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I am telling everyone 33 38.37%
I have told only close friends and family 12 13.95%
I am telling no one! 41 47.67%
 

Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

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Peainapod
Peanuts are here!

Member since 1/09

13591 total posts

Name:
Diana

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

we kept the names a secret b/c everyone knows everything else already. we figured something should be a surprise..LOL

Posted 10/21/09 2:58 PM
 

dajc23
My Loves :)

Member since 1/09

4980 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Everyone knows what our girl name will be, we got a lot of positive responses but some not so nice. Like from mom
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The boys name will be kept a secret b/c we want to surprise our moms and grandmothers by using our grandfathers names. They won't ever see that coming!
When I was telling my mom what names we were thinking in the beginning and I heard her comments about each and every one of them, I just turned to her and said sorry! You had 3 chances to name your children what you wanted, now it's my turn. Deal with it.

She's been a lot better lol

We find out tomorrow what gender we should be focusing on Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 3:00 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by Baby09

We find out tomorrow what gender we should be focusing on Chat Icon Chat Icon



finally!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 3:04 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by Linda1003

Not really telling people. DH figures everyone knows the sex so lets have one surprise for when he's born.



Same for Miss Bean. I told very few people-I want one surprise!

Posted 10/21/09 3:10 PM
 

Wendy
Wheeee!

Member since 5/05

13736 total posts

Name:

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

We ddin't tell anyone because it was none of their business.

Posted 10/21/09 3:16 PM
 

dajc23
My Loves :)

Member since 1/09

4980 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by Baby09

We find out tomorrow what gender we should be focusing on Chat Icon Chat Icon



finally!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Yea you're telling me lol I feel like it's been 10 yrs since I found out I was pregnant Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 3:19 PM
 

Disneygirl
Disney cruise bound!

Member since 5/05

8126 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by momytobein2010

Posted by neener1211

We keep names a secret. We do not want to hear other people's (negative) opinions on what we've chosen. So, the day the baby is born is the day that people fall in love with the baby and his/her name.Chat Icon



exactly! Anytime we say we are thinking of naming the baby X, they say "oh I knew an X once, he's in jail now" Chat Icon or something along those lines Chat Icon



This is exactly why we're not saying anything beforehand either!

Posted 10/21/09 3:28 PM
 

babycakes18
LIF Adult

Member since 4/09

1281 total posts

Name:
Dani

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

We were going to keep our name choices a secret until the baby was born because we didn't want to hear any negative reactions to the names....but then we changed our minds and started telling everyone....because we don't care if people don't like our names. We do...and that's all that matters.

Posted 10/21/09 3:42 PM
 

BethanyLynn
Love these munchkins

Member since 10/09

6295 total posts

Name:
Bethany

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by babycakes18

We were going to keep our name choices a secret until the baby was born because we didn't want to hear any negative reactions to the names....but then we changed our minds and started telling everyone....because we don't care if people don't like our names. We do...and that's all that matters.



Same for us! Plus we are too excited to keep it in!!!

Posted 10/21/09 4:47 PM
 

LemonHead
Sour Girl

Member since 3/08

5271 total posts

Name:

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

We are Team Chat Icon and just tell people we haven't decided yet. Which is true for our boy's name- we have 2 we love.

Posted 10/21/09 4:48 PM
 

charon54
My two boys!

Member since 5/05

7279 total posts

Name:
Rebecca

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Maybe because we have a mainstream name, but we haven't received any negative comments. We told people the name as soon as we decided and found out it was a boy. Our Chat Icon will be Aaron Scott.

Posted 10/21/09 4:57 PM
 

Jen2999
Baby girls & beagles rock!

Member since 8/06

10356 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

I didnt even tell anyone she was a girl and I knew, so I definitely did not tell names.

I told a few friends some of my early ideas for names and thats it.

I fell so in love with her name that I didnt want anyone yapping about it before she was here and I knew once they saw her that they would love the name too.

Posted 10/21/09 5:14 PM
 

gck0708
She is love!

Member since 11/08

1863 total posts

Name:
Grace

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by neener1211

We keep names a secret. We do not want to hear other people's (negative) opinions on what we've chosen. So, the day the baby is born is the day that people fall in love with the baby and his/her name.Chat Icon



Exactly. Couldn't have said it better myself!
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Posted 10/21/09 5:24 PM
 

gck0708
She is love!

Member since 11/08

1863 total posts

Name:
Grace

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by carissa1643

Posted by MrDeeNMe

We told our immediate families, and those who have asked... We honestly don't care what people think about the name we have chosen for our Chat Icon
We will never make everyone happy - so if anyone has an opinion, we tell them that they're entitled to one, but we are set on the name, Logan Creed.



ITA! I figure if I tell people what the name is then theres no room for their suggestions or help, as if I ever asked for it anyway. Our Chat Icon's name is Constantine William Chat Icon And we love it, after both of our fathers.




Carissa I love that name! DH really wants to call our Chat Icon Constantine if it's a boy, but we have a really long last name, so it might be cruel to the poor child!! Chat Icon We have decided on our boy's name, but we've got 2 that we can decide between for a girl!

Posted 10/21/09 5:27 PM
 

jerseygirl
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/08

808 total posts

Name:

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

I am telling everyone who asks me and I honestly can care less what people think. My girls name has been picked out since I was 15, and if we have a boy..he's going to be named after my DH.

Posted 10/21/09 5:29 PM
 

Kristin616

Member since 8/06

3595 total posts

Name:
Kris

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

We have kept the name a secret just b/c we found out the sex. We wanted something to be a surprise.

Posted 10/21/09 6:16 PM
 

Nshoregrl
LIF Toddler

Member since 8/09

406 total posts

Name:
Amy

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

keeping it a surprise! We don't want to hear what anybody else has to say Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 6:18 PM
 

jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 11/08

7769 total posts

Name:
Jenna

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

we are going to keep it a secret (at least for as long as we can)

Posted 10/21/09 6:37 PM
 

summerBaby10
let's be nice

Member since 9/07

10208 total posts

Name:
Wifey

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

I do not plan on telling anyone because I do not want to hear any crap from people about how much they hate the name. Most likely they have a stupid name themselves! I am cranky..sorry

Posted 10/21/09 7:17 PM
 

bayla
Love my two kiddos :)

Member since 8/06

7178 total posts

Name:

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

yup we told everyone what we are naming our Chat Icon. We love the name and so far EVERYONE we told has too

Posted 10/21/09 7:26 PM
 

SuperLRN
Im a big boy now

Member since 5/08

2527 total posts

Name:

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

We are not telling people the names we picked out. For starters we dont want to hear anyone's opinions. We also think it is nice to announce the name after the baby is born when we will know if it is a boy or girl.

Posted 10/21/09 9:30 PM
 

Cherry77
LIF Toddler

Member since 6/08

399 total posts

Name:
Cher

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

We tell everyone. We could care less what people think of our kids names. Just like I would never tell anyone else that I didnt like the name they picked out for their child.
Our daughter' will be Jenna Laine.
Our sons name is Jacob Landon.

Posted 10/21/09 9:50 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

Member since 3/07

13921 total posts

Name:
ETC I LOVE YOU

Re: Are you telling people the name you picked, or keeping it a surprise? And Why?

Posted by Cherry77

We tell everyone. We could care less what people think of our kids names. Just like I would never tell anyone else that I didnt like the name they picked out for their child.
Our daughter' will be Jenna Laine.
Our sons name is Jacob Landon.



just have to say i LOVE Love love these namesChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/21/09 10:07 PM
 
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