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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

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pumpkinmom
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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Trying to not go too crazy with Bday and Christmas pretty close together, but I don't want her to feel like she didn't get many presents. Her younger sister definitely had more to open, although I probably spent about the same so far.
We usually open our bday gifts privately as soon as she wakes up. So, it's not like other gifts will add to it.

Posted 10/21/16 11:47 AM
 
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Katareen
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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.

Posted 10/21/16 12:03 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



This

Posted 10/21/16 12:45 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

For bdays the kids usually get so many gifts from family and friends that I just transfer money into their accounts. Each child gets $100 for every birthday from us.

Posted 10/21/16 1:55 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

We give them one present and a party. Often times it is something larger and the grandparents chip in too.

Posted 10/21/16 2:00 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

We take them to toys r us and they can pick out a toy. Weve been doing this for a couple of years .

Posted 10/21/16 2:05 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

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Posted 10/21/16 2:06 PM
 

MrsT809
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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

For DD's fourth we gave her a book, a puzzle, and 2 or 3 inexpensive toys. I can't imagine not getting her anything even though she has more than enough as it is.

Posted 10/21/16 2:10 PM
 

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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

We just get DD a couple things to open (maybe 4 or 5 small things).

Posted 10/21/16 2:31 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by JDubs

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



This



This.

Posted 10/21/16 3:25 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



Same.

Posted 10/21/16 3:28 PM
 

MK2010
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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



ITA


Posted 10/21/16 3:41 PM
 

2BadSoSad
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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Kids get 1 big present from us and 2 or 3 small gifts on their bday.

We go nuts at Christmas, so we keep the birthday giving smaller.

Posted 10/21/16 9:16 PM
 

ChristinaM128
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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



This exactly! Her parties are her gift! I may grab a random toy from the Xmas stash to wrap up but she's so distracted by all the other gifts and the party that I don't think it dawns on her to think about whether we got her a gift.

Posted 10/21/16 10:24 PM
 

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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

One.

Posted 10/22/16 8:16 AM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



This!

Posted 10/22/16 9:45 AM
 

phoenix913
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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

We usually spend about $100 on bday gifts. So for ds2 who just turned 3 that was like 8 small gifts. But we don't do parties. We just have immediate family come for cake. If we start doing friend parties in the future I'm sure we'll scale back the presents.

Posted 10/22/16 10:14 AM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Tiggeruth

Posted by JDubs

Posted by Katareen

Honestly, they either get 1 present or 0 presents from us...we usually have a family party and they get/have so much.



This



This.



Yep. This is what we do. Sometimes I go to the dollar tree and pick out a small toy I know he'd like.

Posted 10/22/16 11:47 AM
 

MrsB12614
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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

We already decided because we have the twins that when birthdays get here for them, they will each get $$ from us in their savings account, and we will take the day off (not sure how long we will keep that up with school age) and have an experience day- something they like. For things like year 1 when they are too young for many things they will get something special they can keep forever.
I'm sure they will get so much from family and friends and of coarse we will have a party for them at the house

Message edited 10/22/2016 12:22:44 PM.

Posted 10/22/16 12:21 PM
 

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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

I am the opposite of everyone who posted lol I prefer my kids to get 1 big item and a few small things from us for their bday. Then I ask family and friends to buy clothes or small toys. I'd rather the exciting stuff be from us. Same for Xmas.

Posted 10/22/16 12:59 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by Michi

I am the opposite of everyone who posted lol I prefer my kids to get 1 big item and a few small things from us for their bday. Then I ask family and friends to buy clothes or small toys. I'd rather the exciting stuff be from us. Same for Xmas.



Me too! I tend to go overboard. She just LOVES opening presents and gets so excited for Birthdays and Christmas.
She's an only child so she is a bit spoiled, but I just love giving her gifts and while i can afford to, I will

Posted 10/22/16 5:13 PM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Big party where she gets lots of gifts and we get her a zoo pass and go to the zoo. This year for her 4th bday she will get a bike.

Posted 10/22/16 9:29 PM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by Michi

I am the opposite of everyone who posted lol I prefer my kids to get 1 big item and a few small things from us for their bday. Then I ask family and friends to buy clothes or small toys. I'd rather the exciting stuff be from us. Same for Xmas.



Me too! I tend to go overboard. She just LOVES opening presents and gets so excited for Birthdays and Christmas.
She's an only child so she is a bit spoiled, but I just love giving her gifts and while i can afford to, I will



Same.

Posted 10/22/16 10:12 PM
 

LiveItUp
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How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

Wow, I guess we went "overboard" for our dds 4th bday. We got her about 10 gifts, totalling about $150, nothing more than $20, and many less than $10. She just loves getting excited for her bday and opening presents, and we love trying to make her day special for her. We also had a party for her. She got gifts from her party, of course, but we like to pick out things for her as well that we know she wants or would like. I thought that's was the norm though, too. Didn't know it was more common to give 1 gift, or no gift!

Message edited 10/23/2016 5:42:14 AM.

Posted 10/23/16 5:40 AM
 

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Re: How many Bday presents for 4 year old from parents?

When DD turned 3 DH bought her something and I bought her something. The rest came from family and her party.

Posted 10/23/16 6:09 AM
 
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