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KennysMommy
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Re: Feeling weird about a destination wedding situation...
Posted by Janice
which leads me to another thing.
leaving a 14 month old for 5 days.
would i be weaning her?
would she pick it up again?
Bumping for you - For this reason, it would make me stay home.
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nickipa
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Re: Feeling weird about a destination wedding situation...
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Posted by Janice
which leads me to another thing.
leaving a 14 month old for 5 days.
would i be weaning her?
would she pick it up again?
Bumping for you - For this reason, it would make me stay home.
Hard to know---I guess it would depend on how much she was nursing at this point. At 14 months my older son was really only nursing in the AM and before bed, so I might of tried to wean him in this situation. Or who knows, she may just pick it back up again. I was away Friday afternoon to Sunday afternoon from my 5 month old and he picked it back up like nothing ever happened, but he was still nursing pretty often. In regards to your original question, if you guys both want to go--I say go. I very rarely get out with just my DH and I know how precious that time together sans kids would be. But I feel like if your DH really doesn't want to go, then don't. I know my DH and I have talked about planning a trip alone and I am just not ready. That said, it's not for a best friends wedding or anything. I am the one who hemmed and hawed about going to Vegas by myself for my SISTERs wedding though, so who knows if you want my advice.  I wish I was the kind of person who could say GO without a second thought, but I am not.
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| Posted 11/20/10 8:00 PM |
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Janice
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Re: Feeling weird about a destination wedding situation...
thanks all!!
so day passes are 84.00 a piece.
DH does not want to go at all.
1. he says he has never wanted to go to DR. That there are a ton of places he would rather take the money and go see.
2. He says everything changed after his last staycation. Since he works so much, he really got to know Josh. He doesn't want to give up his weeks off each year with the kids.
3. He feels like it was a bad move on friend's part. Wedding was set to be in May, in FL. We were going down there, my parents were also tagging along so that they can babysit and hang at beach with kids while we are at rehersal and wedding.
Friend decided he wasn't going that route and decided to just get married on their honeymoon.
4. He feels like my mother can't handle asthmatic josh and baby jessie solo. He thinks if an ER emergency does happen, she won't know what to do with jessie.
So, I guess that is it.
I won't forge ahead.
He said he would still love it if my parents went with us somewhere reasonable.
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| Posted 11/20/10 8:40 PM |
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monkeybride
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Re: Feeling weird about a destination wedding situation...
I would just send a really nice gift then, maybe a special letter about how valuable his friendship is, etc. and call it a day then.
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| Posted 11/20/10 9:54 PM |
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