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Nik211
my little monkey<3
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Cant stop thinking BABY
we aren't even trying yet and I can't stop thinking about it...i am literally driving myself crazy. we can't try right now anyway AND i think i would be too chicken to actually try at this exact moment even if we could- so what's my deal? it's like i am contradicting myself...
in a few weeks i will be pill free and DH will be off medicaton so at that point we could try, but i don't think these next few weeks will make me more ready. it's like i'm ready in my head and in fantasy but not IRL...realistically nov-dec is when we will probably go for it...
i can't get pregnancy and having a baby out of my head though....if it's this bad now how bad will it be when we do try?  
anyone else get like this?
Message edited 9/9/2010 1:39:25 PM.
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LoLaBlue
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
the obesession gets even worse when you are actually trying but its all worth it!
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| Posted 9/9/10 1:40 PM |
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MrsRitaB
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by LoLaBlue
the obesession gets even worse when you are actually trying but its all worth it!
yup - it is all i think about most of the day
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AngnShaun
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by LoLaBlue
the obesession gets even worse when you are actually trying but its all worth it!
soooo true... and the obsession is over 2ww and poas
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| Posted 9/9/10 1:44 PM |
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by LoLaBlue
the obesession gets even worse when you are actually trying but its all worth it!
soooo true... and the obsession is over 2ww and poas
i agree!! Def keeps getting worse n worse!
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| Posted 9/9/10 1:45 PM |
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KimberlyScott
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
I get like this but, then I freak out. I think its totally normal.
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| Posted 9/9/10 1:53 PM |
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apples99
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
yup same here!! we are not trying yet, don't know when.. maybe later this year or early next year but all i think about is   o lord!!
i'm a big chicken as well.. i know we kids, but 
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| Posted 9/9/10 1:58 PM |
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JackiePags
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by just-the-beginning
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by LoLaBlue
the obesession gets even worse when you are actually trying but its all worth it!
soooo true... and the obsession is over 2ww and poas
i agree!! Def keeps getting worse n worse!
Yup yup and yup!!
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| Posted 9/9/10 2:05 PM |
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ostrichhh
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
oh man me too. thinking about it, googling everything from sore nips to vitex to herbal teas....sigh. lets hope the waiting/thinking game doesnt last too long for any of us! 
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| Posted 9/9/10 3:51 PM |
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wants-2-b-a-mommy
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cant tell ya yet!
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
i agree it becomes worse when you are trying! good luck!
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| Posted 9/9/10 3:56 PM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
oh god
at least we have LIF
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| Posted 9/9/10 3:59 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by Nik211
oh god
at least we have LIF
honestly... it helps that im not the only nut job... but when im home im not thinking about it as often as when im at work, not working, and posting on LIF lol
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| Posted 9/9/10 4:00 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Trust me you are not alone! We are planning on TTC in December and Im like OMG...Dec. where are you already!!!!?? haha, I think its normal but as the ladies above said..it will get worse once you are actually TTC
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| Posted 9/9/10 6:58 PM |
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meli722
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
I was the exact same way before TTC, and when i actually got pregoo on our first cycle of trying i was so scared and nervous. but before, all i was thinking about and obsessing about was baby, but when i found out i was actually preggo , i was so nervous lol.
and this is #2 for me 
but its usually like that, youll go through all the emotions and thinking baby baby baby till it happens
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| Posted 9/9/10 8:47 PM |
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hunnybunnyxoxo
this is what it's all about
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
please i had a d&c and i cant wait for af so that i can start trying again and figuring out my cycles..
i think October might be the month i can try...seems so far off.
honestly, i think it is completely normal to be ready in some aspects and not ready at all in other aspects.
this is completely life changing. so far all you have to worry about is you and dh, and you can pick up and go as you please. it is hard to think that can all change in an instant and you question if you will like this change.
i can tell you this though, once you have that baby in your arms, you will be wondering where he or she has been all your life and will wish you had him or her sooner!! but everything happens at the right time .
even people who are currently ttc for the first time get anxious when they get their BFP bc their life changes in an instant. you start to wonder to yourself if the timing is truly right..maybe you should have waited a little longer.
all normal stuff....
you will love life with a baby!! let the meds clear from dh's system, chuck the bcps and throw caution to the wind.
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| Posted 9/10/10 11:24 AM |
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BabyHopes15
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
It has taken over my life 
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MrsH2009
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Yes, DH makes fun of me b/c whenever we are out, all I do is talk about the babies and kids we see.
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| Posted 9/10/10 12:47 PM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
i can tell you this though, once you have that baby in your arms, you will be wondering where he or she has been all your life and will wish you had him or her sooner!! but everything happens at the right time .
even people who are currently ttc for the first time get anxious when they get their BFP bc their life changes in an instant. you start to wonder to yourself if the timing is truly right..maybe you should have waited a little longer.
all normal stuff....
you will love life with a baby!! let the meds clear from dh's system, chuck the bcps and throw caution to the wind.
i love when moms say that!!!! 
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RGEC47
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
Posted by just-the-beginning
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by LoLaBlue
the obesession gets even worse when you are actually trying but its all worth it!
soooo true... and the obsession is over 2ww and poas
i agree!! Def keeps getting worse n worse!
I also agree. Then you have people telling you "Stop thinking about it and it will just happen" 
Good luck and hope everything goes smotthly when you are ready to TTC.
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
yes thats all i think about lately!
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PennyCat
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Re: Cant stop thinking BABY
I found I thought more about pregnancy when I wasn't pregnant than when I was!
As for now .... One. Track Mind.
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