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jessnbrian
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
I can't stand it!!!! Out of no where I'm crazy upset, over analyzing everything and ready to cry. My anxiety isn't that high, I just feel like I'm going to crawl out of my skin and need to get this week over with regardless of the outcome.
After everything we've been through, my brother's fiance and I were talking and she was basically asking us to stop trying for a while because their wedding is going to be February of next year... obviously she didn't mean right away, but she was like, " you know you could go on bed rest at 6 months"... I'm like, omg, really???? I've now had a mc and a chem and NOTHING since August... I know I'm not that old, but come on, I'm 30, I'm not a spring chicken, can I really afford to put off TTC for 6 months or even 4 months?
Going crazy here at work and I can't wait for these last 10 minutes to go by so I can get in my car and just drive for a bit.
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MrsM84
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
So sorry you are feeling like this. IMO, your future SIL is rude, selfish, and out of line to even imply that you should stop trying because of her wedding ESPECIALLY given everything you've gone through in trying to conceive. Some people are insane. Feel better!
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| Posted 1/17/14 4:54 PM |
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jessnbrian
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Jessica
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
She's really sweet and I know she thinks that mainly because her sister is going to stop TTC at a certain point, but when you've had even ONE loss, it's so hard to think to stop trying.
... none of this bothered me earlier this week when we first had the convo, now it's bothering me today, I don't know... I think I'm a wreck today!
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| Posted 1/17/14 4:57 PM |
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MrsM84
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
I had something happen to me on Tuesday -- didn't think twice about it and on Thursday out of the blue, it came to me and I got pissed! It happens :)
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| Posted 1/17/14 5:01 PM |
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TheDollyMama
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Sorry you're feeling this way - I was crazy viciously irrationally angry during last months 2ww, it was awful! 
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| Posted 1/17/14 5:18 PM |
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Lillies
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Tell her to go suck it.
I personally have been in weddings with bridezillas and no one expected me to stop TTC. I even ordered my dresses big just in case. You will end up resenting her and the wedding if you have to put something that you feel so strongly about on hold.
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BabyBearA
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
I could never ask someone to put ttc on hold!!
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| Posted 1/17/14 9:37 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
I think you should go ahead with your plans and if you get pregnant, ask her to delay her wedding. See how she likes it 
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| Posted 1/18/14 12:27 AM |
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BabyBearA
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Posted by PennyCat
I think you should go ahead with your plans and if you get pregnant, ask her to delay her wedding. See how she likes it
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| Posted 1/18/14 9:23 AM |
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kimmaymb20
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
We are trying and my sister is getting married in April and i already have my dress. Tough noggies to her lol.
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| Posted 1/18/14 9:32 AM |
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
You should never have to put your life on hold for anyone
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| Posted 1/18/14 11:54 AM |
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jessnbrian
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
You're right, when you're right, you're right! Hopefully it won't be an issue...
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| Posted 1/18/14 12:07 PM |
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JSDB
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Posted by BabyBearA
Posted by PennyCat
I think you should go ahead with your plans and if you get pregnant, ask her to delay her wedding. See how she likes it
Lol exactly this. Also, I was a bridesmaid at 37 weeks and it was totally fine.
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| Posted 1/18/14 2:29 PM |
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jessnbrian
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Hahahahaha, I asked my godmother and aunt what she thinks and she just said keep trying, don't even think about it.
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| Posted 1/18/14 6:03 PM |
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mrsb1
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2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Sorry I can't believe she said that to you.
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| Posted 1/19/14 10:23 PM |
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bunnyluck
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Posted by PennyCat
I think you should go ahead with your plans and if you get pregnant, ask her to delay her wedding. See how she likes it
THIS! 100% This.
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shellbebaby
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
I hear you...
it is such a frustrating and long time
This time it ends with a ski trip I get to sit in the house for because I will not know yet if I am pregnant. Talk about great timing.
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| Posted 1/20/14 12:13 PM |
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jessnbrian
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Jessica
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Re: 2WW go to H-E - double hockey sticks!
Posted by shellbebaby
I hear you...
it is such a frustrating and long time
This time it ends with a ski trip I get to sit in the house for because I will not know yet if I am pregnant. Talk about great timing.
If you enjoy skiing, I would just ski. Maybe just take it a little easier. I can't tell you how much you'll regret it if you get home and find out you're NOT pregnant.
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