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did you and you SO ever break up while dating?

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neenie

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did you and your SO ever....

Take a "break" back when you were dating?

Posted 9/13/05 7:51 PM
 

neenie

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Re: did you and your SO ever....

oh.. ill answer my question Chat Icon

we did... for almost 4 months. at that point, we had been dating a little under a year Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 7:53 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

No. We met at 32 and 35... at the age of 35 if he needed "a break" that would have been the end. I think I would have given him a different kind of break...LOL.

I could see it if you are very young or if a school/work situation causes you to have a long distance between you for a while.

Message edited 9/13/2005 7:55:47 PM.

Posted 9/13/05 7:53 PM
 

MommyofG
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Janice

Re: did you and your SO ever....

Nope, we couldnt and still cant stand to be without eachother!

Posted 9/13/05 7:55 PM
 

neenie

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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

No. We met at 32 and 35... at the age of 35 if he needed "a break" that would have been the end. I think I would have given him a different kind of break...LOL..


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Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH
I could see it if you are very young or if a school/work situation causwes you to have a long distance between you for a while.



that was basically our situation. I sometimes think it was the best thing we ever did for our relationship/piece of mind... though, there were some parts that were definitely painful, i never regretted it Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 7:56 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

We only dated a short time before getting engaged though. I was 27 and he was 33 and we got engaged after dating about 15 months and then married a year after that so not a lot of time for breaking up. I don't think either of ever thought about it though. For us we both just knew right away that this was it.

Now my previous long relationship was full of break ups.

Posted 9/13/05 7:57 PM
 

Marcie
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

No, we dated for about a year and half and got engaged and married 9 months later.

I think it was different for us, I was 29 when I met him, he was 27 - we both lived on our own and both had realtionships before ours that weren't the greatest, so when we started dating we knew we were meant for each other and there would be no one else Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 8:02 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

NopeChat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 8:04 PM
 

btrflygrl
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Shana

Re: did you and your SO ever....

we did just after we hit 6 months (Sept)....slowly eased back into it and were back together for the holidays

Posted 9/13/05 8:08 PM
 

julz33
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Yes, for one night! We were only dating for 3 months at the time. Since then, no breaksChat Icon

Message edited 9/13/2005 8:10:43 PM.

Posted 9/13/05 8:10 PM
 

luvsun27
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Kim

Re: did you and your SO ever....

No...we met when I was 29 and DH was 38. So...I think we were past that point. We also only dated for 7 months before we got engaged...and we got married 7 months later. So...when we got married, we had only really been together a total of 14 months Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 8:31 PM
 

Elbee
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

yes for 6 years Chat Icon We were kids when we were dating.

Posted 9/13/05 8:56 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Were you listening to z100 this morning??? Chat Icon
No, thankfully. And even now, I think, if ever we did, we'd still date each other. He's like blood to me, breaking up still wouldn't break our bond, if that makes sense.

Posted 9/13/05 9:03 PM
 

boosh1002
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

We never broke up but at one point the thought crossed my mind, but I loved him too much to give up on the relationship and we worked it out.

Posted 9/13/05 9:28 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

No

Posted 9/13/05 9:28 PM
 

neenie

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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Posted by MissJones

Were you listening to z100 this morning??? Chat Icon



nah.. i was inspired to ask when i was responding to max's question about 'if you knew DH was the one...".

i only have a 7 minute commute, so i dont get to listen to the radio too much in the morn'. Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 9:29 PM
 

jmf423
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Nope

Posted 9/13/05 9:30 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Nope - hes the first guy I was ever with that I didnt have a time apart with.

Posted 9/13/05 9:32 PM
 

christy
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Christy

Re: did you and your SO ever....

yes for 9 long days in 1996! LOL

Posted 9/13/05 9:32 PM
 

dengal
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The 80's Man
Let's Go Mets!

Re: did you and your SO ever....

Nope

Posted 9/13/05 9:32 PM
 

VirginiaDeb
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Deb

Re: did you and your SO ever....

Well, kind of. it lasted less than 24 hours Chat Icon

We were both stressed, and we were just kind of getting on each others nerves Chat Icon

But yeah, we didn't last all that long.

Posted 9/13/05 9:33 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Jes

Re: did you and your SO ever....

Yes. i am glad we did.
i think it made us relaize that we took each other for granted and i personally had new experiences and grew alot in that time.

Posted 9/13/05 9:43 PM
 

momAGAIN
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TJ

Re: did you and your SO ever....

I tried too, but he didnt agree

Posted 9/13/05 9:44 PM
 

Janice
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Janice

Re: did you and your SO ever....

we did, my family was moving back to NY, we broke up, I moved, then DH called me a week later to come back and he will take care of me. I moved back to FL and the rest is history

Posted 9/13/05 10:07 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: did you and your SO ever....

Posted by julz33

Yes, for one night! We were only dating for 3 months at the time. Since then, no breaksChat Icon




Same here. except it was two nights. I actually went away for the weekend to family's house, and when i came back, we realized how much we truly love each other, and couldn't stand to be apart. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/13/05 10:37 PM
 
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