%
$200 49 44.95%
$300 12 11.01%
$400 1 0.92%
$400+ 3 2.75%
 

How much $$ wedding gift...

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Cookiegobbler
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Nicole

How much $$ wedding gift...

DH's cousin is getting married in December in Universal Studios in FLA. We will be traveling there and staying at the hotel in Universal.. all costing a pretty penny. My question is, with us paying for hotel & air... how much is okay to give for a gift?

Posted 5/23/07 12:55 PM
 

PotofLuck06
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Betsy

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I'd give btw $100-200.

Posted 5/23/07 12:55 PM
 

curliegirl
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Gina

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I voted $200, but thinking about it, I would probably give $300, especially since it's family....

Posted 5/23/07 12:56 PM
 

Shroggie
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by PotofLuck06

I'd give btw $100-200.



same here...maybe $150

Posted 5/23/07 12:56 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I'd do $250

Posted 5/23/07 12:56 PM
 

Emily
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STBHC

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I voted for 200 because 250 was not an option. It's still family even though you are paying a fortune for accomadations.

Posted 5/23/07 12:57 PM
 

Cookiegobbler
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Nicole

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

True... however, she didnt come to our wedding, nor did she come to BIL and SIL's wedding, and she didnt send a gift.

Posted 5/23/07 12:58 PM
 

Shorty
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really

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by Cookiegobbler

True... however, she didnt come to our wedding, nor did she come to BIL and SIL's wedding, and she didnt send a gift.


ok ok
that knocks it to 200

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Posted 5/23/07 12:59 PM
 

Jessee
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Jessee

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I say $100. If I were having a destination wedding, unless it was my immediate family, I would not expect they type of gift I would get if there was no traveled involved. In fact, I'd be surprised if I got anything.

Posted 5/23/07 1:05 PM
 

jxnoscar
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Member since 8/06

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Nancy

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I tend to give the same amount I would give to them if they had a wedding here. My gifts usually are decided in by the kind of relationship we have with the couple/person.

Posted 5/23/07 1:07 PM
 

Cookiegobbler
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Nicole

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by jxnoscar

I tend to give the same amount I would give to them if they had a wedding here. My gifts usually are decided in by the kind of relationship we have with the couple/person.




Yea, I do agree... I should preface, that I've never even met her.

Posted 5/23/07 1:12 PM
 

jxnoscar
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Nancy

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by Cookiegobbler

Posted by jxnoscar

I tend to give the same amount I would give to them if they had a wedding here. My gifts usually are decided in by the kind of relationship we have with the couple/person.




Yea, I do agree... I should preface, that I've never even met her.



She did not come to your wedding? Was she invited? Maybe than 200.00
What is your immediate family giving?

Posted 5/23/07 1:19 PM
 

angnick
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Angela

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

i'd give 200
normally i would give 300

Posted 5/23/07 1:55 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Susan

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by Cookiegobbler

True... however, she didnt come to our wedding, nor did she come to BIL and SIL's wedding, and she didnt send a gift.



I wouldn't go at all and I would send her a gift.

Posted 5/23/07 1:56 PM
 

TreAnt427
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Tracy

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

$150-200

Posted 5/23/07 2:00 PM
 

curliegirl
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Gina

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I change back to my original answer with $200 knowing all the info now.

Posted 5/23/07 2:06 PM
 

july06bride
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Nicole

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!

If you did want to go- I would give $200.00 most likely-now that I think about this more- I probably would not give that much- probably $100.00 and a registry gift-smaller item!

Message edited 5/23/2007 2:20:03 PM.

Posted 5/23/07 2:14 PM
 

Mommy2Boys
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C

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!



I agree! Especially now with the baby. It's too much. If you really really want to go, I would give $100-$150 tops and even that is too much after air flight and hotel for someone who didnt give you a gift.

Posted 5/23/07 2:18 PM
 

Christine
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by july06bride

given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!



This is what I would do.

Posted 5/23/07 2:37 PM
 

Stacey1403
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by Christine

Posted by july06bride

given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!



This is what I would do.



Me too

Posted 5/23/07 3:40 PM
 

Ltdentway99
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I would give $100. Out of NY, they really do not give big sums of money. The 100 will probably be generous.

Posted 5/23/07 4:12 PM
 

alnem
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Emily

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by Christine

Posted by july06bride

given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!



This is what I would do.



ditto. if i had a destination wedding i would just be happy people cared enough to come. you know there's an added expense to attend so to expect the same gift as a non DW would be a bit much.

Posted 5/23/07 4:18 PM
 

DaniJude
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Danielle

Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

Posted by angnick

i'd give 200
normally i would give 300



ITA

Posted 5/23/07 5:27 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I voted for $200.

Posted 5/23/07 5:32 PM
 

Mrs. Patticakes
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...

I think $200 would be good given the circumstances

Posted 5/23/07 5:41 PM
 
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