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JSDB
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who knows you are TTC?
the first time around we didnt tell anyone and people were veeery surprised when we announced our pregnancy.
this time around I feel like its more expected since we already have one, and we have been asked constantly when we are going to ttc again.  we have been telling people that we plan to try sometime this year but arent trying yet, which is true, although a handful of friends know we plan to start trying next cycle. i'm not as secretive but don't necessarily want to put myself out there fully either.
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babydreams21
LIF Adult
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who knows you are TTC?
NOBODY. keeping it to ourselves. I don't feel like answering so many questions. When people say when are you having a baby I say maybe one day.
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| Posted 4/9/13 9:47 PM |
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Lala08
2 Princesses coming soon!
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
We told our immediate family and a couple of close friends. We have been asked for years. I just say when it's our time it's our time. The ones that know also know we are going to an RE
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| Posted 4/9/13 9:47 PM |
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Lillies
Grateful for my babies!
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
Just my parents and my siblings... and one of my bosses who is like family. I have family asking me all of the time when we are going to have a baby-- mostly bc my DH is the only boy and person who will carry on the family name... no pressure. lol
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| Posted 4/9/13 10:41 PM |
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ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls
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Me
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who knows you are TTC?
Just a co-worker and some friends. I am definitely not telling family. I don't need the pressure lol.
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| Posted 4/9/13 11:08 PM |
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IVFmiracle
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
One of my friends knew and one of DH friends knew. Other than that, no one else.
We we announced everyone was 
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| Posted 4/10/13 7:12 AM |
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AKD
LIF Adult
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
Whenever someone asks us about when we're going to have kids (we've been married 2 years now, so it's the main topic with everyone somehow)..I just tell them "we're working on it" - and that's that. Nobody really knows the specifics of it.
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| Posted 4/10/13 7:36 AM |
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MrsM429
Mama x2 <3
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who knows you are TTC?
Just a few close friends- they knew we've been having fertility issues and one of my friends went through treatments, so it was nice to open up to her and have someone to talk to about it.
Otherwise EVERYBODY is waiting for it to happen. Anytime I refuse a drink, mention I'm not feeling well, they assume its because I'm pregnant 
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| Posted 4/10/13 7:51 AM |
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kiki1103
LIF Infant
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
We have only told a few close friends - our parents might have a vague idea because we always told them when we were thinking of having kids and that age is quickly approaching. Plus FIL may have seen some OPKs in my house the other day
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| Posted 4/10/13 9:00 AM |
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who knows you are TTC?
We didn't tell anyone we were TTC per say. I have told people I want to get PG, take my maternity leave and find a new job! But I've been saying that forever and mostly to my close co-workers who understand why.
Other than that I'm sure people are assuming being that DS will be 3 this year and I ain't getting any younger!
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| Posted 4/10/13 9:15 AM |
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mrsm-2011
He is my world!
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
Posted by babydreams21
NOBODY. keeping it to ourselves. I don't feel like answering so many questions. When people say when are you having a baby I say maybe one day.
Exactly this!
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| Posted 4/10/13 11:43 AM |
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latinaj
LIF Infant
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who knows you are TTC?
just my bestie.
no one knows... too much pressure
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| Posted 4/10/13 12:21 PM |
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MrsGoldie
<3 Miracles can happen <3
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who knows you are TTC?
We've been TTC almost 2 years now and I was soooooo sick of all the questions. So now I just tell everyone who asks. I also find it a little therapeutic to talk about everything I have been going through. Plus I was running out of excuses for why I needed off from work or needed to come in late/leave early, so I told everyone I work with. Now that everyone knows they have stopped asking :)
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| Posted 4/10/13 12:27 PM |
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starr
little whale on the way
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Re: who knows you are TTC?
Posted by MrsGoldie
We've been TTC almost 2 years now and I was soooooo sick of all the questions. So now I just tell everyone who asks. I also find it a little therapeutic to talk about everything I have been going through. Plus I was running out of excuses for why I needed off from work or needed to come in late/leave early, so I told everyone I work with. Now that everyone knows they have stopped asking :)
similar to my situation. this far into fertility treatments it was already pretty impossible to keep it to ourselves. so I have been telling a few very close co-workers, many friends and of course my parents. DH just told his mom a few weeks ago.
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| Posted 4/10/13 1:02 PM |
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