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Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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snowflake08
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Laura

Hi Ladies....Update on DH

Dont know if anyone remembers but i was asking for prayers last week

i took Dh to the ER and he DID have a mini stroke
I cant even tell you how much has happened in the last 6 days

We have been in the hospital since Sunday
I JUST got a signal on my computer -
They have done dozens of tests on him and have no answers as to why this happened to my 37 year old DH

THANKFULLY - he had NO hemorrhaging in the brain and no permanent damage -
All symptoms have gone and we are hoping he is discharged Tuesday or Wednesday

Thanks for all of the prayers!!!

Posted 8/23/08 8:17 PM
 
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Jen2999
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Member since 8/06

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Name:
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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Posted 8/23/08 8:18 PM
 

GreenGirl05
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Member since 1/06

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Name:
J

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

So glad to hear that he is recuperating.....it's frustrating when they don't know why something occurs. Hope he stays on the mend! Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/08 8:22 PM
 

newwife08
LIF Adult

Member since 6/08

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Name:
Indira

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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Posted 8/23/08 8:23 PM
 

snowflake08
Love my boys!!!

Member since 8/07

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Name:
Laura

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

his speech really started coming back yesterday

it was VERY scary for those other days
It all felt surreal; like I was living someone else's life

Thanks ladies for responding

Posted 8/23/08 10:30 PM
 

Moosey911
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Member since 5/05

771 total posts

Name:
Nicki

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

??? How have they not told you what happened? You stated in your orignal post that your DH had an emergency appendectomy on Wednesday...a day or two later, the onset of stroke symptoms occured.

In ANY surgical procedure, the possibility of a stroke or TIA should be discussed with the patient. What happened to your DH is during the surgery, a small clot formed somewhere in his system and traveled to his brain....hence, causing the TIA and concurrent dysphasia. This is certainly not a common complication to surgery, but it is a possibility that should have been discussed with you and DH when you spoke with the doctors. In recovery, the nurses or docs should have told you what to look out for over the next few days. Then you would have been better informed and had an idea of what was happening at the time and could've acted quicker. Shame on those surgeons!!! The fact that you thought it could be an allergic reaction (as well as some other posters) is really scary!!! I'm so glad to hear that things have turned out OK and you got him to the hospital, it could've been much much worse.

I have no idea why the doctors haven't discussed this with you yet.....I'm sorry I didn't read your post until now--I would have told you to take your DH to the ER immediately!!! One doesn't necessarily exhibit ALL of the classic s/s of a stroke during these events---sometimes, it's just one single small thing. I'm so sorry I didn't catch this post in time.....but, I'm SO glad everything is turning out OK in the end.

Best of luck to you and DH!!! Hope he's 100% himself again soon. Sending lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you both.

Posted 8/23/08 10:31 PM
 

twinkletoes807
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Member since 11/07

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Name:
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

Jeezus Laura!! That is so friggin scary! How are you holding up? I cannot even imagine how you are dealing with all of this. Sending you lots of hugs and lots of prayers to DH for his complete and speedy recovery!! FM me if you need to chat or vent sweetpea. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/08 10:37 PM
 

Briannasmommy
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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Posted 8/23/08 10:37 PM
 

beachgirl13
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Member since 5/05

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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

So sorry to hear that. Hope he is doing ok!!

Posted 8/23/08 10:59 PM
 

snowflake08
Love my boys!!!

Member since 8/07

5148 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

Posted by Moosey911

??? How have they not told you what happened? You stated in your orignal post that your DH had an emergency appendectomy on Wednesday...a day or two later, the onset of stroke symptoms occured.

In ANY surgical procedure, the possibility of a stroke or TIA should be discussed with the patient. What happened to your DH is during the surgery, a small clot formed somewhere in his system and traveled to his brain....hence, causing the TIA and concurrent dysphasia. This is certainly not a common complication to surgery, but it is a possibility that should have been discussed with you and DH when you spoke with the doctors. In recovery, the nurses or docs should have told you what to look out for over the next few days. Then you would have been better informed and had an idea of what was happening at the time and could've acted quicker. Shame on those surgeons!!! The fact that you thought it could be an allergic reaction (as well as some other posters) is really scary!!! I'm so glad to hear that things have turned out OK and you got him to the hospital, it could've been much much worse.

I have no idea why the doctors haven't discussed this with you yet.....I'm sorry I didn't read your post until now--I would have told you to take your DH to the ER immediately!!! One doesn't necessarily exhibit ALL of the classic s/s of a stroke during these events---sometimes, it's just one single small thing. I'm so sorry I didn't catch this post in time.....but, I'm SO glad everything is turning out OK in the end.

Best of luck to you and DH!!! Hope he's 100% himself again soon. Sending lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you both.


thanks so much and no
none of that was discussed; no warning signs were told or written down for us to look out for

they were giving him blood thinners after the surgery; sent him home and then this happened

the brain MRI shows mild to moderate acute infarctions; and they have done over a dozen tests on him since MOnday with NO answers

It has been VERY tough
especially when he was still showing the symptoms

thankfully, his speech has recovered but we still have no answers or explanations

Posted 8/23/08 11:37 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Allison

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Posted 8/23/08 11:39 PM
 

AimeeE2006
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Aimee

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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Posted 8/23/08 11:40 PM
 

happytobreathe
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

I am so glad to hear he is doing better.
IMHO, HIRE A LAWYER! What these doctors did to your family is not right! I pray for a quick recovery!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 12:15 AM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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Posted 8/24/08 12:16 AM
 

want2beamom
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Posted 8/24/08 7:04 AM
 

tray831
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Member since 3/06

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Name:
His Baby

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH


OMG thats terrible! I do remember your post from the other day. It's true--when you know something is wrong...listen to your instincts. Unfortunatley, most men are so thick headed and they always think they're fine. Thankfully, everything is OK!

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Posted 8/24/08 8:14 AM
 

tann22
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Posted 8/24/08 8:16 AM
 

08BabySurprise
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

I am so sorry Laura. I am glad he is doing better! Chat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 8:25 AM
 

Goobster
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:)

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

OMG, I am glad he is ok, but can't imagine what you have been going thru! I was worried about you and DH!Chat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 8:27 AM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

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Posted 8/24/08 9:07 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

Hope everything is ok.
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Posted 8/24/08 9:09 AM
 

zia
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Maria

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Posted 8/24/08 9:49 AM
 

TLC1018
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Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

wow! I am so sorry to hear that, but I hope he is feeling better each day!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 9:52 AM
 

Dani922
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Danielle

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

OMG! That is so scary! I can't imagine what the last few days must have been like for you. I'm glad he's recovering well Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 9:56 AM
 

KerryAnn
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Member since 4/08

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Name:
Kerry Ann

Re: Hi Ladies....Update on DH

Wishing your DH a speedy recovery and hoping you try to stay as calm as possible. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 10:11 AM
 
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