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block parties and dogs?

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mommy2be716
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block parties and dogs?

someone asked if they could bring their dog to our block party. My immediate thought was no way. There will be too many kids and babies there and I worry about if someone is afraid of dogs, if the dog gets loose, if the dog poops, etc. Dh said it's an outdoor event so how could we really say no... thoughts?

Posted 6/26/17 8:12 PM
 
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MrsM84
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block parties and dogs?

You can absolutely say no if you want to - all the concerns you express are valid. Do you know this dog? Have experience with it? I'd be more inclined to say yes if I've interacted with the dog and know its temperament. My dog is a complete 85lb mush and would happily lay in the driveway/garage/front yard on his 20 foot tie out, minding his business, unless someone approached him to pet him. If you agree to letting the dog come, I'd tell the owners in advance that they have to bring a tie out and something to secure it with (ours stakes into the yard or can be wrapped around a railing, etc.) I don't think leaving the dog in the backyard is a good option -- with a block party, it's likely there will be adults and children coming in and out of the yard and the chance of the dog escaping and running out is too high.

Posted 6/26/17 8:47 PM
 

JME78
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block parties and dogs?

I mean, I guess it depends on the dog.

My dogs would hate being at a block party - they don't like large crowds so I would never bring them. Many dogs like being in the crowd though.

Its up to you - if the party is just going to be on the block and they won't be in your house I would not have a problem with it.

Posted 6/26/17 9:21 PM
 

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Re: block parties and dogs?

I would be inclined to say no. My kids loves dogs, but they would be annoying and all over the dog and I would spend my whole time yelling at them to leave the dog alone. My firiend's daughter is deathly afraid of dogs and would probably cry the whole time. Just doesn't seem worth it to me for all the hassle and what-ifs.

Posted 6/26/17 9:49 PM
 

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block parties and dogs?

I would say no, no all dogs are great with crowds even if their parents think they are. The dog will have a crappy time surrounded by so many people

Posted 6/26/17 10:17 PM
 

Funkybutt
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block parties and dogs?

You forgot to mention allergies. My son is allergic and I hate running into dogs bc sweet temperament or not, if the dog gets too close DS' eyes swell shut.

Posted 6/27/17 6:12 AM
 

mommy2be716
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block parties and dogs?

good points... I am going to tell her that the neighbors prefer no dogs because of there will be alot of kids

Posted 6/27/17 8:22 AM
 

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Re: block parties and dogs?

My dog loves people. The more, the merrier. Everyone who meets her, likes her. Even with all of that, I would never bring her to a block party unless everyone had already met her individually, and I knew for a fact that there wouldn't be anyone that didn't meet her already.

Basically, even in a best-case scenario, I wouldn't bring a dog to a block party... Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/17 8:28 AM
 

Pumpkin1
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Re: block parties and dogs?

Posted by mommy2be716

good points... I am going to tell her that the neighbors prefer no dogs because of there will be alot of kids



Is that true, though? If not, how will you handle it if all your neighbors have their dogs out.

If it were me, I'd share my concerns and see what they say. You can also ask them to keep the dog on a leash and close to them at all times.

Message edited 6/27/2017 8:30:05 AM.

Posted 6/27/17 8:28 AM
 

NicoleF219
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Re: block parties and dogs?

Posted by Pumpkin1

Posted by mommy2be716

good points... I am going to tell her that the neighbors prefer no dogs because of there will be alot of kids



Is that true, though? If not, how will you handle it if all your neighbors have their dogs out.

If it were me, I'd share my concerns and see what they say. You can also ask them to keep the dog on a leash and close to them at all times.



This. I am not saying that you have to have your friends dog however all the concerns you have would be true then of any dog that lived on the block. Most dog owners clean up after their animal especially in a situation like that so going to the bathroom shouldn't be an issue. As for someone being allergic - honestly it's the street you cant stop people who live there from bringing their dogs out

I can understand not wanting a strangers dog but if that was my block party my dog would be outside with us most of the time if not the whole time.

Posted 6/27/17 9:12 AM
 

oldtimerocknroll
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Re: block parties and dogs?

Honestly, it would not cross my mind to say no. I feel like it is an outdoor space. I'm imagining some neighbors are going to have their dogs out.

I don't think it is unreasonable to ask them to keep their dog on a leash.

Message edited 6/27/2017 10:37:48 AM.

Posted 6/27/17 10:37 AM
 

busymomonli
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block parties and dogs?

I would say no because my neighbors have dogs and you don't want all the dogs barking and trying to get at each other all day.

Posted 6/27/17 10:40 AM
 

mommy2be716
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Re: block parties and dogs?

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Posted by mommy2be716

good points... I am going to tell her that the neighbors prefer no dogs because of there will be alot of kids



Is that true, though? If not, how will you handle it if all your neighbors have their dogs out.

If it were me, I'd share my concerns and see what they say. You can also ask them to keep the dog on a leash and close to them at all times.



Sent a text out a little while ago to a few neighbors who have dogs. They said to ask kindly that they don't bring their dog. One of my neighbors has a puppy, so she will be outside because she needs to use the bathroom more often. Everyone else said they aren't bringing their dogs outside for the same reasons stated above by a few posters on here

Posted 6/27/17 10:48 AM
 

Pumpkin1
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Re: block parties and dogs?

Posted by mommy2be716

Posted by Pumpkin1

Posted by mommy2be716

good points... I am going to tell her that the neighbors prefer no dogs because of there will be alot of kids



Is that true, though? If not, how will you handle it if all your neighbors have their dogs out.

If it were me, I'd share my concerns and see what they say. You can also ask them to keep the dog on a leash and close to them at all times.



Sent a text out a little while ago to a few neighbors who have dogs. They said to ask kindly that they don't bring their dog. One of my neighbors has a puppy, so she will be outside because she needs to use the bathroom more often. Everyone else said they aren't bringing their dogs outside for the same reasons stated above by a few posters on here



Understood. Definitely tell them its not OK with your neighbors and that should be it. If they can't leave their dog home, then they should stay home.

Posted 6/27/17 12:36 PM
 
 

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