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Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

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LIMOMx2
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Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Just curious.

Posted 1/7/08 1:37 PM
 
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Kotka
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

my DH took off 2 weeks

Posted 1/7/08 1:41 PM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

DH took a week off when I had DS and then he took 5 weeks off when I had to go back to work (after 7 weeks) to stay home with DS.

Posted 1/7/08 1:42 PM
 

SuzyQ
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Posted by Kotka

my DH took off 2 weeks



same here. Then he worked for a week and took off a few more weeks (I can't remember how many) His company had a really good paternity leave policy. He could take off 6 weeks, but didn't.

Posted 1/7/08 1:44 PM
 

Merf99
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

He took off a little over a week and then took off 1-2 days week for the next few weeks.

Posted 1/7/08 1:45 PM
 

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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

With #1, yes, he took a week off.

With #2, no Chat Icon I'm lucky he came to pick me up at the hospital. He dropped me home and went to work Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/08 1:45 PM
 

Eireann
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

No. He didn't even take 1 day Chat Icon Actually, he took time while I was in the hospital, but I was on my own at home. DH is in private practice so no work=no pay. Also, he teaches college and the semester was *just* starting when I had Katherine.

Posted 1/7/08 1:47 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

2 weeks off

Posted 1/7/08 1:47 PM
 

leighla
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

We work for the same company so we had to choose which of is got to take leave.

I took the "official" leave and he took vacation time here and there.

Posted 1/7/08 1:48 PM
 

lulugrrl
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

My Dh took off 2 weeks, but that was because out son was in NICU, and I really neded the support, and he NEEDED to be with his son, not knowing the outcome. Once we got home I was on my own. His company has NO paternity leave, but they were great about letting his have off while DS was in hospital.

I think with #1 it's not so bad, they mostly sleep. With #2 or more I would imagine you wold need the help adjusting to newborn and attending o other children...haven't crossed that bridge yet.

Posted 1/7/08 1:49 PM
 

Janice
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

he had his scheduled 2 days off during my hospital stay. he talked to co-workers about getting 2 more days that week off by working days for them the following week.

Posted 1/7/08 1:49 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Yes he took 3 weeks.

He "claims" he's going to take a full 3 months if/when we have another. I'll believe it when I see it. Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/08 1:51 PM
 

nylisa
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Since DH works nights, he took off the day I have the baby, went to work at night the days I was in the hospital and then took 2 weeks off starting when we came home.

Posted 1/7/08 1:51 PM
 

Diana1215
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

DH is a teacher - I had Jack on June 28th - he was home with us for the first two months. It was great.

Posted 1/7/08 1:51 PM
 

Charly
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

with DD#1 he got a week paternity, plus took 3 weeks off. Since she was born 12/1 with all the holidays he was home the entire month and first week of JanuaryChat Icon

I have no idea what will happen with DC#2 since he's looking to change companiesChat Icon

Posted 1/7/08 1:55 PM
 

gottaluvmusik
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Dh didnt have tenure yet so he only took 2 days. I was upset because I had a csection. next time he better get time off

Posted 1/7/08 2:01 PM
 

ckdk
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

did I miss an announcement???

DH took a week and then had carte blanche from his office to work from home as needed for 6-8 weeks, so nice of them!

Posted 1/7/08 2:02 PM
 

beachgirl
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

No. We came home from the hospital on a friday and DH was back at work the following monday. It was fine though. I didnt have a c section so I just sat under DD all day feeding and looking at herChat Icon

Posted 1/7/08 2:06 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

2 months-paternity leave

Posted 1/7/08 2:08 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Yes, but he is also self-employed, so that makes it much easier to do, I guess.Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/08 2:11 PM
 

my3boys
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

My husband is self employed and to take off of work it probably wouldn't be the best decsion because NO work No money. However while I was in the hospital he would take off those days and he day I came home. But after that back to work. My mom usually would take off a wk or a couple of days in case I needed help though.

Posted 1/7/08 2:15 PM
 

cgdg61606
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

He took a week of vacation.

Posted 1/7/08 2:15 PM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

Posted by ckdk

did I miss an announcement???

DH took a week and then had carte blanche from his office to work from home as needed for 6-8 weeks, so nice of them!


No way!!!!! No announcement. I was just having a discusion with someone and I was curious what the norm is.

Posted 1/7/08 2:26 PM
 

ggmom
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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

my dh took 2 weeks

Posted 1/7/08 2:28 PM
 

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Re: Did your DH take any sort of leave after you had the baby?

he took off for a week

Posted 1/7/08 2:31 PM
 
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