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ttcing
LIF Adolescent
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Mel
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Confused and down!!
I always have a 30 day cycle..however, this month I ovulated later than expected (I used the opk's..the line was dark) BD for 3 straight days...
2 ww period..cramping on and off...Af was orginally due on thur/sep 10..but b/c i ovulated later..i was due today..and nothing!!
Took a test on Friday (negative) and one this morning when I woke up and Nada!! I'm soo upset...by the way usually 3 days before AF I have bad cramps and sore boobs and i have nothing of that meanwhile last week..cramping on and off...
I have no idea on what is goin on with my body... I have a feeling that I'm not prego and if im not I want AF here now so i can go on to the next cycle.. I dont get how I can be so exact every month (30 days) and now nothing..something is up... anyone go through this or have some advice..this ttcing is really takin a toll on me and I'm really getting upset over this whole situation.
Thanks for letting me vent!
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Posted 9/13/09 7:09 PM  |
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PennyCat
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Re: Confused and down!!
The only advice I have is... have you been really stressed or sick? I always heard that stress and illness can do a number on your body and never really paid much attention to that since I'm on the pill...... but I got REALLY UNBELIEVABLY SICK last Spring for about a week (dr thought it was swine) ...... and even on the pill I missed my period that month!!!!! 
The very next month it went right back to normal though........
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| Posted 9/13/09 7:21 PM |
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ttcing
LIF Adolescent
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Mel
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Re: Confused and down!!
hmm a little stressed b/c i just started work again (teacher) but even last year when i was sooooooo stressed...i always got af on time... i swear all this bd is doin somethin down there..lol
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| Posted 9/13/09 7:23 PM |
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PennyCat
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Jib
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Re: Confused and down!!
Hmm, well I wouldn't get worried about it just yet. It was due TODAY after all, so it's possible you're just a little late this month  OR...... maybe there's still a chance! 
Oh, and I'm a teacher too .. And, that stress is REAL  Although I have to say (knock on wood) I haven't been feeling too stressed yet. I feel like this is the calm before the storm! 
Good luck!!
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| Posted 9/13/09 8:53 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Confused and down!!
i would guess its stress but not stress due to work - prob more due to TTC 
if you can't actually confirm the day you O'ed exactly, i wouldnt worry too much about a day here or there. depending on when you actually O'ed you could be right on time for AF or BFP tomorrow or the next day..
dont get down - youre not out til AF shows!
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| Posted 9/13/09 9:41 PM |
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8ternity
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Re: Confused and down!!
Its funny you mentioned this, because it seems like ever since I started TTC my body as been acting weird or so i think because i am analyzing everything weird going on now...I think its stress or maybe you are preggo!
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| Posted 9/13/09 10:12 PM |
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HopingAgain
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Re: Confused and down!!
You could still be preggo...but STRESS is a HUGE factor! It's hard to relax when we are supposed to...but it really is hard to get this stuff out of your mind! to you!
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| Posted 9/14/09 8:25 AM |
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TheDivineMrsM
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Re: Confused and down!!
It's not over until AF shows up... if she's still not here in a few days, test again.
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| Posted 9/14/09 6:03 PM |
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ttcing
LIF Adolescent
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Mel
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Re: Confused and down!!
I'm out
on to month 5..geez I really didnt think it would take this long!!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/14/09 6:50 PM |
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Re: Confused and down!!
Posted by ttcing
I'm out
on to month 5..geez I really didnt think it would take this long!!!!!!!
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| Posted 9/14/09 9:48 PM |
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mrsprop
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Re: Confused and down!!
Your story is exactly my story! I was about a week in ovulating b/c of stress. I was using OPK's to confirm ovulation. I took a test when af was due and it was a bfn. I took many dollar store testsafter that and all bfn! Not until my week after AF was due did I get a BFP! I'm now 8 weeks. Good Luck!
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| Posted 9/15/09 10:10 AM |
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lbw
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Re: Confused and down!!
Lots of luck and for your next cycle.
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