CD20 and still no smiley

What is wrong with me? I just dont get why all of a sudden everything is becomming so difficult. Should i buy a 3rd box of OPK or just count my self out. Im starting to give up on the whole process. DH cant perform when needed and in my opinion is being selfish on the whole process and is making it all about him and when is good for him. Sorry to rant but I have almost had with him. He tells me he wants to start having kids and so i tell him "you have to have sex then" his response is we did on sat. he thinks it just takes on night of BD. Then he goes on to promise me we will try every nite... guess what that doesn't happen. Sorry i just had to vent. He really made me feel positive about this month in the beginnig and has let me down. Well im off to next month i guess.

Re: CD20 and still no smiley

I can understand your fustration but you can't let it get the best of you. You could be having a longer then normal cycle & that would be why you have no smiley yet. I have O'ed as late as CD24 (total cycle was 38 days).

Have you sat down with DH & explained to him that in order to get PG, it is more then just one night? I remember DH in the beginning was definately not use to being on a time schedule. He wantd things to be spontaneous but after a while, realized that making a baby was actually work. Try to not pressure him & let it happen at your leisure. You don't want DH to feel like this is becoming a chore

Re: CD20 and still no smiley

Thanks.. Im trying to make sure it doesnt become a chore. He understands the OPK test and always asks if i have a but he doesn't understand is that your chances increase with BD before the smiley during and after for 1 or 2 days. thanks for the support!

Re: CD20 and still no smiley

I'm sorry!

I have O'd as late as CD 26 though, so you're definitely not out of the game yet!

There are people who have gotten PG from BDing on the day of +OPK and the two following days, so if your DH isn't up to it... don't stress too much