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Reese32
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Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
Ok, I know it's a weird question. But after 7 months of ttc, and strictly keeping to the every-other-day, but every day the day before and of ovulation, I'm done! I got a peak reading Wed. on the CBEFM, so we BD'd Wednesday and Thursday. Today it was high, but I just don't think I have it in me. We also Bd'd Sun & Mon. (sorry for TMI, I'm not used to posting my sex life on the Internet).
I SO MISS having sex for fun. By the time I O, I feel like we need such a break, we'll go a good week w/o it. 
I've said it before, but I'll say it again. Sex on a schedule sux.
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Posted 4/25/08 9:41 PM  |
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BellaRock
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I do. There are times when I much rather be sleeping or watching tv.   I know that sounds so horrible but after 14 months of TTC is has become just like a chore now. We've tried so hard to make it fun and as spicy as we can but it still feels forced some days.
Ahhh the joys of TTC.
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| Posted 4/25/08 9:51 PM |
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Reese32
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
Thank you so much. It's so reassuring to know I'm not alone. 
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| Posted 4/25/08 9:54 PM |
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sweetbabydreams
My Dream come true!
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Stephanie
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
Oh your not alone. I know this sounds horrible but the last few times we have baby danced I have to wake up early before i leave for work (i work nites) and i just dont feel like doing it. and as sad as it sounds... i feel like he is the only one getting satisfaction if you get my drift. LOl but the joys of TTC is what keeps me going.
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| Posted 4/26/08 8:51 AM |
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sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!
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Tricia
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I hear you. We go a good week after O because we are tired of the forced sex leading up to O. It stinks.
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| Posted 4/26/08 9:01 AM |
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mrsgafforio
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Christine
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
You are def not alone!!
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| Posted 4/26/08 9:04 AM |
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
No not alone at all.........Joe and I joke about how we went from having a racey sexy sex life to a methodical get in and get out sex life.....It's not that it isn't nice but when you're BDing 24/7 for 5days you still need to do laundry, make dinner, sleep, work and wind down it becomes a pain. I totally understand
Message edited 4/26/2008 10:30:01 AM.
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| Posted 4/26/08 10:29 AM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
You're not alone!
It definitely becomes a chore when you're having specifically timed BDing with barely any room for spontaneity!
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| Posted 4/26/08 10:32 AM |
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ttc
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jane
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| Posted 4/26/08 8:08 PM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I have been TTC for 1 year and the spontaneity is totally gone. Luckily DH is a trooper and thank goodness he can perform on command. He jokes that he can be a porn star with all the BDing on command he has been doing in the past year.
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| Posted 4/27/08 10:09 AM |
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Kris516
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I said to DH the other day, I think we need to BD more. I said I want to try hainvg sex every other day from when AF leaves up to +OPK and then several days in a row after.
His response? "That's brutal."
We laughed b/c it was a joke, but on the other hand, we also laughed because it sounds like a lot of work. I need to think of some ideas to spice it up!
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| Posted 4/27/08 10:15 AM |
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LeShellem
A new beginning
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I have just gotten my period after two months because of surgery. My DH says to me " You know we will have to have sex to have a baby, you know" Because there was no hope of getting pregnant we ended up doing it only twice. It is unfortunately now a chore.
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| Posted 4/28/08 9:36 AM |
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princess99
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ME
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I totally can relate to this. We have been actively trying this month. I can honestly say I am a little sick of the act of BD. We have been BD every other day this week and I O'd yesterday and to have to BD right afterwards was not romantic at all. I am tired of doing what we have to do in regard to BD. Ia m glad I o'd but it is going to be a good week before I even want to BD again. DH is a good sport about it, hey he is a guy, but how much can you BD ??? LOL Sorry if TMI.
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| Posted 4/28/08 4:07 PM |
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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
I HATE SEX WITH A PURPOSE!!! TIMED SEX SUCKS!!! I miss the fun days!
You are not alone! 
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| Posted 4/28/08 5:59 PM |
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Reese32
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
Ladies, thank you ALL so much for your replies. I feel so much better, and I'm sure many people reading this thread feel better, too. Sex on a schedule s u c k s!!!
My and  to you all.
Thank you again.
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| Posted 4/28/08 8:25 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Re: Does anyone ever NOT want to BD?
Oh I am so with you on that.
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| Posted 4/28/08 9:55 PM |
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