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ANewDayHasCome
Love multiplies, not divides
Member since 11/12 14481 total posts
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Me
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How do you treat others?
Just curious.
Do you treat others how they treat you or how you'd wish they treat you?
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Posted 9/26/15 8:28 AM  |
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GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!
Member since 11/06 26792 total posts
Name:
Shawn
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Re: How do you treat others?
The way I wish they treated me. I typically give more than I receive, either time, consideration, praise, etc.
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| Posted 9/26/15 8:38 AM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
Name:
Nicole
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by GoldenRod
The way I wish they treated me. I typically give more than I receive, either time, consideration, praise, etc.
This. I rarely say no to helping anyone out.
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| Posted 9/26/15 8:41 AM |
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NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..
Member since 11/09 54921 total posts
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..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: How do you treat others?
....like shit.
Just kidding. 
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| Posted 9/26/15 8:44 AM |
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RainyDay
LIF Adult
Member since 6/15 3999 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by NervousNell
....like shit.
Just kidding.
I'm usually pretty nice to people I just meet or that I don't have a personal relationship. I can be a bit moody to those who are closer to me but its because I am comfortable being that way around them. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt (which drives DH crazy) when they are Aholes to me.
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| Posted 9/26/15 9:02 AM |
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ineedababynow
LIF Infant
Member since 9/15 328 total posts
Name:
ap
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Re: How do you treat others?
I think it depends who they are. I'll bend over backwards and am one of the most giving people but come at me sideways you better believe I'll give it right back.
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| Posted 9/26/15 9:02 AM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU
Member since 3/07 13921 total posts
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ETC I LOVE YOU
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Re: How do you treat others?
Honestly im a real sweet person. Been told that for all my life. I treat people really nicely. Always go above and beyond in my personal life and when i used to work also. Life is to short to be an assh*le lol
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| Posted 9/26/15 9:07 AM |
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sweetie101
you make me smile :o)
Member since 5/08 4419 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
No because I would feel bad if I nasty back. I know some people who are rude and nasty to me but I just can't bring my self to be that way because I'm a nice person and I would feel bad. I try and look for the good in people even when I see the bad.
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| Posted 9/26/15 9:21 AM |
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DaniJude
You're My Home <3
Member since 11/06 14815 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by ineedababynow
I think it depends who they are. I'll bend over backwards and am one of the most giving people but come at me sideways you better believe I'll give it right back.
This. I am my mother's daughter, and she is so kind but tough as nails. I have been told I do too much and sometimes those who do too much get taken advantage of, so as of somewhat recent I have been very aware of this. Sometimes, also, I just quietly distance myself from the toxic ones and move toward the good/healthy.
Message edited 9/26/2015 9:52:45 AM.
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| Posted 9/26/15 9:51 AM |
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SusiBee
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Member since 3/09 8268 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
As I would like to be treated.
But, if someone is repeatedly rude, nasty, or just unkind, they are cut out.
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| Posted 9/26/15 10:01 AM |
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Naturalmama
Love my boys!!
Member since 1/12 3548 total posts
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Christine
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How do you treat others?
I treat others as I would like to be treated unless they give me a reason not to. If you treat myself or others like crap, then that is what you get in return.
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| Posted 9/26/15 10:41 AM |
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stinger
LIF Adult
Member since 11/11 4971 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
How THEY want to be treated.
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| Posted 9/26/15 11:04 AM |
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Blubtrflygrl
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/15 609 total posts
Name:
allison
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Re: How do you treat others?
IRL I tend to get along with most people.
I've also been in situations where I would love to give my 2 cents but if it's gonna cause drama, will keep my mouth shut.
Especially with family.
I've learned that as long as it's not directly affecting me and my family, it's not worth it to get involved.
I think this is the biggest difference between me and a lot of other people I know here on LI especially.
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| Posted 9/26/15 11:42 AM |
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BsMomma2014
Fly high little one
Member since 6/10 2662 total posts
Name:
nicole
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How do you treat others?
I treat others as I wish to be treated.
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| Posted 9/26/15 12:43 PM |
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MrsD121011
LIF Adult
Member since 5/12 1460 total posts
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Elicia
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by SusiBee
As I would like to be treated.
But, if someone is repeatedly rude, nasty, or just unkind, they are cut out.
This exactly
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| Posted 9/26/15 12:51 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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g
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by GoldenRod
The way I wish they treated me. I typically give more than I receive, either time, consideration, praise, etc.
This.
I try to be a nice person. I really really dislike condescending and rude people
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| Posted 9/26/15 1:37 PM |
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cets1290
LIF Adult
Member since 6/14 1051 total posts
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How do you treat others?
gonna be honest- i can't say i'm nice to everyone. I treat others the way they treat me.
Only time this is not the case is at work. If coworkers treat me like crap, I kill them with kindness because it is my career and I am not going to mess it up.
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| Posted 9/26/15 4:43 PM |
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luckysmom
Yes it is! Going as planned:)
Member since 6/07 5339 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by DaniJude
Posted by ineedababynow
I think it depends who they are. I'll bend over backwards and am one of the most giving people but come at me sideways you better believe I'll give it right back.
This. I am my mother's daughter, and she is so kind but tough as nails. I have been told I do too much and sometimes those who do too much get taken advantage of, so as of somewhat recent I have been very aware of this. Sometimes, also, I just quietly distance myself from the toxic ones and move toward the good/healthy.
All of this is me exactly!
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| Posted 9/27/15 8:32 AM |
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Mags1227
Just a mommy ...
Member since 10/10 2665 total posts
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M
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Re: How do you treat others?
it really depends on the person and situation.
i'd give my right leg for my friends, but they'd still tell you i'm tough to deal with. i am always honest and sometimes they don't like it.
at work, i try to be as nice and professional as I can, but if you are way out of line, I will start making you less of a priority than all the other requests i get daily. (it still get done, but on my time not theirs)
strangers or people i deal with in stores/restaurants/etc- depends on how they treat me and how competent they are. when I try to ask a question (always asked politely) and i get an attitude or the person has no clue what they are talking about and don't handle that well, i will just walk out
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| Posted 9/27/15 9:16 AM |
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Funkybutt
LIF Adult
Member since 4/15 3049 total posts
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How do you treat others?
I wish people online were as nice as they seem to be IRL. I've seen a few *nasty* people on a local mommy group, but then want to be treated like they're your pal when you see them in person. I can't separate the two when I deal with people. If you're an ass, I really want nothing to do with you b/c I don't need that drama in my life (unless it's work and I just go out of my way to avoid them as much as possible).
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| Posted 9/27/15 9:32 AM |
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LoveDayLove
LIF Adult
Member since 2/11 1250 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
I treat people the way I wish they treated me. I do way more for others than they do for me. It's something I have tried to work on but it's a hard behavior to change. It hurts me a lot which has caused me to become more hardened.
Message edited 9/27/2015 10:51:14 AM.
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| Posted 9/27/15 10:46 AM |
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bunnyluck
LIF Adult
Member since 1/14 3196 total posts
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How do you treat others?
I'm always nice until you give me a reason not to be. But I can and do forgive and forget in most circumstances. I try to always give people the benefit of the doubt too and try not to have expectations of anyone. At the same time, I try not to let others take advantage of me. So I'd say I treat others fairly. I'm never rude to strangers, customer service reps, waiter's, servers in general. But I'm not overly friendly either.
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| Posted 9/27/15 10:50 AM |
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islandersgirl74
Love Being A Mommy!
Member since 6/06 5804 total posts
Name:
Michelle
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Re: How do you treat others?
Posted by Lara&Aidansmommy
Honestly im a real sweet person. Been told that for all my life. I treat people really nicely. Always go above and beyond in my personal life and when i used to work also. Life is to short to be an assh*le lol
Same for me! But now that I have a daughter and am a little bit older.....if you mess with my daughter or my family I may not be so nice.
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| Posted 9/27/15 3:10 PM |
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Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
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Re: How do you treat others?
In general, I'm very nice............almost too nice sometimes. I make a point of being kind and friendly to everyone I meet throughout my day and I always try to be considerate of my family and friends. That being said, I'm also not afraid to speak my mind or state my opinion if need be. There is a fine line between being nice and being a doormat, I'm certainly NOT a doormat. 
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| Posted 9/28/15 8:43 AM |
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
Member since 7/09 18802 total posts
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DiamondMama
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Re: How do you treat others?
I am a nice person but I am not a martyr or a sucker, I can give it as good as a I get it if need be
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