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curliegirl
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Catty girls.......
I posted this on Relationships but realized it might not belong there....
I personally find myself to be a nice person, especially when I first meet you.
So today at work, 2 females walk into my office and I say hello with a smile.
One girl with gigantic sunglasses just glares at me and doesn't say anything, while I speak with the other....the other girl just looked at me like I killed her cat.
Come to find out they're from SI, which explains a lot, sorry to say, but this is my experience.
Now, can someone explain to me WHY we as adult women, still heva to act like we are in high school?
And how do these girls get along in everyday life? I just don't get it.
Oh, trust me, if you're nasty to me my claws come out, but Iw as nice to you, no need to be a b!tch.....
And from my own personal experience....you should ALWAYS be nice to people, you never know where you may come across them again.
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CkGm
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Re: Catty girls.......
I honestly believe it stems from insecurity. Secure, healthy people do not feel the need to cut others down, be rude to people they don't even know or make catty comments behind other people's back on a regular basis.
I would say both of those women feel that they have to act better than you in order for you to think they are someone.
Just my two cents.
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MelToddJulia
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by CkGm
I honestly believe it stems from insecurity. Secure, healthy people do not feel the need to cut others down, be rude to people they don't even know or make catty comments behind peoples back on a regular basis.
I would say both of those women feel that they have to act better than you in order for you to think they are someone.
Just my two cents.
ITA!! I feel bad for them really.
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curliegirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
And they just walked out and said goodbye to the guy next to me and walked past me like I didn't exist.......unreal ladies.......time to grow the f up......
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Theresa05
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Re: Catty girls.......
I would have asked them
is something WRONG?
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Shelly
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by MelToddJulia
Posted by CkGm
I honestly believe it stems from insecurity. Secure, healthy people do not feel the need to cut others down, be rude to people they don't even know or make catty comments behind peoples back on a regular basis.
I would say both of those women feel that they have to act better than you in order for you to think they are someone.
Just my two cents.
ITA!! I feel bad for them really.
me too. can you imagine how miserable their lives must be. You can't have a healthy relationship like that. Be glad you aren't like them.
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Theresa05
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Re: Catty girls.......
BTW I think its the water in SI
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Ophelia
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I love people like that. they make my day.
b/c I know I will never be that sad. that holier than thou
and I am quite certain, that LAME.
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stayandjohn
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by Theresa05
BTW I think its the water in SI
As a Staten Island girl and a friend of yours T, am I like that at all??
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MsMBV
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Re: Catty girls.......
catty girls are everywhere, not just one location. 
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CouponKT
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Re: Catty girls.......
My take on this is; if she were there ALONE, would she have felt more uncomfortable and tried to be nice to you to level her insecurity?
Hmm, just a thought KWIM?
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curliegirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by MsMBV
catty girls are everywhere, not just one location.
It's just that in my experience there more of a concentration there, LI has it's share too.......equal opportunity biatches....
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DaniJude
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by CkGm
I honestly believe it stems from insecurity. Secure, healthy people do not feel the need to cut others down, be rude to people they don't even know or make catty comments behind other people's back on a regular basis.
I would say both of those women feel that they have to act better than you in order for you to think they are someone.
Just my two cents.
yeppers! hit it on the head!
it happens all the time - and i feel it happens more often if you are attractive, outgoing, have a nice/funny personality, have things going for you, etc. it is like the more they think you have going on (or more than them) the more they are nasty.
it sux - i'm sorry 
i see it a lot - never experienced anything with people from staten island though, lol, DH has a cousin from there and she's nice. i think it is all over.
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DaniJude
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by BabyCote2006
My take on this is; if she were there ALONE, would she have felt more uncomfortable and tried to be nice to you to level her insecurity?
Hmm, just a thought KWIM?
interesting! i wonder!
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curliegirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by BabyCote2006
My take on this is; if she were there ALONE, would she have felt more uncomfortable and tried to be nice to you to level her insecurity?
Hmm, just a thought KWIM?
that's somethin'.......
I would guess you're right
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Theresa05
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by stayandjohn
Posted by Theresa05
BTW I think its the water in SI
As a Staten Island girl and a friend of yours T, am I like that at all??
no you and maybe 3 other people.. you know exactly the type of girls these are.. Just like ones from my hood..
its like shove it up your a$$
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Theresa05
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by stayandjohn
Posted by Theresa05
BTW I think its the water in SI
As a Staten Island girl and a friend of yours T, am I like that at all??
I love you btw!
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by curliegirl
Come to find out they're from SI, which explains a lot, sorry to say, but this is my experience.
is this for real?
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bicosi
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by MelToddJulia
Posted by CkGm
I honestly believe it stems from insecurity. Secure, healthy people do not feel the need to cut others down, be rude to people they don't even know or make catty comments behind peoples back on a regular basis.
I would say both of those women feel that they have to act better than you in order for you to think they are someone.
Just my two cents.
ITA!! I feel bad for them really.
I agree as well!
So sorry about that! 
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Theresa05
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by CkGm
I honestly believe it stems from insecurity. Secure, healthy people do not feel the need to cut others down, be rude to people they don't even know or make catty comments behind other people's back on a regular basis.
I would say both of those women feel that they have to act better than you in order for you to think they are someone.
Just my two cents.
your 100% on point@
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PaddysGirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by curliegirl
I posted this on Relationships but realized it might not belong there....
I personally find myself to be a nice person, especially when I first meet you.
So today at work, 2 females walk into my office and I say hello with a smile.
One girl with gigantic sunglasses just glares at me and doesn't say anything, while I speak with the other....the other girl just looked at me like I killed her cat.
Come to find out they're from SI, which explains a lot, sorry to say, but this is my experience.
Now, can someone explain to me WHY we as adult women, still heva to act like we are in high school?
And how do these girls get along in everyday life? I just don't get it.
Oh, trust me, if you're nasty to me my claws come out, but Iw as nice to you, no need to be a b!tch.....
And from my own personal experience....you should ALWAYS be nice to people, you never know where you may come across them again.
As a Staten Island girl I deal with this ALL the time. I can honestly say I am NOT like this. It really drives me crazy.
However, as I have gotten older I'm finding out that people, no matter where they are from, act like this. I like to call it the "Entitled, better than everyone syndrome" 
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saraH
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Re: Catty girls.......
B/c girls can be very shallow. And this chick is obviously insecure and looks at every girl to see if she is better then them. it's sad really.
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curliegirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
It IS sad and I just wonder....
1-How far is this attitude going to take you in life?
2-When are you going to grow up and cut the sh!t?
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pinkiegirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
I never understood this either..
I definitely think it comes from insecurity!
And I think you are very nice!
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curliegirl
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Re: Catty girls.......
Posted by pinkiegirl
I never understood this either..
I definitely think it comes from insecurity!
And I think you are very nice!
why thank you!
I think you are very nice too....
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