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Cookiegobbler
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Member since 9/05 5759 total posts
Name: Nicole
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How much $$ wedding gift...
DH's cousin is getting married in December in Universal Studios in FLA. We will be traveling there and staying at the hotel in Universal.. all costing a pretty penny. My question is, with us paying for hotel & air... how much is okay to give for a gift?
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Posted 5/23/07 12:55 PM |
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PotofLuck06
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Member since 11/06 13241 total posts
Name: Betsy
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I'd give btw $100-200.
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Posted 5/23/07 12:55 PM |
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curliegirl
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Member since 3/06 10128 total posts
Name: Gina
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I voted $200, but thinking about it, I would probably give $300, especially since it's family....
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Posted 5/23/07 12:56 PM |
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Shroggie
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by PotofLuck06
I'd give btw $100-200.
same here...maybe $150
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Posted 5/23/07 12:56 PM |
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Shorty
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Member since 5/05 30390 total posts
Name: really
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I'd do $250
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Posted 5/23/07 12:56 PM |
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Emily
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Member since 7/06 8703 total posts
Name: STBHC
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I voted for 200 because 250 was not an option. It's still family even though you are paying a fortune for accomadations.
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Posted 5/23/07 12:57 PM |
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Cookiegobbler
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Member since 9/05 5759 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
True... however, she didnt come to our wedding, nor did she come to BIL and SIL's wedding, and she didnt send a gift.
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Posted 5/23/07 12:58 PM |
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Shorty
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by Cookiegobbler
True... however, she didnt come to our wedding, nor did she come to BIL and SIL's wedding, and she didnt send a gift.
ok ok that knocks it to 200
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Posted 5/23/07 12:59 PM |
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Jessee
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Member since 3/06 1260 total posts
Name: Jessee
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I say $100. If I were having a destination wedding, unless it was my immediate family, I would not expect they type of gift I would get if there was no traveled involved. In fact, I'd be surprised if I got anything.
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Posted 5/23/07 1:05 PM |
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jxnoscar
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Member since 8/06 4156 total posts
Name: Nancy
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I tend to give the same amount I would give to them if they had a wedding here. My gifts usually are decided in by the kind of relationship we have with the couple/person.
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Posted 5/23/07 1:07 PM |
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Cookiegobbler
My little love bugs!!

Member since 9/05 5759 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by jxnoscar
I tend to give the same amount I would give to them if they had a wedding here. My gifts usually are decided in by the kind of relationship we have with the couple/person.
Yea, I do agree... I should preface, that I've never even met her.
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Posted 5/23/07 1:12 PM |
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jxnoscar
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Member since 8/06 4156 total posts
Name: Nancy
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by Cookiegobbler
Posted by jxnoscar
I tend to give the same amount I would give to them if they had a wedding here. My gifts usually are decided in by the kind of relationship we have with the couple/person.
Yea, I do agree... I should preface, that I've never even met her.
She did not come to your wedding? Was she invited? Maybe than 200.00 What is your immediate family giving?
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Posted 5/23/07 1:19 PM |
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angnick
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Member since 8/06 6663 total posts
Name: Angela
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
i'd give 200 normally i would give 300
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Posted 5/23/07 1:55 PM |
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Blu-ize
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Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name: Susan
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by Cookiegobbler
True... however, she didnt come to our wedding, nor did she come to BIL and SIL's wedding, and she didnt send a gift.
I wouldn't go at all and I would send her a gift.
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Posted 5/23/07 1:56 PM |
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TreAnt427
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Name: Tracy
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
$150-200
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Posted 5/23/07 2:00 PM |
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curliegirl
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Member since 3/06 10128 total posts
Name: Gina
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I change back to my original answer with $200 knowing all the info now.
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Posted 5/23/07 2:06 PM |
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july06bride
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Member since 5/05 3966 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!
If you did want to go- I would give $200.00 most likely-now that I think about this more- I probably would not give that much- probably $100.00 and a registry gift-smaller item!
Message edited 5/23/2007 2:20:03 PM.
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Posted 5/23/07 2:14 PM |
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Mommy2Boys
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Member since 6/06 14437 total posts
Name: C
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!
I agree! Especially now with the baby. It's too much. If you really really want to go, I would give $100-$150 tops and even that is too much after air flight and hotel for someone who didnt give you a gift.
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Posted 5/23/07 2:18 PM |
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Christine
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by july06bride
given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!
This is what I would do.
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Posted 5/23/07 2:37 PM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by Christine
Posted by july06bride
given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!
This is what I would do.
Me too
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Posted 5/23/07 3:40 PM |
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Ltdentway99
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I would give $100. Out of NY, they really do not give big sums of money. The 100 will probably be generous.
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Posted 5/23/07 4:12 PM |
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alnem
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Member since 2/06 9562 total posts
Name: Emily
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by Christine
Posted by july06bride
given the background info- haven't met her, didn't come to your wedding, didn't send a gift, I wouldn't even go to the wedding... I would send $100-$150.00 or a registry gift and call it a day!
This is what I would do.
ditto. if i had a destination wedding i would just be happy people cared enough to come. you know there's an added expense to attend so to expect the same gift as a non DW would be a bit much.
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Posted 5/23/07 4:18 PM |
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DaniJude
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Member since 11/06 14815 total posts
Name: Danielle
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
Posted by angnick
i'd give 200 normally i would give 300
ITA
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Posted 5/23/07 5:27 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I voted for $200.
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Posted 5/23/07 5:32 PM |
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Re: How much $$ wedding gift...
I think $200 would be good given the circumstances
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Posted 5/23/07 5:41 PM |
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