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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Because I need a pep talk ........
We are using a surrogate.
We are doing PGD on my embryos and transferring 2.
SOMEBODY PLEASE GIVE ME A PEP TALK ABOUT WHY THIS IS GOING TO WORK 
It's just so hard to be in the moment and remain positive. Being positive just feels too scary right now. Maybe it's because of the date. We are just days away from the 2yr anniversary of when we got the news about my first baby's complications.
Yeaaa pep talk please. I need a reality check. 
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Because I need a pep talk ........
Because it HAS to work!....
i got nothing else.
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| Posted 8/1/12 1:29 PM |
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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
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Because I need a pep talk ........
I know I am not the most postive person right now...but Jackie IT IS GOING TO WORK!!! I dont think there is another option...you are doing everything right...you have been thru sooo much that its just meant to be...those embryos will turn into your baby or babies
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| Posted 8/1/12 1:38 PM |
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LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
You and your DH have been through so much and you deserve this more than anyone I know. It WILL work, it has to. You will be holding YOUR baby (or babies!) very soon... I see nothing but positive things in your future!!!
 
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| Posted 8/1/12 1:40 PM |
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allIwant
Love my crazy life!
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
Because no one else in the world deserves this more than you!
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| Posted 8/1/12 1:41 PM |
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td123
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
I dont post on here too much, but I lurk and follow some stories bc I am a sucker for happily ever afters.
I just want to respond and say that you should believe that it is going to work because there is nothing to indicate that it will not work. Believe! Believe! Believe!
You will have a happily ever after!
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| Posted 8/1/12 1:55 PM |
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classc1
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Because I need a pep talk ........
Penny,
I don't post here much anymore but had to say this to you. I am CERTAIN that your day is coming. I just feel that. You've done all that you can do now let the Dr.'s and the surrogate do their part. I will be looking for your BFP announcement!! FX!!
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| Posted 8/1/12 2:05 PM |
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Because I need a pep talk ........
I could not agree more with the above posters! It will work. You cannot think anything else! It will work! These are your embryos and all of your hard work will pay off! You owe it to them to believe!!!
Plus PGD!!!!!!!!
Ps- I give you this advice because it was said to me by a wonderful lady- you!
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| Posted 8/1/12 2:34 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
Wow I'm running into an appt and posting from my phone so it's hard to say much right now but these responses are making me teary- and you ladies KNOW I'm not cycling so I don't even have the hormones to blame it on
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:01 PM |
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
You deserve a happy ending.....we all do! Stay positive....fingers and toes crossed for you!!!
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| Posted 8/1/12 3:04 PM |
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lulugrrl
My 3 Blessings
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
BELIEVE IT WILL WORK...know you have done and are doing all you can, it's YOUR time!
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| Posted 8/1/12 4:11 PM |
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keepingsecrets
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
j: after all we've been through i know that every new step seems exciting and terrifying all at once. but listen, this is GOING TO WORK for you. i know it's hard to have faith and not to worry about all the "what ifs" so how about this.......you have faith that my FET will bring me the baby i've been dreaming of for years and i'll have faith for you that EVERYTHING will work out with the surrogate and you will be holding your baby next year. deal?  i find that it's way easier to have faith for others than for ourselves so we will lift you up and all you have to do is take it a day at a time. k? 
btw...i'm on some serious hormone crash right now b/c i'm making myself cry just writing this. 
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| Posted 8/1/12 4:29 PM |
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bookworm
Two Little Rosebuds
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
Okay ready:
You don't seem to have much trouble getting preggers, right? Awesome! That's half the battle, and it means your egg quality is good. When you've had problems, it's been due to those pesky subchorionic hematomas (I hope I spelled that right), lining, etc. which are issues with your pod and not your peas.
So it's your peas and not your pod. This pod is tested, doctor-approved, the best of all pods.
Baby. On. Its. Way.
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| Posted 8/1/12 4:34 PM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
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Because I need a pep talk ........
bottom line - because there is no reason it shouldn't. the odds aren't even against you. you will be putting genetically normal embryos into a perfectly healthy uterus. tell me why it WON'T work!
if you read a post about someone saying they were putting known healthy embies into a known healthy uterus, you'd say WTF is she complaining about !
pessimism or optimism wont change the outcome one bit. so you can drive yourself crazy and be negative or you can just be positive and hopeful. i know which one i would choose.
and second bottom line... because i love you! 
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| Posted 8/1/12 5:30 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
I'm crashing here but you know everyone on this board holds a special place in my heart and I pray for you girls all the time. You are meant to be a mom. And this time you are going to be one
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| Posted 8/1/12 5:46 PM |
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
You just needed a home for your awesome eggs...
Now the home doesn't have any leaks... So it is TOTALLY GOING TO WORK!
You and your husband are going to be amazing parents, and you have done everything you possibly could do.
Let go and Let God (or whatever form of good energy you believe in).
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| Posted 8/1/12 6:09 PM |
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JulieLO
LIF Adolescent
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Because I need a pep talk ........
This post topic should read
"bc I need a kick in the butt"...
PGD...perfectly genetically viable embryos...perfectly heathly uterus...dr. tested, mother approoved surrogate...
Answer this: "Why would this not work?"
I agree with everything the girl above said...
Your issues are with the pod, not the peas!!!
Now we found a good pod and they will all thrive!!!!
You have so many of us praying for you and eachother everyday, you have to have faith and hope and be positive because there is no alternitive...Negativity is NOT allowed... :) that/those babies will be here in the blink of an eyeball
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| Posted 8/1/12 6:10 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
It will work. You are going to have a beautiful baby soon. No negative thoughts. You will be posting pics of your LO soon.
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| Posted 8/1/12 6:36 PM |
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Irishgrl1017
It happened :)
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
Because you deserve it!!!!
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aim
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
Posted by allIwant
Because no one else in the world deserves this more than you!
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DITTO!!!!!!!!
I have never been so excited for someone I have never met.
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| Posted 8/1/12 7:34 PM |
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JME78
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
I don't know you at all - but your honestly, your openness, your attitude have all been SUCH an inspiration to me. I'm dealing with less than you ever had and the way you approach the next chapter is so inspiring. There is no way you are not meant to be a mother.
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| Posted 8/1/12 9:01 PM |
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BigB
C & J are 10!
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
Jackie,
I have been following your story and I just have to say, that your baby is on the way! This is it sweetie! Dig Deep and hold on....a baby is coming your way!!
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| Posted 8/1/12 9:25 PM |
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stargazerlily
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
What do they say......heros and cowards have one thing in common - fear. Though I haven't been on this board very long, I've been here long enough to see that you are a help and inspiration to others. That sounds like a hero to me. You will be the same for a child one day. Good luck!!
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| Posted 8/1/12 9:25 PM |
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Athee
I believe in miracles!
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
you don't need a reason... you need to BELIEVE it! it WILL work!!!
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| Posted 8/1/12 9:48 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: Because I need a pep talk ........
i think it will work bc simply put it is the right thing to do
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