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help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

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Hoping4Baby11
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help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

I'm so nervous that my third beta is not gonna be good. They wanted me to come in to do another check because I am a cautious and nervous patient. All these thoughts are going through my head..What if the numbers don't go up? What if they go down? I can be a very paranoid person. These were my numbers:

1st Beta:
Beta: 215
Estrogen -484
Progestrone - Greater than 40

2nd Beta:

Beta: 368
Estrogren : 746
Progestrone: Greater than 40

Please help me calm my nerves!!!!!

Updated!!

Numbers went up!!! All that worrying for nothing! I am in good shape.

Beta: 728
Estrogen: 874
Progestrone: Greater than 40

Merry Christmas everyone!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 12/24/2012 12:43:11 PM.

Posted 12/24/12 9:32 AM
 
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!

Please stay calm. Your numbers are looking great (no personal experience here, but after a while you get to know what it all means from others!)

Keep calm and try to enjoy this fantastic Christmas Gift!!!

Posted 12/24/12 10:17 AM
 

LInMI
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help Me Calm my nerves down!

I wouldn't stress! You're only going to drive yourself crazy. Try to take it easy and enjoy the next 9 months.

Posted 12/24/12 10:17 AM
 

CindySN23
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help Me Calm my nerves down!

just relax...stressing about it doesnt do anything...wishing you lots of luck!!!

Posted 12/24/12 10:30 AM
 

Hoping4Baby11
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!

Thank You ladies!!! No one has said they aren't good numbers. I guess it better to be safe than sorry. Waiting for the phone call is worse than the 2WW. DH has been very supportive and loving. Assuring me that everything is gonna be okay! The paranoia is coming out in me!!! I can't stand it!!!!

Posted 12/24/12 10:31 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!

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Unfortunately, nobody here can predict the future. Will your numbers go up? Hopefully!!!!! All you can do now is wait and see.. there's nothing you can do one way or another that will cause the numbers to rise or go down.

If all goes well, I can promise you this is not the last hurdle. You have your first sono next week you said? It will be too early then for a heartbeat. You'll go to that appointment and leave there SO SCARED that you should only see a heartbeat at the next sono ... Then every sono after that, you will be BEYOND PARANOID that there should only still be a heartbeat there like the week before.

Will it be like this the whole time? Hey, I only carried till 17wks .. I can't speak for what happens beyond that point .. but the beginning part of this process is undoubtedly very stressful!


All you can do from beta to beta.. sono to sono.. is hope for the best. If the numbers don't go up, you'll work with your doctor to figure out what he thinks happened. Hopefully, it won't come to that.. but really, 'hope' all we have here. Your username says it all.

Posted 12/24/12 11:05 AM
 

Lala08
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!

All of us telling you not to stress and relax is like pot calling kettle black unfortunately. We all need to take our own advice and realize things are beyond our control. Unfortunately us ladies on this board want to control things so badly that it drives us nuts. Just stay positive and pray that this is your time ( I'm saying prayers for you too) it may sound so harsh but its the truth. We think your numbers look great!!! But as Pennycat said all you can do is take it beta to beta sono to sono. Just know we are all here for you one way or another. I know I have only been on this board a short time(my friend just told me about it) but already I can feel how everyone cares for one another. We are all going though the same thing (we want a baby!!) please try to relax and stay positive. And when you can't we will be here to be positive for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/12 11:36 AM
 

Hoping4Baby11
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!

Thank You!! I am feeling better now!!! I should know something within the hour!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/12 11:59 AM
 

Hoping4Baby11
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

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Posted 12/24/12 12:43 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

Fantastic!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/12 1:06 PM
 

gina409
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/12 2:37 PM
 

sweetie525
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

I think it goes without saying that since we are all on this board, we all know how stressful this journey is. It's hard to encourage each other to be calm. I myself am now in the 2WW. I want so badly to enjoy this holiday season and ring in the New Year with a BFP! In the back of my mind, I am still nervous about going in for that blood test & awaiting the results. I'm so glad I found this board. I hope to only be here a short time but I have found it comforting to know I'm not alone. With that said, so far, your numbers look great! I am so very happy for you. Wishing everyone a Happy, Healthy & Fertile New Year! lol

Posted 12/24/12 4:32 PM
 

Lala08
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

Yay!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/12 6:39 PM
 

Hoping4Baby11
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Jenn

Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

Thank You all!!!! We are so excited!!

Posted 12/26/12 9:50 AM
 

PitterPatter11
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

Congrats!

Posted 12/26/12 6:48 PM
 

MrsM429
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Re: help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

So glad to see this update Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/26/12 8:00 PM
 

MrsGoldie
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R

help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

Posted 12/31/12 3:19 PM
 

beachmama
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T

help Me Calm my nerves down!**Updated!!! :)

Great news!

Posted 1/2/13 10:29 PM
 
 

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