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Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

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BaroqueMama
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me

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

We are DEFINITELY NOT READY! As soon as we find a house we want to buy, then MAYBE, but that's a big maybe.

Posted 11/6/07 7:36 PM
 
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ChilisWife
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A.K.

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

I really needed to see this post. My son will be 1 this month and I cannot even imagine when, or if, we will try for #2. I always said I wanted my kids close in age, plus, due to my age we should try soon. However, I found this past year to be incredibly difficult in so many ways that I really need to get out of this funk before we consider it. I am guessing if we have another then they will be at least 3 years apart.

Posted 11/6/07 7:44 PM
 

Janice
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Janice

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

Maybe March...I have to get my finances in order.

Posted 11/6/07 8:00 PM
 

jgm26
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Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

I am so ready its all I can think about.
DH doesn't want another. There have been some pretty intense talks in our house regarding this . Chat Icon

Posted 11/6/07 8:11 PM
 

cantbelieveit
Love these kids!

Member since 10/05

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Tammy

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

I am not ready at all. There has been so many unexpected changes in my life. Even having a ton of experience with kids, a 10 yr old step I still wasn't prepared. I used to want kids close in age but now I am thinking just the opposite. If there is going to be a #2, it won't be for a couple of years.

Posted 11/6/07 8:45 PM
 

NS1976
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Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

Megan was born in August 2006.

I have always wanted my kids either 3 or 4 years apart. So, no I am not ready. Now even moreso that she is here, I am not ready. Financially, our living arrangements and even the fact that I am so enjoying being just Megans parent for now are the major factors.

Honestly, I am not ready to give any attention to another child. I feel as of right this second, I only want to give my time to Megan.

I cant wait to have another child, I have always wanted more than 1, but right now..its just not a doable thing for us and both of us are very content with waiting a while longer.

Posted 11/6/07 11:17 PM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

I am so glad I am not alone. I always wanted to start trying again in the Spring but I have really changed my mind. I am just so happy with our life right now.

Thank you all for sharingChat Icon

Posted 11/7/07 8:38 AM
 

mama2charles
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Member since 8/07

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Name:
Tina

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

Posted by 5ofClubs

I am really not ready to even remotely start trying. Either is DH. And honestly we even said even if we just had Andrew it would be perfect. I go back and forth.

Does anyone else feel this way?



I could of worte this myself we are still unsure also about a second... I guess time will tell.

Posted 11/7/07 9:04 AM
 

Elizabeth
Mom of Three

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"MOMMY!!!"

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

If you have time on your side and want to wait, I don't think it's unusual at all. There are definitely benefits to having them a little further apart. My '06 baby is my last. I am sad about it in my heart but I know it's the right decision. I would have another if it were the right choice but since it's not, for a whole bunch of reasons, I can live vicariously through all the Moms here having new babies.

Posted 11/7/07 9:26 AM
 

dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..

Member since 1/06

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Dawn

Re: Any '06 Moms not ready for another yet?

Posted by 5ofClubs

I am really not ready to even remotely start trying. Either is DH. And honestly we even said even if we just had Andrew it would be perfect. I go back and forth.

Does anyone else feel this way?

we feel EXACTLY the same way. Before, Aly, I always said I wanted 2 children, now Im not so sure I will even have a 2nd. If I do though, we definately wont be trying until she is atleast 2, if then. She is a handful right now and I cant imagine 2. Plus, I am enjoying giving her all of my time. I feel like so many of the people I was preggo with are preggo or TTC #2!

Posted 11/7/07 1:25 PM
 
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