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MrsRbk 
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 Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
I was in the bagel shop this morning on my way to work and there was a woman standing behind me with her two little girls.
  The younger of the two told her mother she was thirsty, and the mother said "oh, cry me a river why don't you?"
  Then the mother was talking to the older girl (the girls looked to be around 7 and 4 or 5).  And she said "You're so pretty, how did you get all the pretty in the world?  But thank you for sharing at least a little of it with your sister"
  I thought that was soooooooo mean!  My mother used to do things like that to me when we were all growing up, and I grew up with such a low self esteem.
  It was very clear which daughter the mother favored.  
 
      
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capricorn75 
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  That's terrible! 
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 Re: Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
That's terrible!  I used to hear the same type of comments about my sister and I, and I still have self esteem issues.   
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That's terrible. No wonder so many kids have issues.    
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that's terrible. that girl will have esteem issues for many years 
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What a horrible thing for a mother to  say!!!!!    
  WITCH!! 
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Horrible
 
    
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 Re: Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
I was in Target last week and a mother said to her kid "If you keep crying I am going to sell you on ebay!"     
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  That is awful!!!   
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			Posted 8/24/06 9:00 AM    | 
	
	
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That's terrible!      
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 Re: Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
That's horrible. I can't even imagine hearing that from my parents or saying that to either of my kids.  That poor little girl.   
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BabyAvocado 
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 Re: Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
Posted by nov04libride
  I was in Target last week and a mother said to her kid "If you keep crying I am going to sell you on ebay!"     
 
  Omg I'm sorry that is hysterical!!!        Depends on how it was said of course... but it speaks to the way things are now...back in the day it was "if you keep misbehaving/crying/etc  I'm sending you to the orphanage" or something to that effect  (at least that's what I got  )  
  Not as damaging as what that mother said to the two little girls though... that's so sad   
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MrsRbk 
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 Re: Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
Posted by nov04libride
  I was in Target last week and a mother said to her kid "If you keep crying I am going to sell you on ebay!"     
 
  That's awful!
  This mother was also telling the younger girl, she didn't like her hair because it was too flat.  I wanted to smack her! 
  Growing up the way I did, I'm so sensitive about these types of things. 
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my advice to that woman "have NO more children"
  What a *****, I probably would have said something like "your daughter (the "pretty" one), must get her looks from her dad 
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I would have told the other girl when I was leaving that she was beautiful and then given the mother a nasty look!! 
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That is sick.  my ILs do this with DH & BIL.   It makes me sick   
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OMG!  That is horrible.  That poor little girl has no shot at all    
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That's aweful! I would have wanted to say such a snide comment to that "Mom" deep down inside. I am really sensitive to esteem issues too.It was my Dad and older Sister that could say and do such cruel things to me . In my case it was always weight related issues .  I fought a long time to get that negative crap out of my head so I didn't do that stuff to my own DD's. This topic really struck a chord with me as I'm sure you can tell. Mean and ignorant people just suck!  
    
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  What a *****, I probably would have said something like "your daughter (the "pretty" one), must get her looks from her dad 
 
  NICE!  
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LOVE MSMBVs response!! 
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MrsRbk 
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 Re: Heard the such a mean thing this morning 
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 Posted by stephanief
  What a *****, I probably would have said something like "your daughter (the "pretty" one), must get her looks from her dad 
 
  NICE!   
 
 
      
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That is really horrible. That mother deserves a swift kick in the azz.  
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That is so sad....some people do not deserve to have children!! 
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omg - the poor little girl    
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