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ThreeforTea
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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by maybebaby

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It is really wrong. You already lied last time you went to Woodloch regarding how many people were in the house. Woodloch is very strict and if they catch you they will ban you. It isn't right to scam people out of what they are owed.



He JUST turned 3! I don't think it's a big deal honestly, bigger fish to fry



I agree. I don't think it's a big deal.

Posted 3/21/13 10:25 AM
 
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Re: Fibbing about DS age

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Here's my 2 cents. I really dislike when people bend the rules for their convenience. I think it's dishonest. I also think everything comes back to bite you, so I'd rather not take my chances with karma.



Karma? Seriously? I just love the sanctimonious people on this board.

OP, I'd go for it! People do this all.the.time.



Honestly, I am not sanctimonious AT ALL, but this is one instance where I really do think about my actions instead of deliberately trying to be deceitful. I'm not perfect, but I do try to be HONEST whenever I can.



I agree. Why lie. ESPECIALLY if either of your sons overhears this. Setting a bad example. It's only $85. My take is that $85 in the long scheme of vaction costs is nothing.....



I have to agree. I look at these kind of things as if I can't afford or don't want to pay the money then I probably shouldn't go.

I don't lie about these things.



It's not only $85. It's $170 since its a two night minimum. I can afford the difference, its simply an utter waste of money. Just because I have it doesn't mean I want to throw it away. And the bottom line for me is, I am already paying a premium for myself and my older DS. It's not as though kids over 3 get perks that kids under 3 do not, so I don't really feel like I'm taking advantage of them. My younger DS probably eats as much as the average 1 year old.

Posted 3/21/13 11:32 AM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

I'd lieChat Icon

Posted 3/21/13 11:49 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Re: Fibbing about DS age

No... I think it's totally fine. I have lied about DS's age at Great Adventure. It's expensive and he doesn't even like rides. He stays in the stroller the whole time anyway.

Honestly, my parents have done it when I was a baby and I know lots of other people who do it. I don't think it's a big deal. These places make tons of money. A few young kids getting in will not close it down.

Posted 3/21/13 11:59 AM
 

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Fibbing about DS age

I would do it.

He just turned 3 a few weeks ago...places that charge for kids this young are a rip off IMO. What 3 year old is eating $170 worth of food in 2 days???

Posted 3/21/13 12:15 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by BriBri2u

I would do it.

He just turned 3 a few weeks ago...places that charge for kids this young are a rip off IMO. What 3 year old is eating $170 worth of food in 2 days???



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Posted 3/21/13 12:26 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

We went to woodloch two years ago when DS literally turned 3 the day before we left. I will tell you that when they gave us the bracelets at check-in - they DID ask him how old he was. That is just one thing you should be prepared for. Are you going to tell your DS to lie if he is asked?

I'll be honest - I was SO tempted to lie but, at the last minute I did tell them at check in that he had turned 3 the day before. What made me uncomfortable was that I did not want to have to tell my DS to lie.

ETA: And the fact of the matter is - they have to draw the line somewhere. I get that your child doesn't eat alot - i have a 3 yr old that barely eats as well. that said, if I remember correctly, they are either free or you pay for them - at 3 your DS is certainly enjoying all the amenities and activities more so than at 2. I think that is why they draw the line there. I don't think it's really about the food.

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Posted 3/21/13 12:50 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by Champ

I heard you had a 2 year old! Just be careful. My parents put me on a plane to grandmas and when the flight attendant asked how old I was, I answered "I'm 4, but I'm suppose to tell you I'm 5."Chat Icon



HAHAHAA!!!! this is so something I would say when I was a kid!!! Honest to a fault!

Posted 3/21/13 1:06 PM
 

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Fibbing about DS age

I would say he is two as long as they never asked for his dob in the past. I also don't think it matters if he says he is three bc I was teaching my ds his new age for like a month before he turned. I also think that's a rude, not to mention inaccurate, way for them to "check" but that's not an argument you should make when you're already the one lying, lol.

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Posted 3/21/13 1:12 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by itsbabytime

We went to woodloch two years ago when DS literally turned 3 the day before we left. I will tell you that when they gave us the bracelets at check-in - they DID ask him how old he was. That is just one thing you should be prepared for. Are you going to tell your DS to lie if he is asked?

I'll be honest - I was SO tempted to lie but, at the last minute I did tell them at check in that he had turned 3 the day before. What made me uncomfortable was that I did not want to have to tell my DS to lie.

ETA: And the fact of the matter is - they have to draw the line somewhere. I get that your child doesn't eat alot - i have a 3 yr old that barely eats as well. that said, if I remember correctly, they are either free or you pay for them - at 3 your DS is certainly enjoying all the amenities and activities more so than at 2. I think that is why they draw the line there. I don't think it's really about the food.



I agree. We are going to Disney next month and our trip is the day after DS turns 3.

So now we have to pay for his meals and park tickets. He went on many of the attractions there at 18 months, so I am sure he will do the same this time.

It didn't occur to me to lie, the rules are there for a reason. I would be mortified if we were caught for some reason, particularly since I stress telling the truth to my 5 year old all the timeChat Icon

Posted 3/21/13 1:54 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by Budjeg11

Id totally do it and would not feel bad about it at all!



Me too!

Posted 3/21/13 1:58 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

OMG....My siblings and I never aged for Woodloch! I was still 17 when I was 22 years old so that I could get a reduced price! LMAO!

Posted 3/21/13 3:14 PM
 

AllyMally
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Fibbing about DS age

If they ask him point blank or ask when he could hear I say don't lie. I know for DD being 3 was such a big thing for her and saying she was 2 would confuse her. If they don't ask or ask at check in while you're with the kids somewhere then who cares. I do say you have to draw a line somewhere, but it's just a few weeks. I guess my only caution would be the rational that he doesn't eat a lot. People could rationalize it for so many other things as well.

Posted 3/21/13 4:06 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

I don't have any moral problem with it, but I'd be too chicken to try it--especially on my own, so I'd suck it up and pay. We're probably going to be facing a similar dilemma when we go to Disney a couple of weeks after my DS's 3rd birthday...

Posted 3/21/13 4:20 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

I have a bigger issue with the $85 difference between age 2 and age 3. That's absurd. I think you should do what you're comfortable with. My DD is very tall for her age and we used to always get looked at suspiciously even though I never lied about her age. I used to carry a copy of her BC because I refused to pay for a kid older than she was.

Posted 3/21/13 8:03 PM
 

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Fibbing about DS age

I have to agree with above poster..this place sounds kinda like a ripoff...who charges $85 for a CHILD to eat? I might spend that over at least a month for dd!

Posted 3/21/13 8:31 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog

I have to agree with above poster..this place sounds kinda like a ripoff...who charges $85 for a CHILD to eat? I might spend that over at least a month for dd!



I would just because DS does not eat out.. With food allergies and his special needs, I can't see spending 85$ on him for the use of a pool. He would sleep in my bed...
I use to take my cousin to a place in the Pocono's and it was $45/weekend. Then the next year, it went up to $75/weekend. When I called and asked what they added for the extra money, they said nothing.. It only included breakfast and dinner. No extras except a pool... We stopped going... Some places are just out of control with charging for little kids. If they are staying in the same room as the parents, there is no reason to charge so much for a toddler.. I have the same opinion on Disney and all the other places that overcharge for a 3 year old! JMO

Posted 3/21/13 8:47 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by itsbabytime

We went to woodloch two years ago when DS literally turned 3 the day before we left. I will tell you that when they gave us the bracelets at check-in - they DID ask him how old he was. That is just one thing you should be prepared for. Are you going to tell your DS to lie if he is asked?

I'll be honest - I was SO tempted to lie but, at the last minute I did tell them at check in that he had turned 3 the day before. What made me uncomfortable was that I did not want to have to tell my DS to lie.




I don't understand the point of asking kids though. My 3 yo DS always says he is 6 when asked because my DD is 6. Kids sometimes lie or don't know their age. My DD always knew but my DS just says whatever.

Posted 3/21/13 9:53 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

I wouldn't because my kid would call me out on it. Lol. She would announce she was not 2! She was 3!

Posted 3/21/13 10:12 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by kahlua716

Posted by BriBri2u

I would do it.

He just turned 3 a few weeks ago...places that charge for kids this young are a rip off IMO. What 3 year old is eating $170 worth of food in 2 days???



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Chat Icon I would not worry about this. No biggie in my eyes.

Posted 3/21/13 10:20 PM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by Budjeg11

Id totally do it and would not feel bad about it at all!



yep me too

Disney still believes AJ's birthday is around Nov 2nd.. Chat Icon

Reality is Aug 22nd. But when she was 3 I would have had to pay for her meals.. saying she 'just' turned 3 made her free

Posted 3/22/13 7:56 AM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

My parents used to do this to me all the time, when it came to movies, ordering from the children's menu, etc. I see both sides of it. No, it's not right to do, but in the scheme of things that are "not right," I don't think it's such a big deal. I would do it if it was close to my DC's birthday.

On the flip side, my nephews were always big for their age, so my sister and BIL would say that they were older if they needed to me in order to visit my father when he was in the hospital (heck, we even had doctors who helped us bend the rules for them to see him). There are no financial repercussions there though.

Posted 3/22/13 8:03 AM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by Annie91606

Posted by itsbabytime

We went to woodloch two years ago when DS literally turned 3 the day before we left. I will tell you that when they gave us the bracelets at check-in - they DID ask him how old he was. That is just one thing you should be prepared for. Are you going to tell your DS to lie if he is asked?

I'll be honest - I was SO tempted to lie but, at the last minute I did tell them at check in that he had turned 3 the day before. What made me uncomfortable was that I did not want to have to tell my DS to lie.

ETA: And the fact of the matter is - they have to draw the line somewhere. I get that your child doesn't eat alot - i have a 3 yr old that barely eats as well. that said, if I remember correctly, they are either free or you pay for them - at 3 your DS is certainly enjoying all the amenities and activities more so than at 2. I think that is why they draw the line there. I don't think it's really about the food.



I agree. We are going to Disney next month and our trip is the day after DS turns 3.

So now we have to pay for his meals and park tickets. He went on many of the attractions there at 18 months, so I am sure he will do the same this time.

It didn't occur to me to lie, the rules are there for a reason. I would be mortified if we were caught for some reason, particularly since I stress telling the truth to my 5 year old all the timeChat Icon



We paid for everything for 3yo DS on our trip to Disney. We could totally have not paid for him but I didn't want to tell him to lie if someone asked him how old he was.

Even though we bought him a ticket, besides the first point of entry/activation, no one asked for his ticket and we skipped the ticket altogether for him even though we already paid for it. He just rolled right in the double stroller with his younger brother.

I do admit I did say he was under 2 when he was 2 but now that he is older, it is a whole new ball game. I don't want to teach him to lie.

Posted 3/22/13 8:14 AM
 

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Fibbing about DS age

Everyone is dishonest about something in life. I prefer to be the liar that saves $85 instead of the honest person that pays it. Lie, and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it.

Message edited 3/22/2013 8:28:08 AM.

Posted 3/22/13 8:24 AM
 

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Re: Fibbing about DS age

Posted by PennyJ923

Everyone is dishonest about something in life. I prefer to be the liar that saves $85 instead of the honest person that pays it. Lie, and don't let anyone make you feel bad about it.



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Posted 3/22/13 9:30 AM
 
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