Freaking out....

I was going to start using OPKs this month...but have been extremely busy with work and never went out to purchase them. Since i was going to use OPKs i didnt temp this month...

I've been sick so we haven't BD lately....and i think i'm ovulating because i have ALOT of EWCM....so why am i freaking? We have not bd at all this week....how long does EWCM last...have i lost my chances this month? Should we just BD today, tomorrow and until the EWCM goes away?

I'm so mad at myself for being so whatever this month with everything relating to TTC and now i'm hoping that i didnt waste my chances!

Im so upset!

ETA: Usually when i O i get cramps and backaches....this month NOTHING so far!!! Just all of sudden EWCM....***?

Message edited 11/18/2008 4:22:43 PM.

Re: Freaking out....

Not an expert on EWCM but my advise...BD tonight tomorrow and thursday to be safe....There's nothing you can change now so the only thing you can control is what happens next!! So get to some BDing and see what happens...then if need be.. pick up where you left off next month!!

good luck!!!

Re: Freaking out....

I usually get EWCM 1 or 2 days before I O.. not exactly when I O..

but I'd BD now and just keep going...
maybe even use an OPK today and tomorrow? Just in case to confirm?

Re: Freaking out....

It can't hurt to try, but don't beat yourself up. BDing should be a chore, if you weren't feeling up to it don't stress about it. Your putting too much pressure on yourself.

Re: Freaking out....

Thanks Ladies...after work today i went to purchase CBEFM....i had to wait 4 hours to pee....i thought i was going to die!!! But did not get a no :)....so i hope i haven't O'd yet and will keep testing and BDing.

I definitely had a freak out moment this afternoon....Waiting to O feels SOOOO long that loosing that chance is really upsetting.....obviously nothing i can do....but thanks for your responses!!!!