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curiousO
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Having a tough day
At 9 dpo today, I am more than sure that I am out this cycle. I just KNOW it. It is very disappointing. I have to wait till next Tue for beta. I wish I could just start new cycle.
P.s. someone I know just announced that she is prego with twins. We got married a week apart
P.p.s. my boss yelled at me for not concentrating. Total BS, he is just picking on me.
vent over
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littlebeanz
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Re: Having a tough day
How do you know...you very well might be
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| Posted 10/20/10 5:56 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Having a tough day
 Why do you think you are out?! At 9dpo, it's WAYYYYY too soon to be anything but positive! 
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| Posted 10/20/10 6:11 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Having a tough day
i agree, you cant count yourself out until you are out. do you have any logical reason to think you are out, or are you just being down on yourself??
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| Posted 10/20/10 6:11 PM |
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MrsDeVito
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Re: Having a tough day
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| Posted 10/20/10 6:58 PM |
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DaisyGirl
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Re: Having a tough day
I agree with the girls- don't count yourself out yet!
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| Posted 10/20/10 7:03 PM |
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curiousO
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Re: Having a tough day
Posted by FlowerWife
i agree, you cant count yourself out until you are out. do you have any logical reason to think you are out, or are you just being down on yourself??
nothing logical except for the fact that i think our timing was off. Even though I triggered, we BD the day before O and a day after. On the day of O, Dh had issues performing.
plus i do not feel anything special, nothing at all. i have an idea that when i am prego, i will just know it in my heart.
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| Posted 10/20/10 7:59 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Having a tough day
When I got my BFP, I felt EXHAUSTED! But, there wasn't anything magical about how I felt overall before I got my BFP. You just don't know! Even if there were issues on O day doesn't mean you're out!!!! Those spermies live up there for up to .. what... 72 hours is it? 
Are you POAS or waiting for beta?
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| Posted 10/20/10 8:06 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Having a tough day
well seriously, cheer up 
if you  the day before O and the day after O, theres no reason you couldnt have caught the egg. tons of people dont have symptoms!!
im not saying to have false hope but you HAVE to be positive during IF treatments. its really important!!!
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| Posted 10/20/10 8:07 PM |
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curiousO
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Re: Having a tough day
Posted by PennyCat
When I got my BFP, I felt EXHAUSTED! But, there wasn't anything magical about how I felt overall before I got my BFP. You just don't know! Even if there were issues on O day doesn't mean you're out!!!! Those spermies live up there for up to .. what... 72 hours is it?
Are you POAS or waiting for beta?
POAS yesterday (8dpo) and today (9dpo). Both are clearly negative.
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| Posted 10/20/10 8:13 PM |
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curiousO
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Re: Having a tough day
Posted by FlowerWife
well seriously, cheer up
if you the day before O and the day after O, theres no reason you couldnt have caught the egg. tons of people dont have symptoms!!
im not saying to have false hope but you HAVE to be positive during IF treatments. its really important!!!
ok, another very logical reason is this: if DH's repeat SA test ( waiting for results) confirms the first test ( the one with 19% motility ), then chances are NIL with timed intercourse and about 5% per cycle with IUI. Ugh..
ok, i will cheer up. i am making a trip to fridge to see if there is anything yummy .
Message edited 10/20/2010 8:16:23 PM.
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bride07
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Re: Having a tough day
Stay positive!! You never know, and I never had symptoms before my BFP.
I think Your BD schedule should of covered all bases. Lot's of prayers for a BFP for you!!!!
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| Posted 10/20/10 8:21 PM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: Having a tough day
I thought i was out all day today too...and you know how that ended It is so incredibly hard to stay positive, but you have to try. 9DPO is way toooo early!
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| Posted 10/20/10 8:24 PM |
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littlebeanz
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Re: Having a tough day
9 dpo is too early..
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| Posted 10/21/10 1:39 PM |
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RGEC47
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Re: Having a tough day
I am sorry you are feeling down. But like a lot of the women said, 9DPO is a bit early. I also read a day before O is recommended, as it takes those guys sometime to swim up there. So you never know.
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| Posted 10/21/10 2:11 PM |
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curiousO
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Re: Having a tough day
thank you for support ladies. Today is another day and I feel somewhat calm. It is all in God's hands in the end. GL to everyone in 2ww!
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| Posted 10/21/10 2:23 PM |
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readts78
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Re: Having a tough day
don't give up!
After my third IVF cycle, I was waiting for results and spotting all morning! I had resigned myself to the idea that it didn't work...again! Very tough. but then.....
I got my BFP that same day!
Hang in there. It is early!
And if it is a no....stay strong, keep praying, we are all here for you. It WILL happen!
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| Posted 10/21/10 2:46 PM |
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PurpleC
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Re: Having a tough day
Im having a really rough day today. I go in Monday for my results of my IVF and Im soo nervous. I keep having cramps and pain and I keep crying today.
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| Posted 10/21/10 6:03 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Having a tough day
Maybe it's in the air... I'm feeling down too
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| Posted 10/21/10 6:05 PM |
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FergieK
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Re: Having a tough day
its ok to vent
Let it out we are here to listen
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| Posted 10/21/10 7:49 PM |
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curiousO
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Re: Having a tough day
Posted by PennyCat
Maybe it's in the air... I'm feeling down too
awwwwwwwww anything in particular? or just life sucks moment?
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| Posted 10/21/10 8:09 PM |
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curiousO
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Re: Having a tough day
Posted by PurpleC
Im having a really rough day today. I go in Monday for my results of my IVF and Im soo nervous. I keep having cramps and pain and I keep crying today.
hold tight, sweetie much of luck on Monday
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SillyGoose
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Re: Having a tough day
I agree with everyone 9dpo is very ealy and if you triggered at least you know WHEN it comes out positive it will be the real deal and not from the trigger shot.
I am the number one pessimist when it comes to life, BUT this is where you fight those negative feelings otherwise it'll be a self fulfilling prophecy. Hang in there, a few more days and keep your head up.
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| Posted 10/21/10 8:21 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: Having a tough day
Just FYI- when I got pregnant with DD after IVF I felt NOTHING. My first prgnancy I had SUCH sore boobs so I knew right away, but miscarried. With DD I was SO sure I wasn't pregnant, and now she's 14 months old
Good Luck!
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| Posted 10/21/10 8:22 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Having a tough day
stay strong ladies.
i was a wreck all last week.
when my OHSS symptoms didn't come back i thought it was a terrible sign. there was NOTHING that made me believe that i would get a BFP other than HOPE. i was seriously shaking and practically crying before i even tested because i was so afraid of a BFN. and you all know the results!!
so try to stay positive! we all have our moments of negativity in this process, but overall you HAVE to believe it will happen!!!
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