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Do you have the same town people complaining?

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EricaAlt
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Do you have the same town people complaining?

I can't stand to go on the town FB page anymore.
It's not the town directly, but a local started it and first was good to get some good recommendations or share stores, news stuff or anything local.
Now all they do is complain! You ask for a recommendation and people get nasty! They either say it was asked already or fights start.

We have the same group of older, grumpy men complaining about the BoE and how the kids should DEAL with the problems and their taxes, etc.
Any issues and we're all "snowflakes" or it's the "snowflakes" problems.
Now it's all about how they closed the schools today and kids should just go.

Ok... sorry for the vent. I hardly do, but this social media is getting out of hand. People have way too much time on their hand.

Posted 2/12/19 9:51 AM
 
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LSP2005
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

We have so many fb groups for my town. You need to find out if there are other ones. We have a moms group, a moms group lite, a dad group, and then each school has a group. We also have a variety of political groups for the town.

Posted 2/12/19 10:22 AM
 

TwinMommyToBoys
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Do you have the same town people complaining?

Yeah my town is a complaint dept Chat Icon someone actually posted to stop complaining

Posted 2/12/19 10:35 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by LSP2005

We have so many fb groups for my town. You need to find out if there are other ones. We have a moms group, a moms group lite, a dad group, and then each school has a group. We also have a variety of political groups for the town.



Yes! There are other groups, but that one is the biggest.
There's a "Bad Moms" group in my town that I love the best and there are no rules and everyone is supportive. Plus lots of jokes.

Posted 2/12/19 10:50 AM
 

Momma2015
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/19 10:54 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by Momma2015

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon



ITA!
I never can imagine airing my dirty laundry on any social media sites.
Some people post the most ridiculous stuff about friends, family, etc. I get on some groups people asking for advise, but other stuff is just asking for trouble.
I like to keep it light and fun. Pics from vacation or fun joke.

Posted 2/12/19 10:57 AM
 

LIRascal
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Do you have the same town people complaining?

We have lots of sites, too and people complain on every single one. They created one to complain on called "Oceansiders Complain Here" Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/19 11:03 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by EricaAlt

Posted by Momma2015

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon



ITA!
I never can imagine airing my dirty laundry on any social media sites.
Some people post the most ridiculous stuff about friends, family, etc. I get on some groups people asking for advise, but other stuff is just asking for trouble.
I like to keep it light and fun. Pics from vacation or fun joke.



I have more than one person who posts EVERYTHING. And I mean EVERYTHING about their life.
From the time they get up , until the time they go to bed. They feel everyone needs to know their daily, mundane, day to day routine.
Then it gets personal- and I mean PERSONAL- "At the doctor, I'm concerned about this rectal bleeding. Hope it's just a hemorrhoid!"
"At the gyno, I hope they can give me something for this severe vaginal itch!"
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The other night a woman down the block posted something about her colon. Chat Icon

Is nothing personal anymore? Is nothing private?

Message edited 2/12/2019 11:04:47 AM.

Posted 2/12/19 11:03 AM
 

Bonsai
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Do you have the same town people complaining?

I have one guy on a town board who just posts inappropriate comments and/or memes for everything. Nothing else of value. Drives me insane. Like if someone asks what is going on near x,y/z, he will post a meme of aliens landing or a car driving off a cliff. You have nothing to add, just keep scrolling.

Posted 2/12/19 11:08 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by EricaAlt

Posted by Momma2015

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon



ITA!
I never can imagine airing my dirty laundry on any social media sites.
Some people post the most ridiculous stuff about friends, family, etc. I get on some groups people asking for advise, but other stuff is just asking for trouble.
I like to keep it light and fun. Pics from vacation or fun joke.



I have more than one person who posts EVERYTHING. And I mean EVERYTHING about their life.
From the time they get up , until the time they go to bed. They feel everyone needs to know their daily, mundane, day to day routine.
Then it gets personal- and I mean PERSONAL- "At the doctor, I'm concerned about this rectal bleeding. Hope it's just a hemorrhoid!"
"At the gyno, I hope they can give me something for this severe vaginal itch!"
Chat Icon


The other night a woman down the block posted something about her colon. Chat Icon

Is nothing personal anymore? Is nothing private?



OMG! That is hysterical and INSANE! LOL
Please people... leave some details out!

Posted 2/12/19 11:13 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by Bonsai

I have one guy on a town board who just posts inappropriate comments and/or memes for everything. Nothing else of value. Drives me insane. Like if someone asks what is going on near x,y/z, he will post a meme of aliens landing or a car driving off a cliff. You have nothing to add, just keep scrolling.



I don't know why but that made me laugh so freaking hard.

So stupid, but the immature me is like...

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Posted 2/12/19 11:14 AM
 

LuckyStar
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Do you have the same town people complaining?

I had to do a search because I didn’t even know if my town had a fb page and I came across “Merrick/Bellmore Moms & Dads, the Real ones”

What does that even mean?

Posted 2/12/19 11:19 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by LuckyStar

I had to do a search because I didn’t even know if my town had a fb page and I came across “Merrick/Bellmore Moms & Dads, the Real ones”

What does that even mean?



Apparently there are impostors....

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Posted 2/12/19 11:25 AM
 

MC09
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by Bonsai

I have one guy on a town board who just posts inappropriate comments and/or memes for everything. Nothing else of value. Drives me insane. Like if someone asks what is going on near x,y/z, he will post a meme of aliens landing or a car driving off a cliff. You have nothing to add, just keep scrolling.



OMG I can't stop laughing, I find this hysterical Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/19 11:33 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by MC09

Posted by Bonsai

I have one guy on a town board who just posts inappropriate comments and/or memes for everything. Nothing else of value. Drives me insane. Like if someone asks what is going on near x,y/z, he will post a meme of aliens landing or a car driving off a cliff. You have nothing to add, just keep scrolling.



OMG I can't stop laughing, I find this hysterical Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I kind of want to do it on my town page where they constantly ask about why there are helicopters flying around.
I'll post this:

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Message edited 2/12/2019 11:36:18 AM.

Posted 2/12/19 11:35 AM
 

MC09
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by EricaAlt

Posted by Momma2015

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon



ITA!
I never can imagine airing my dirty laundry on any social media sites.
Some people post the most ridiculous stuff about friends, family, etc. I get on some groups people asking for advise, but other stuff is just asking for trouble.
I like to keep it light and fun. Pics from vacation or fun joke.



I have more than one person who posts EVERYTHING. And I mean EVERYTHING about their life.
From the time they get up , until the time they go to bed. They feel everyone needs to know their daily, mundane, day to day routine.
Then it gets personal- and I mean PERSONAL- "At the doctor, I'm concerned about this rectal bleeding. Hope it's just a hemorrhoid!"
"At the gyno, I hope they can give me something for this severe vaginal itch!"
Chat Icon


The other night a woman down the block posted something about her colon. Chat Icon

Is nothing personal anymore? Is nothing private?



OMG Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/19 11:37 AM
 

Jacquelina
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Ugh I cant deal with these pages either, but I follow anyway just in case there is anything really important that actually comes up I should know about...

I also following my kids school FB page...a lot of the information is helpful...BUT just the other day there was drama because the school won't allow the kids to bring in candy, treats or trinkets for Valentines day, only cards. You should see the response from some of the parents...they are going to call the superintendent...this is ridiculous, my daughter is devastated that she cant bring in the erasers she bought for everyone in her class...one parent even said they need to revolt...

Like are you serious???? You have nothing else better to do than call the superintendent because your kids can't bring "crap" to school?

Honestly any small crap your kid brings my kid to school is going right in my garbage can anyway...why dont you teach your kids life isnt about "things" and just thoughtful notes for their classmates on valentines day should be plenty.

I cant with these people. I am appalled at what society is coming to...

Posted 2/12/19 11:47 AM
 

EricaAlt
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Erica

Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by MC09

Posted by Bonsai

I have one guy on a town board who just posts inappropriate comments and/or memes for everything. Nothing else of value. Drives me insane. Like if someone asks what is going on near x,y/z, he will post a meme of aliens landing or a car driving off a cliff. You have nothing to add, just keep scrolling.



OMG I can't stop laughing, I find this hysterical Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I kind of want to do it on my town page where they constantly ask about why there are helicopters flying around.
I'll post this:

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Hysterical!!
We get the same posts about the helicopters or my fav is...
Did anyone hear that loud boom? Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/19 11:57 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by EricaAlt

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by MC09

Posted by Bonsai

I have one guy on a town board who just posts inappropriate comments and/or memes for everything. Nothing else of value. Drives me insane. Like if someone asks what is going on near x,y/z, he will post a meme of aliens landing or a car driving off a cliff. You have nothing to add, just keep scrolling.



OMG I can't stop laughing, I find this hysterical Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I kind of want to do it on my town page where they constantly ask about why there are helicopters flying around.
I'll post this:

IMAGE



Hysterical!!
We get the same posts about the helicopters or my fav is...
Did anyone hear that loud boom? Chat Icon



There is a woman on my block who is a nervous wreck. She thinks the whole world is out to get her.
She posted once about a loud boom and was it gunshots? It was summer time and everyone responded with - nah it was fireworks.
Then she responds, well do you think they could have set off fireworks to conceal the sound of the gun shots?
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Yeah um, let me set off this M80, before I go shooting my gun!

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Posted 2/12/19 12:05 PM
 

b2b777
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Do you have the same town people complaining?

YUP same thing happens on our page. Sometimes some of the threads go 150 comments long and the real drama breaks out. Around July 4th people loveeee to complain about the fireworks. People get slammed for asking normal questions, while others debate what the best pizza and chinese food are over and over again...
Then there is "why a helicopter is out?". "Did you lose power?"
I think many of the people who go in and post meme's and other stuff that doesnt relate are just trolling because they know someone will bite and start an argument.
I really cant stand when someone slams a small business. Dont we have enough empty store front on LI???? Same story different day. Once in a while you get a good review on something or tip. But im gonna be honest -- i mostly follow for the drama lol!!

Edited to add: Another complaint that always gets me is "how the neighborhood has changed" from all the older generation or those who no longer even live here anymore!!! Of course it has changed, doesnt everything. The min we hear about cars being rifled through for loose change, or a kid riding their bike in the middle of the street, or someone tagging up the mailbox with graffiti they go off to the races. I feel like saying THIS IS EVERY SINGLE NEIGHBORHOOD. RELAX!

Message edited 2/12/2019 12:57:50 PM.

Posted 2/12/19 12:14 PM
 

w8andsee
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by EricaAlt


Did anyone hear that loud boom? Chat Icon



This one drives me nuts because there will always be someone saying it was gunshots. They also complain that the neighborhood is changing and it's looking like Queens.

What's so bad about Queens????? I would still be living there if I could afford it.

Posted 2/12/19 12:16 PM
 

Momma2015
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by EricaAlt

Posted by Momma2015

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon



ITA!
I never can imagine airing my dirty laundry on any social media sites.
Some people post the most ridiculous stuff about friends, family, etc. I get on some groups people asking for advise, but other stuff is just asking for trouble.
I like to keep it light and fun. Pics from vacation or fun joke.



I have more than one person who posts EVERYTHING. And I mean EVERYTHING about their life.
From the time they get up , until the time they go to bed. They feel everyone needs to know their daily, mundane, day to day routine.
Then it gets personal- and I mean PERSONAL- "At the doctor, I'm concerned about this rectal bleeding. Hope it's just a hemorrhoid!"
"At the gyno, I hope they can give me something for this severe vaginal itch!"
Chat Icon


The other night a woman down the block posted something about her colon. Chat Icon

Is nothing personal anymore? Is nothing private?



I don't know what bugs me more- the mundane or the personal. I have a co-worker who treats FB like her journal. "Woke up at 6 this morning, fed my cats and went food shopping. Now I'm home watching _______ and making lasagna." I *literally* could not care less about any of those things.

Posted 2/12/19 12:35 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

The helicopter question is legitimate, IMO. I've seen posts like that, and someone with some inside info says that there is a manhunt for someone in the area. The next day, the news confirms that. If there is a criminal running around the neighborhood, I'll be more cautious.

Posted 2/12/19 12:36 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by GoldenRod

The helicopter question is legitimate, IMO. I've seen posts like that, and someone with some inside info says that there is a manhunt for someone in the area. The next day, the news confirms that. If there is a criminal running around the neighborhood, I'll be more cautious.



Right but we live right next to an airport and every Tuesday I think it is they do training runs with helicopters out of that airport.
And everyone asks the same thing week after week- and they get the same answer- training run.
It gets old.

And for some reason, I must live in a house of steel, because I never ever hear these blasted helicopters.
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Posted 2/12/19 12:41 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Do you have the same town people complaining?

Posted by Momma2015

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by EricaAlt

Posted by Momma2015

Ugh, social media is the worst. This is why I don't belong to these things and I block pretty much everyone that isn't funny memes, baking blogs, or cute puppies. Chat Icon

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has one and I don't want to see any of them. Chat Icon



ITA!
I never can imagine airing my dirty laundry on any social media sites.
Some people post the most ridiculous stuff about friends, family, etc. I get on some groups people asking for advise, but other stuff is just asking for trouble.
I like to keep it light and fun. Pics from vacation or fun joke.



I have more than one person who posts EVERYTHING. And I mean EVERYTHING about their life.
From the time they get up , until the time they go to bed. They feel everyone needs to know their daily, mundane, day to day routine.
Then it gets personal- and I mean PERSONAL- "At the doctor, I'm concerned about this rectal bleeding. Hope it's just a hemorrhoid!"
"At the gyno, I hope they can give me something for this severe vaginal itch!"
Chat Icon


The other night a woman down the block posted something about her colon. Chat Icon

Is nothing personal anymore? Is nothing private?



I don't know what bugs me more- the mundane or the personal. I have a co-worker who treats FB like her journal. "Woke up at 6 this morning, fed my cats and went food shopping. Now I'm home watching _______ and making lasagna." I *literally* could not care less about any of those things.



I have exactly that.
Every day- about 5-6 posts.
I'm having coffee. Have to take my son to school.
Running to Costco
Home now, watching Law and Order
What should I make for dinner?
Here is what i made for dinner.
So tired, going to bed.

Who gives a FUKKKKKKK

I really feel like for some people it's a real addiction that they need to get help for.
Not even joking.

Posted 2/12/19 12:42 PM
 
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