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Did your parents ever talk to you about the birds and bees?

Forum Opinion Poll
Yes 20 22.73%
No 68 77.27%
 

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mtnmama

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Message edited 7/13/2009 2:39:34 PM.

Posted 7/27/07 2:10 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Nope, my mom bought the book, "Where did I come from" and never gave it to me. I learned what I needed to know from GF's and health. Although Health didn't tell us much.

Posted 7/27/07 2:12 PM
 

curliegirl
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Gina

Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Neither, my mom gave me a book and told me if I had any questions to ask her.......mortifying! Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/07 2:12 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

oh yes- I had a book too. It first talked about how flowers pollenate, then animals, then people. It had the funniest pictures- made with what I guess the original South Park figures were- shapes made out of construction paper. Chat Icon

Although my sister doesn't remember this at all. Maybe it didn't go so well with me Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/07 2:12 PM
 

jes81276
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Jaime

Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

My mom did - she is a nurse so she was very open about all of that stuff...she has always been open with us about sex, etc.

Posted 7/27/07 2:17 PM
 

nyteacher13
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

My mom even went as far as buying a teen's book for learning about sex. We sat and had "the talk" AND had circle time, too! Chat Icon


It's sad to me that so far the majority of the poll said "no". That's a major parental obligation in my opinion.

Posted 7/27/07 2:19 PM
 

MrsBumbleb
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

absolutely not. My mom never even talked to me about getting my period.

Posted 7/27/07 2:19 PM
 

NS1976
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

I never got THE TALK..

Instead, nothing was ever off limits. Everything was talked about in a non-lecture type of way. My mom was and still is VERY open with us. We didnt need to be "taught"...it was all about honesty and jokes and through that, we learned all we needed to know!

Posted 7/27/07 2:20 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

No. I did have the AF talk with my mom, but not the birds and the bees.

Posted 7/27/07 2:20 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

I got the talk from mom and learned about it in school.

Posted 7/27/07 2:21 PM
 

MrsBumbleb
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Message edited 7/27/2007 2:22:08 PM.

Posted 7/27/07 2:21 PM
 

MikesWife
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Yea, I was about 17 when my dad said to me the following:
"you're 17, I know what 17 years olds do. I don't want to know about it or hear about it. But if you come home pregnant, I'll kill you." Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/07 2:25 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

well so far my aunt pulled me to the side when i was about 10 and told me "if a boy see you in your underpants he will think you are disgusting"

however, my sister told me to look forward to "the talk" the night before my wedding. Chat Icon

my poor mom.

Posted 7/27/07 2:26 PM
 

TreAnt427
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Yes - my mom sat me and my sister down and we had "The Talk"

Posted 7/27/07 2:28 PM
 

Bellaocchi
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

No.. I found out on my own really..I was given some little talks here and theer by an aunt of mine

Posted 7/27/07 2:30 PM
 

donegal419
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Posted by curliegirl

Neither, my mom gave me a book and told me if I had any questions to ask her.......mortifying! Chat Icon



Me too!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/07 2:43 PM
 

dawnie
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

My mother bought me a book at age 9. I remember like it was yesterday!

I think it is very important for the parents to give the child the correct information before they get the wrong info from friends. I would hope that my son would be able to come to me with questions, concerns, etc. THe world is a scarey place and children are doing it younger and younger. I am glad I got the talk from my mom. I did not really go to her with questions since I was a late bloomer when it came to that stuff.

Posted 7/27/07 2:45 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

no one told me anything!!!

i found out the hard way...

molestation and rape

sorry for it to be a downer, but that's how i found out.

Posted 7/27/07 2:50 PM
 

MeeshkaMich
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Nope. I think it was either 5th or 6th grade, a girl in my class brought in the book Forever Love by Judy Blume and was telling everyone about it. I came home and said hey mom guess what I learned today and my mom's face was pretty much Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/07 2:54 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

yes, my mom had the talk with me....I was so Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/07 2:58 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Posted by nyteacher13


It's sad to me that so far the majority of the poll said "no". That's a major parental obligation in my opinion.



I agree 100%...I think it is imperative to have the "talk" (no matter how uncomfortable it may be)

Posted 7/27/07 3:00 PM
 

GioiaMia
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

Posted by stephanief

Posted by nyteacher13


It's sad to me that so far the majority of the poll said "no". That's a major parental obligation in my opinion.



I agree 100%...I think it is imperative to have the "talk" (no matter how uncomfortable it may be)



i know for my parents they feel there is no need to give the talk before the wedding night it just isnt needed before then!

they are really old school

Posted 7/27/07 3:04 PM
 

VirginiaDeb
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

I got the talk which bascially was... "This is sex... if you do it before you're married I will kill you"

I knew what it was before hand too though.

Posted 7/27/07 3:06 PM
 

Kerie-is-so-very
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

My sister gave me all kinds of wacky info but I do not remember a formal talk from my parents.

Posted 7/27/07 3:21 PM
 

AimeeE2006
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Re: Did you get the talk from your parents?

I said yes, but truthfully - when my mom tried talking to me, I made up an excuse and went to bed.

Posted 7/27/07 3:43 PM
 
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