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Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard
Member since 5/07 6710 total posts
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Diana
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Does anyone else find this rude?
Asking people (adults) to remove there shoes when they come into your home?
Message edited 5/17/2008 10:34:32 AM.
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Uh oooohhhhh...... 
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| Posted 5/17/08 10:37 AM |
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DanaRenee
Fitness Junkie!
Member since 6/06 6470 total posts
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Dana
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Yes and no.
Yes because I would never ask someone to take their shoes off, yet I'd be happy if they did.
and No because I really do understand why they'd ask in the first place.
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| Posted 5/17/08 10:38 AM |
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DanaRenee
Fitness Junkie!
Member since 6/06 6470 total posts
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Posted by lipglossjunky73
Uh oooohhhhh......
I was thinking the same thing!!
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| Posted 5/17/08 10:39 AM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Here's a similar thread from a few months ago.
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| Posted 5/17/08 10:40 AM |
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Diana712
RIP my beloved Brother Richard
Member since 5/07 6710 total posts
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Diana
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Posted by DanaRenee
Yes and no.
Yes because I would never ask someone to take their shoes off, yet I'd be happy if they did.
and No because I really do understand why they'd ask in the first place.
Exactly my point. How do you ask your guests to remove there shoes??
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Posted by dilb712
Posted by DanaRenee
Yes and no.
Yes because I would never ask someone to take their shoes off, yet I'd be happy if they did.
and No because I really do understand why they'd ask in the first place.
Exactly my point. How do you ask your guests to remove there shoes??
Message edited 5/17/2008 10:43:05 AM.
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EckoRed81504
We are complete <3
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April
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
just hope your socks don't have holes that day
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Posted by dilb712
Posted by DanaRenee
Yes and no.
Yes because I would never ask someone to take their shoes off, yet I'd be happy if they did.
and No because I really do understand why they'd ask in the first place.
Exactly my point. How do you ask your guests to remove there shoes??
Just ask. I am sure your guests will honor your request whether they like it or not.
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Emily
Kasey & Me! Lurves it!
Member since 7/06 8703 total posts
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STBHC
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Message edited 5/17/2008 10:49:08 AM.
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lakadema
LIF Adult
Member since 5/08 1180 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
No, it's their house. Their house, their rules.
I especially understand it if they have a small child who is picking things up off the floor.
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| Posted 5/17/08 10:49 AM |
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2girlsforme
LIF Adult
Member since 8/06 3071 total posts
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
In my house we all take our shoes off, its just what we do. However, when I have guests, I would never ask them to remove their shoes. Some do (and that's great) and some don't. I do ask kids to remove their shoes. I figure anyone under 5 foot, has to listen to me. 
ETA when my kids go to other peoples homes, I've trained them to just take their shoes off, unless they are told otherwise. I can't tell you how many mom's have thanked me.
Message edited 5/17/2008 11:01:25 AM.
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
That cat was wearing Berks!!! 
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| Posted 5/17/08 11:09 AM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Posted by DanaRenee
Posted by lipglossjunky73
Uh oooohhhhh......
I was thinking the same thing!!
Same here...I kind of did one of these
Oooopssss..
We take our shoes off. If you want to fine. If not that's fine too.
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| Posted 5/17/08 11:46 AM |
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DaniJude
You're My Home <3
Member since 11/06 14815 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
this is like that episode of SATC where carrie's shoes get stolen at the party!!
ETA: i would never ask anyone to remove their shoes - i would just simply swiffer or mop the floor real quick after they leave - i do that ANYWAY after we have guests when i straighten up - it's not that big of a deal. floors are dirty regardless and i've never had a guest TRACK mud in lol or anything like that - they usually wipe their feet if they are wet or something otherwise they come in - maybe our guests aren't that dirty? lol lol. we have clean friends!
Message edited 5/17/2008 11:51:35 AM.
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Candy Girl
Candy girl- you are so sweet!
Member since 11/07 6349 total posts
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
No, I don't think it is rude. Much bigger sh*t to worry about than taking off my shoes.
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beautyq115
New Year!
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
I don't think it's rude....maybe the way they ask might be rude...If people want me to take my shoes off while I am in their home I need to do it
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
I have to admit though, these are a
B ITCH to take off once I get them on....
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igottabeme
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
Posted by beautyq115
I don't think it's rude....maybe the way they ask might be rude...If people want me to take my shoes off while I am in their home I need to do it
ditto.
DH and i take off our shoes when we walk into our house because we dont like to track dirt. but i would never expect a guest to do the same thing. if they want to because they see my shoes by the front door, they can. but i wont force it upon someone.
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ReiRei13
Life is Good!!
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
I honestly do not think its rude at all!
I personally think its rude when people walk into a house wearing their shoes when they see that the homeowners take theirs off.
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luvshopping
LIF Adolescent
Member since 3/07 616 total posts
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ME!!!!
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Re: Does anyone else find this rude?
I would never ask people to remove their shoes @ my home. I want people to feel comfortable so they can wear them or take them off, I don't care.
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