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Dear alcoholic...

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EckoRed81504
We are complete <3

Member since 12/07

6299 total posts

Name:
April

Dear alcoholic...

i hate you i hate you i hate you yet i cant because of who you are. i know you can't help it. you are an embarassment the last couple years. yes. you are embarassing. get help. you need it. you can't hide the fact that you drink no matter how slick you think you are. we're on to you. we've been on to you. everyone has. every.single.one.of.us.

i know you are depressed. but are you depressed because you drink or do you drink because youre depressed. and fyi antidepressents don't work wihen taken with alcohol.

they need you. we all need you. and you need to clean your mother effing act up because one day- you are going to turn around and nobody will be there for you.

I hate to say it. trust me i do. espically because of who you are to me.

Posted 3/17/08 9:24 PM
 
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Kellish
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Member since 10/07

2713 total posts

Name:
LOVE THE LIFE

Re: Dear alcoholic...

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Posted 3/17/08 9:26 PM
 

FelAndJon
needs to update her avatar pic

Member since 6/05

10212 total posts

Name:
Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

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Posted 3/17/08 9:31 PM
 

MsSissy
xoxoxo

Member since 3/07

39159 total posts

Name:

Re: Dear alcoholic...

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Posted 3/17/08 9:33 PM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

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I am way too familiar with these feelings that you write.Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/08 9:53 PM
 

Lucky09
2017!

Member since 1/06

7539 total posts

Name:
DW

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Posted 3/17/08 10:03 PM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

Member since 5/05

46292 total posts

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Posted 3/17/08 10:21 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
HAPPY

Member since 2/07

17374 total posts

Name:
EMBRACING CHANGE

Re: Dear alcoholic...

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been there

hope it works out in time

Posted 3/17/08 10:39 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

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Posted 3/17/08 10:40 PM
 

JustJack
:)

Member since 2/06

2041 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Dear alcoholic...

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I am way too familiar with these feelings that you write.Chat Icon



me too, i could have written it myself. Chat Icon

Posted 3/17/08 11:05 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

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Posted 3/17/08 11:06 PM
 

Mrs. Patticakes
SPREAD KINDNESS

Member since 9/06

17330 total posts

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Posted 3/18/08 5:24 AM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

Member since 7/05

21138 total posts

Name:
Genna

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Posted 3/18/08 5:31 AM
 

Kissy331
My two miracles!

Member since 5/06

17826 total posts

Name:
Kristen

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Posted 3/18/08 7:13 AM
 

dooodles
When you wish upon a star

Member since 5/05

11997 total posts

Name:
Because 2 people fell in love

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Is this person willing to get help? Do they know how you feel? Is an intervention in order?

Posted 3/18/08 7:15 AM
 

greenfreak
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Member since 9/06

11483 total posts

Name:
greenfreak

Re: Dear alcoholic...

Posted by EckoRed81504

one day- you are going to turn around and nobody will be there for you.



This was rock-bottom for an alcoholic that I love very much. He's the only success story that I know of - that incident in his life ended his lifetime of alcohol abuse. He's been dry for 13 years and I'm extremely proud of him.

As with him and other alcholics in my life, I have struggled with the same emotions you are having. FM me anytime if you want to discuss it in greater detail.

Al-Anon gave me a foundation to work from in how to think and feel about these situations. I am not religious by any means but although God (or a 'higher power') figures into it, I never felt pressured to become more devout.

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Posted 3/18/08 8:09 AM
 

EckoRed81504
We are complete <3

Member since 12/07

6299 total posts

Name:
April

Re: Dear alcoholic...

Everytime I say something i'm in the wrong. Of course he blames other people, work anything but himself.

An intervention was needed years ago but everytime we tired nothing worked.

It's real bad. I don't know what to do anymore.

Please help me. FM me please... I think I"m desperate

Posted 3/18/08 8:22 AM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

Name:
They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: Dear alcoholic...

You have FM!

Posted 3/18/08 8:23 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

Member since 10/05

20369 total posts

Name:
Jesss, duh.

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Posted 3/18/08 8:25 AM
 

lucyloo
nope

Member since 1/06

9758 total posts

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Posted 3/18/08 9:40 AM
 

Katie111806
Team Pink!

Member since 12/06

5349 total posts

Name:
Katie

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Posted 3/18/08 11:08 AM
 

janet
WITH LOVE MY ANGEL MISS YOU!!!

Member since 5/05

12823 total posts

Name:
janet

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Posted 3/18/08 11:11 AM
 

ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up

Member since 7/07

4427 total posts

Name:
Jeri

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Posted 3/18/08 11:14 AM
 

Bellaocchi
Hope Faith Love

Member since 2/07

5694 total posts

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Re: Dear alcoholic...

Posted by pmpkn087

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I am way too familiar with these feelings that you write.Chat Icon



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Posted 3/18/08 11:14 AM
 

MsMBV
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Member since 5/05

28602 total posts

Name:
Me

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Posted 3/18/08 11:44 AM
 
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