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jennarose023
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Meltdown last night...
Morning Ladies...
So i had a COMPLETE meltdown last night and my poor DH had to deal with my wrath.
We got in a fight about something stupid i don't even know what and then it was like i became another person.
I was screaming, and I mean screaming at the top of my lungs and then 5 minutes later crying hysterically for the screaming i had just done.
I feel like a loony bird and it was like i had lost all control.
Has this happened to anyone else, and do I need to worry that I hurt the baby?
Please help. I'm losing my marbles.
 
Message edited 12/21/2009 8:46:19 AM.
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maymama
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Re: Meltdown last night...
how could you hurt the baby?!
this is the story of my life, I am a lunatic. Poor DH, I scream, he screams and then I feel horrible for screaming about nothing and end up crying and apologizing but still I cant shake being mad 
he is a saint. i hope I can be normal again, one day 
Message edited 12/21/2009 8:49:59 AM.
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| Posted 12/21/09 8:49 AM |
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jennarose023
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Posted by mrskparetta
how could you hurt the baby?!
this is the story of my life, I am a lunatic. Poor DH, I scream, he screams and then I feel horrible for screaming about nothing and end up crying and apologizing but still I cant shake being mad
he is a saint. i hope I can be normal again, one day
i heard that screaming can hurt the baby...can't remember where but if you google it some people say it can so on top of the crazy mood swings now i'm all freaked out 
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| Posted 12/21/09 8:51 AM |
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sweetdreamz1181
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Re: Meltdown last night...
i had a night like that.. i was angry and screamed so much and then cried for hours because i thought i hurt the baby or worse .. but everything was fine! dont worry we are allowed to lose control sometimes!
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| Posted 12/21/09 8:54 AM |
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maymama
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Posted by jennarose023
Posted by mrskparetta
how could you hurt the baby?!
this is the story of my life, I am a lunatic. Poor DH, I scream, he screams and then I feel horrible for screaming about nothing and end up crying and apologizing but still I cant shake being mad
he is a saint. i hope I can be normal again, one day
i heard that screaming can hurt the baby...can't remember where but if you google it some people say it can so on top of the crazy mood swings now i'm all freaked out
maybe it can cause an increase in blood pressure which can be detrimental? never heard of it. I do plenty of screaming and my kid is still kicking away you are fine!! 
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| Posted 12/21/09 8:58 AM |
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bluekat16
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Re: Meltdown last night...
I think this happens to all of us. I know I've had a night or two where this has happened with DH. I think the baby is fine. It just happens especially becasue our hormones are all over the place.
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| Posted 12/21/09 9:03 AM |
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
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Re: Meltdown last night...
thanks so much ladies...i seriously have been driving myself nuts over it
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| Posted 12/21/09 9:03 AM |
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
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Re: Meltdown last night...
i just have to add that i didn't even know i could scream like that...the neighbors probably thought DH was trying to kill me
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| Posted 12/21/09 9:05 AM |
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MaMaTeenie
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Posted by jennarose023
Posted by mrskparetta
how could you hurt the baby?!
this is the story of my life, I am a lunatic. Poor DH, I scream, he screams and then I feel horrible for screaming about nothing and end up crying and apologizing but still I cant shake being mad
he is a saint. i hope I can be normal again, one day
i heard that screaming can hurt the baby...can't remember where but if you google it some people say it can so on top of the crazy mood swings now i'm all freaked out
Maybe if you screamed all day everyday?!?! I don't know how screaming could hurt the baby. If you are up for it can you do some screaming for me bc I often was to scream, but with a 3 year old running around that's not an option.
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| Posted 12/21/09 9:20 AM |
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Atlast07
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Re: Meltdown last night...
This has happened several times to me. It amazes me the rage and anger that encompasses my thoughts and mind and then next thing I know I am screaming and yelling about nothing and making no sense! It is rather comical after the fact!
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| Posted 12/21/09 9:53 AM |
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RandiG
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Re: Meltdown last night...
This happened in the very beginning to me, I was crazy!!!! My poor husband! I would feel horrible after that the stress had affected the baby, but thank god he is ok. It is very scary like a fit of rage, my heart would race after all the screaming and it was over something very stupid. I know it is hard, because it really doesn't feel like you, but try to relax and think only of the baby when you feel it coming on. Just so you know I have been fine since. A pretty happy preggo, even with all of my issues!
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| Posted 12/21/09 10:04 AM |
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GioiaMia
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Re: Meltdown last night...
i think its normal to be a bit hormonal, no worries - i am a screamer anyway so feel bad for MY DH! 
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| Posted 12/21/09 10:22 AM |
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jennarose023
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Re: Meltdown last night...
i feel better that im not the only crazy one. thanks so much!
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| Posted 12/21/09 10:22 AM |
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shiv
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Re: Meltdown last night...
I was like you around 15 weeks also- very moody and would get angry very quickly. It will pass- I felt much better around 18 weeks.
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| Posted 12/21/09 10:50 AM |
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MamaB17
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Ah it is all part of growing a person.  No worries. DH keeps telling me I am mean. The crazy hormones.
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| Posted 12/21/09 10:51 AM |
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jerseygirl
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Re: Meltdown last night...
I've had a few episodes..lol. My DH ate my fresh pineapple and I went into complete hysterics. I mean...I could of won an Academy Award. It happens.
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| Posted 12/21/09 11:05 AM |
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skinny
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Re: Meltdown last night...
I do this EVERY Friday night. It's normal! My DH has learned to deal w/ it better now!
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| Posted 12/21/09 11:10 AM |
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Sunday
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Don't worry. It's very normal. I do this thing where I start with DH about something that he did or didn't do and then after a while I start crying to him about myself instead... Makes me feel insane, lol.
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| Posted 12/21/09 2:14 PM |
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Posted by jerseygirl
I've had a few episodes..lol. My DH ate my fresh pineapple and I went into complete hysterics. I mean...I could of won an Academy Award. It happens.
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| Posted 12/21/09 2:14 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: Meltdown last night...
Posted by skinny
I do this EVERY Friday night. It's normal! My DH has learned to deal w/ it better now!
Now this is funny!! hahahaha!!
I def find myself angrier at things i normally wouldnt be angry at. And DH says "whats wrong with you" then I yell "read your damn baby book and figure it out". hahahaha!!
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