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Do you consider your child/children spoiled?

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juanvi
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Re: Do you consider your child/children spoiled?

I think he's spoiled in some ways but ultimately no.

Posted 4/24/11 9:55 PM
 
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Goobster
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Re: Do you consider your child/children spoiled?

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Spoiled for me means a child gets what he wants everytimes. Meaning toys, food, clothes, candy, TV, etc.. I feel spoiled is giving in to whatever they want. Not the amount of toys a child has.



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ITA< could be even told NO, that they cannot go outside to play today, or NO, they cannot have another cookie. Or NO, they cannot play with that or touch that. Not onlyl the amount of toys they are bought.

Posted 4/24/11 11:58 PM
 

BeachMom
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Re: Do you consider your child/children spoiled?

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Absolutely not. She hears NO often and handles it very well. That's my def of spoiled. A child that is not told NO barely ever, and when they are, there is wrath to deal with. I am sure my DD is not spoiled, I would never tolerate a brat so I do my best not to create one by saying no when I believe it should be said. I see another family member who doesn't want to, have the energy or brains to, tell their DC no and the child throws a fit every time NO is said. You can see a monster is being created, and I would never want that. I am 100% sure my child is not a brat/spoiled and I am happy that my efforts to not create a monster are working.Chat Icon



ITA, my girls hear NO often and learn that they can't always get everything.

Posted 4/25/11 4:52 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: Do you consider your child/children spoiled?

I don't believe they are. They get denied a lot of things they ask for, at every level, from deserts, to toys, to activities. They are never lacking for things, but they definitely don't get everything they ask for, and they know that.

Posted 4/25/11 7:52 AM
 
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