Need some optimism

Waiting to start another frozen cycle & I just want this to work so badly but at the same time I'm so afraid of another miscarriage & don't know how we could handle another one. I guess I'm looking for any stories of reassurance or advice? Thanks for reading

Message edited 1/5/2013 6:26:48 PM.

Re: Need some optimism

I'm so sorry for your loss... It's just so hard. I'm In a slightly different situation because I have known issues found from the RPL panel that we are treating (maybe it will find something for you) and we also did genetic testing bc of a suspected genetic issue with my last pregnancy. All I can say is, if you don't feel comfortable moving forward and need more answers, get them. Get another opinion if you have to.. Go for a few! Sometimes a different set of eyes makes a big difference! I've been to many other opinions so let me know if you would like a little breakdown of the drs I saw.

Re: Need some optimism

I'm so sorry for your losses!! I am not going through the same thing but I wanted to wish you luck with your future cycles. I wish I had more advice to give you but I am sort of new to the whole IF process. All I can say is we are here for you to vent if you need and keep thinking positive thoughts!!!

Need some optimism

Thank you both!! Pennycat I will FM you.

Re: Need some optimism

New year, new beginnings!!!

Re: Need some optimism

I can relate to your worries but it is the desire to have that baby that will give you the strength to keep trying again. I'm always in awe of and inspired by the women on here that have suffered repeated losses and keep trying again. I'm 11wk3days after my first FET and still worry every day that things may suddenly change and I could suffer yet another loss. A friend of mine gave me a doppler and I listen to LO's HB every night just to give me some peace of mind.I don't think the worrying goes away until you hold that baby in your arms. I hope and pray that this time will be your success story!