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MommaBear
Very much in love!
Member since 6/10 2864 total posts
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Angela
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Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
On Wednesday DH and I met with a genetic counselor about the results of our AFP results. While she was happy that there were no physical markers on the baby during our level 2, she said one does not cancel the other. She spoke to us about being prepared for delivery if the baby does in fact have Downs Syndrome (my risk came back as 1:146). She said having an amnio isn't just for termination reasons - we DEFINITELY would not terminate so we thought an amnio wasn't even a posibility for us.
When we left the appt we were more "no" to an amnio than "yes" - I called my dr to talk about my level 2 results and to see what I should do. He reassured me that the place that would do the amnio does them every single day and it's a lot safer than you think. I was reading on the March of Dimes website that there was a study done which said your risk is really more like 1 in 1600 for miscarriage at a place with a highly qualified dr (which I believe I have).
So after a lot of talking and LOTS of crying, I am going to have an amnio tomorrow. I'm 27 years old - I never could have imagined I'd be going through this but we want to know a definitive yes or no so we can be prepared - there can be complications thoughout the pregnancy if the test comes back positive and we want to make sure that the way we're going about delivery would be our safest option.
I'd appreciate any prayers you can say for us tomorrow - I need to stay optimistic and know this is the best thing I can be doing in this situation. I'm scared but this is something I know we'll get through.
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:16 PM |
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MrsRitaB
Love of my life! <3
Member since 4/10 4669 total posts
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Ri
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
OH ANGELA I AM SO SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS BUT I DO BELIEVE YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:18 PM |
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babylove628
mommy of two!
Member since 11/09 2733 total posts
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Maggie
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
you are in my prayers
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:18 PM |
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drwifettc
LIF Adult
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Lots of prayers for you!
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:20 PM |
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springsandra
Baby girl has a baby brother!
Member since 11/09 7155 total posts
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Sandra
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Many prayers and wishes for good news soon! Glad you are in very capable hands!!
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:20 PM |
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julesrbf
Baby Girl
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Hang in there Ang ... it's best to be as prepared as possible! Please update us as soon as you have more info.
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:23 PM |
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Babyaholic
Thankful
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D
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
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MrsJakob
Naterade is Thirstade!
Member since 6/10 3002 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Try not to stress out about this. These tests aren't 100% accurate either. Just remember that you are preparing yourself for any situation.
Lots of
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:30 PM |
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HappyWife515
LIF Toddler
Member since 7/09 406 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
I completly understand how you feel. I was 25 years old having an amnio and just could not believe it. I thought this wasn't even something I had to worry about yet. We did it for peace of mind and to prepare us for how our LO would be. We didn't find out for termination reasons.
Please let me know if you have any questions! Lots of prayers for you and your LO. Everything will be fine
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:36 PM |
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SweetOctBaby
LIF Toddler
Member since 4/10 459 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
You are being VERY brave and you should feel proud of yourself for taking the neccessary steps. This is your first true test of being a GREAT mom and you passed- your doing whats right for you and baby!
Keep the faith and keep us updated!
Best of luck
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:36 PM |
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miamimerger
Loving my bundle of pure JOY!
Member since 4/10 2429 total posts
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Laura
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
hang in there, and let us know if you need anything! i can imagine having or not having an amnio is a tough decision, and i'm glad you made a choice that YOU and your DH are comfortable with. best of luck and hugs!
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:48 PM |
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SpringMama
LIF Infant
Member since 4/10 103 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Sending so many prayers your way. I know what you're going through. I hope everything will be ok for you.
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:50 PM |
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gporka23
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Tons of hugs & prayers for you
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:52 PM |
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neener1211
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J
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Many hugs and prayers for you!
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| Posted 10/7/10 4:54 PM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Many prayers for you and your LO.
I'm sorry you have to go through the additional testing. I think it will be better to know definitely and be prepared.
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| Posted 10/7/10 5:04 PM |
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MrsYank
She's here :)
Member since 4/07 3238 total posts
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Mrs. Yank
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
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mrsboss
my little love
Member since 12/09 5054 total posts
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Me
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
I think you are doing the right thing. Many prayers your way
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| Posted 10/7/10 5:30 PM |
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heathergirl
Cocktail Time!
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American mouth
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
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azailia
He's TWO already!!!
Member since 9/09 1507 total posts
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Dana
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
I don't know what to say. You will be in my prayers.
The only advice I can give you, is to try not to look at the big picture. Just take one day at a time. Get through the amnio and then see where that takes you. Everything could still be fine.
You are such an amazing person with a fantastic hubby and a tight, supporting, loving family.... no matter what happens, you and your baby are truly lucky.
Continue to stay optimistic. Regardless you will be a wonderful mom!!!
Love you!!! and if there is ANYTHING you need I am always here!!!!
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| Posted 10/7/10 6:35 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
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Best Wife & Mommy
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
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jteach
2 and through
Member since 9/07 3939 total posts
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Jess
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Many many prayers that your LO is healthy, stay positive and stay strong
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Oh will def send tons of prayers your way! I agree with all the other girls who said it seems like this is the right thing - that you are doing the thing you need to do to protect your LO and have all the best care for them you can!
that everything goes well for you and your family tomorrow and that you are all filled with extra strength and love!
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| Posted 10/7/10 6:47 PM |
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Kidsaplenty
Sister love
Member since 2/06 5971 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
I was in a similar situation when I was pregnant with my DD. Our level 2 did show some markers for trisomy 18. We went for an ultrasound with a perinatologist and none of the markers showed up again. He recommended against an amnio when my risk was similar to yours. Maybe you can meet with a perinatologist first. I really like mine, Dr. HSu and Nassau Medical Center.
Please remember that the AFP test has a very high false positive rate
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| Posted 10/7/10 6:54 PM |
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HopingTCSoon
LIF Toddler
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Re: Genetic counseling update and next steps for us...
Will be thinking of you and sending prayers your way...stay positive! Keep us updated!
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