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Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

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Janice

Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

When getting out of the shower this morning, DH looked me over and said....

"you are definitely not the wilderbeast I expected you to be"

ummm thanksChat Icon

Posted 9/25/06 10:09 PM
 
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LIF Toddler

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Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

co-worker: "you still don't look pregnant at all." (i am 22 weeks)

Posted 9/25/06 10:15 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

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Christine

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

friend of my SIL:" I thought since you were shorter, you would be all fat by now. You are definately carrying better than I thought you would."Chat Icon

Message edited 9/25/2006 10:42:49 PM.

Posted 9/25/06 10:42 PM
 

gpsyeyes
She's my world!!!

Member since 8/06

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Karen

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

My SIL just had her baby last Monday & her Uncle came to the hosptial & first thing he said was "you look like you're still pregnant"!

Posted 9/26/06 8:41 AM
 

SuzyQ
Mama to 3!?!?!?

Member since 7/06

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Susan

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

My father (who always says rude, inappropriate things): Do you have an exercise program? or What kind of exercise are you doing? answer: None.(I've only seen him twice during this pregnancy and he asked me this both times.) Chat Icon

I know that I should be exercising, but I don't need to hear it from him! Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 8:47 AM
 

Dragonfly75
I love Hypnobabies

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Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

These are too funny. I have to admit that I thought this was the biggest compliment I could ever get, because kids are so brutally honest. I was at a picnic and a woman picked up her young son and said, "Look she's going to have a baby." The boy looked at me and said, "but she doesn't look that fat." His mom was horrified, but I just laughed and said, "Well if children are saying it you know it must be true. They don't lie!" Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 9:07 AM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05

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Stephanie

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

a coworker told me I looked like I was 7 months pregnant. Chat Icon Chat Icon gee thanks

Posted 9/26/06 9:25 AM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses

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"Twins, Wow, you are in for it"

Gee thanks @$$holeChat Icon

I counter by saying, "If you had to go through what I had to go through to even get here, not that you might even be able to handle it, you would know we are DOUBLY BLESSED!!!"

Then I leave them in stunned silenceChat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 9:36 AM
 

SuzyQ
Mama to 3!?!?!?

Member since 7/06

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Susan

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

Posted by Tah-wee-ZAH

"Twins, Wow, you are in for it"

Gee thanks @$$holeChat Icon

I counter by saying, "If you had to go through what I had to go through to even get here, not that you might even be able to handle it, you would know we are DOUBLY BLESSED!!!"

Then I leave them in stunned silenceChat Icon



Good for you!! I love your response! That would really annoy me to hear people say things like that all of the time. Personally I would always try to say something positive, like "wow - you are doubly blessed. How wonderful!" It amazes me how many people say rude, negative, inappropriate things. Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 9:42 AM
 

stickydust
Now a mommy of 2!!!

Member since 4/06

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Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

Not really a compliment at all but I get this all the time:

rude person: When are you due?
Me: end of December
rude person: Oh, that stinks, you didn't plan very well your poor child will always be forgotten becaus eof the holidays.
Me: umm, gee, thanks
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Posted 9/26/06 10:57 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

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Nicole

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

Posted by stickydust

Not really a compliment at all but I get this all the time:

rude person: When are you due?
Me: end of December
rude person: Oh, that stinks, you didn't plan very well your poor child will always be forgotten becaus eof the holidays.
Me: umm, gee, thanks
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Tell those people to bite you. My b-day is Jan. 4 and my sister's is Dec. 9 and my parents never let the holidays overshine our b-days. I will admit that I kind of get shafted by DH though. Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 10:59 AM
 

PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!

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what about those that say "Your all girl"...does that translate to my AZZ is big? Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 11:03 AM
 

JenBenMen
party of five

Member since 9/06

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Jen

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

no way--people really said this? Thats unreal!!

Posted 9/26/06 11:09 AM
 

cutie
LIF Adult

Member since 2/06

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Janine

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

The best was my mother in law - who of course ALWAYS has the perfect thing to say.

When we told her that we were expecting her response was - Oh I already knew. Excuse me?? How could she know - we didn't even know until right before that - we told her at 7 weeks! She said - I already knew, I even said something to Grandma.

Later that day when we were at Grandma's telling her the good news we brought up the fact that MIL insisted that she already knew and that she had commented on it to her. Grandma says "Oh that's right, she said either she is getting fat, or I wouldn't be one bit surprised if she is pregnant" Chat Icon

Nice right?

Posted 9/26/06 11:23 AM
 

anon
where's winter?

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i must be considered rude as stuff like this comes out of my mouth all the time. i guess i'm not that sensitive and neither are my friends, at least i hope so... Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 12:01 PM
 

krwm
<3

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dh just stares at my stomach like wth is happening to you? lol

Then I just ask him when he's due and he stops Chat Icon

Posted 9/26/06 12:54 PM
 

waytogo
Balancing act on a highwire

Member since 5/05

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a

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

Posted by PrincessP

what about those that say "Your all girl"...does that translate to my AZZ is big? Chat Icon



I got this all the time in the beginning...and my arse was big since before baby Chat Icon

Now I'm getting "are you sure you don't have twins? I guess my weight went all upstairs. And um, no I don't but my siblings all do!

ETA: My mom told me I had huge boobs the other day, no more champagne glasses Chat Icon

Message edited 9/26/2006 6:01:37 PM.

Posted 9/26/06 6:00 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

Posted by stickydust

Not really a compliment at all but I get this all the time:

rude person: When are you due?
Me: end of December
rude person: Oh, that stinks, you didn't plan very well your poor child will always be forgotten becaus eof the holidays.
Me: umm, gee, thanks
Chat Icon



I get that too! It doesn't help that I am born on Dec. 26 and know how yucky it is!

I told a few people, I am just grateful to have a child and that shut them up.

Posted 9/26/06 6:45 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Compliment or no? Post your questionables here..

Message edited 9/26/2006 6:45:26 PM.

Posted 9/26/06 6:45 PM
 
 

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