Who knows you're ttc?

We haven't told anyone, we just don't want to deal with the questions every month. And it's disappointing enough for just the two of us when we get a bfn, I couldn't imagine having to tell other people too.

I was curious how many others are ttc incognito!

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We also didn't tell anyone when we started TTC--i thought that was difficult. But now that we just recently got our BFP and are waiting until at least 8 weeks and to see a heart beat to tell immediate family and atleast 12 weeks to tell friends---it is even more difficult. We actually have had to turn down plans because as soon as someone sees that I am not drinking or eating certain foods they are going to figure it out right away

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My mom knows and my best friend...thats about it. I dont want people asking me every month if we are pregnant yet.

Good luck to everyone

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My mom and 2 close girlfriends know.......

I accidentally slipped and told 2 people at work but, whatever..... I like to think they just forgot I don't plan on telling anyone else!

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Well, it feels like everyone at work stares at my stomach or makes comments weekly that make me VERY uncomfortable. They all seem to assume that it's coming anytime now since we've been married for 2 years. I even get comments from parents! (I'm a teacher). I wanna yell at them "we're having some trouble, happy now?!?"
Because I get so many looks and it gets me upset, I've talked to a few close coworkers because they are in similar situations.

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A bunch of strangers on the internet

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Only hubby and I for now. We also want to avoid all the questions and disappointment from other people.

My mom wants a grandchild so badly, that I don't think she'd be able to handle the wait every month lolz..and I can't wait to surprise her when I finally do get a BFP. I already thought of a few different ways.

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well, I don't tell people about it, but there ARE a few who figured it out. Mostly the ones who know that I MC'd probably assume that we'll be trying again soon.

And I do have one friend who said that she'll be starting to try for her second child soon - she knows that I want a baby soon as well.

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A bunch of strangers on the internet

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a few people at work, our immediate families and a few of our friends know we're just letting things happen. we haven't really told anyone we're trying per se. so far everyone has been really great about it and is not asking questions, but more than happy to listen when i want to share.

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my sister, cousin and a few friends. i wish i had told less. there are a few people who keep asking if i am pg yet so definitely wish i hadnt told them LOL

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just my sister- she is the only one that we are telling

we get asked constantly and we tell people not yet - I cant believe how many people think its ok to ask someone that

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My Dad, sister, 2 people at work who I had to tell because I had to go over insurance stuff with them, and DHs best friend because DH has a big mouth. Other people assume we are TTC, but we never confirm or deny it to them.

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I told alot of people just b/c I was soo excited.. But I am not telling anyone about a BFP for a while...

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Only one friend, who recently had a baby, knows. I've had lots of questions for her.
My mom knows I'm off BCP, but doesn't know we're actively trying.
I'm going to have to tell my FSIL soon though b/c I'm in her wedding this summer and I'm hoping I'll be pregnant by then.

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My DH and my BFF.

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My mom and my sister know. I'm sure some friends and family assume we are trying since we had been preg already and mc in July.

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A bunch of strangers on the internet

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Nobody really... a lot of people know that i want a baby lol but nobody knows we're actually trying.

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No one knew, we had only decided that we would start in about 5 months..

We are afraid once the family finds out we're in big trouble lol

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2 of my close friends; but that is because they charted with their kids and they see me doing it