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Family Vacation - Opinions needed

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CouponKT
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K

Family Vacation - Opinions needed

We are going on a week long family vacation along with my family. DH has expressed the desire to do "guy" things for one day with the other men going (my bro and BIL).
Do you think it is acceptable for him to take a day without the family, or since it is a family vacation, he should do what we do?

Opinions?



(I already have my own answer to this question, but it's a discussion between me and my Mom, so I am wondering what others would do)

Posted 6/28/12 4:08 PM
 

greenybeans
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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Sure, why not. You should take a day and do girl things too. Chat Icon

Posted 6/28/12 4:09 PM
 

drwifettc
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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by greenybeans

Sure, why not. You should take a day and do girl things too. Chat Icon



I'd do this too!

Posted 6/28/12 4:12 PM
 

InShock
life is good

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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Absolutely okay!

ETA: Assuming you don't mean strip clubs or something like that! Chat Icon

Message edited 6/28/2012 4:15:35 PM.

Posted 6/28/12 4:14 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Shawn

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

We went on a family cruise 2 years ago. One of the excursions was just me, mountain biking in Maine. DW was all for it. She did some things without me and DC as well.

Family vacations don't have to mean being attached at the hips 24/7 for the entire trip.

Posted 6/28/12 4:14 PM
 

browneyes
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Member since 8/08

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Super Mom

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

I would expect the men to have a day or night for just them and the women to have one for them as well. It a vaca for everyone so evryone should have some time to enjoy it Chat Icon
Plus maybe the kids would think its cool to get to do something with just the moms one day and then just the dads another day while the others are out.

Posted 6/28/12 4:17 PM
 

chikita315
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M-lo

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Absolutely! DH is going to be playing golf for a morning or afternoon on our family vaca. I think it's totally fine. Just like I plan on doing a spa morning or afternoon

Posted 6/28/12 4:28 PM
 

neener1211
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J

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Sure, I don't see a problem with one day.

Posted 6/28/12 4:33 PM
 

Xelindrya
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Veronica

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Why not?

Posted 6/28/12 5:21 PM
 

Bridex100
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Momx100

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Totally fine for the guys to golf, fish, whatever on their own.

I would want to carve out a spa day for the girls too.

Posted 6/28/12 5:26 PM
 

TessMike214
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Tess

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Absolutely! We have been going to Florida on a week vacation for the past couple of years, & my DH will play golf for one of those days.

Posted 6/28/12 5:31 PM
 

Karen
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Karen

Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Definitely, as long as the same courtesy is extended to the ladies to spend a day (without kids) doing their own thing!

Posted 6/28/12 5:44 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Yes we are going away with my brother and SIL and we already said they will have a BNO=boys night out lol

Posted 6/28/12 6:28 PM
 

ny55angel
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P

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by Karen

Definitely, as long as the same courtesy is extended to the ladies to spend a day (without kids) doing their own thing!



I agree!!

Posted 6/28/12 8:07 PM
 

Faithx2
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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by drwifettc

Posted by greenybeans

Sure, why not. You should take a day and do girl things too. Chat Icon



I'd do this too!



Yep!

Posted 6/28/12 10:03 PM
 

TreAnt427
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Tracy

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

I didn't vote b/c my vote is, it's ok as long as the girls get a day too. It's only fair. Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/12 7:35 AM
 

Straightarrow
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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by TreAnt427

I didn't vote b/c my vote is, it's ok as long as the girls get a day too. It's only fair. Chat Icon



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Posted 6/29/12 8:26 AM
 

CouponKT
Our family is complete

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K

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by TreAnt427

I didn't vote b/c my vote is, it's ok as long as the girls get a day too. It's only fair. Chat Icon



Can you see me leaving all three kids with R, J and D? They would wind up feeding them hotdogs and beer for lunch Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/12 8:37 AM
 

TreAnt427
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Member since 8/06

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Tracy

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by CouponKT

Posted by TreAnt427

I didn't vote b/c my vote is, it's ok as long as the girls get a day too. It's only fair. Chat Icon



Can you see me leaving all three kids with R, J and D? They would wind up feeding them hotdogs and beer for lunch Chat Icon



Ray does fine with the 3 of them by himself and he will have extra hands to help him out. Plus your Dad will be there to be the voice of reason and keep them in line! Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/12 9:16 AM
 

MySunshine
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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

I would def let him take a day with the guys.

Posted 6/29/12 10:37 AM
 

maymama
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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by greenybeans

Sure, why not. You should take a day and do girl things too. Chat Icon



this. what is fair is fair Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/12 10:38 AM
 

kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

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Kerry

Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by TreAnt427

I didn't vote b/c my vote is, it's ok as long as the girls get a day too. It's only fair. Chat Icon



ditto!!

Posted 6/29/12 11:37 AM
 

08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.

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Re: Family Vacation - Opinions needed

Posted by greenybeans

Sure, why not. You should take a day and do girl things too. Chat Icon



This! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/29/12 11:47 AM
 
 

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