It's a fine line that I struggle with myself. Some things I think are figure flattering, then I'll see a pic of myself and want to barf...you can see every extra ounce of fat on my body. Then, other times, I will try to wear what I think is a "flowy" top and it will look like I'm pregnant. It's inevitably the time I throw someone old on that I think looks blah...that is when people compliment me the most! It's not easy sometimes!