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People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

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LiveItUp
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People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

The RSVP date for my shower is very soon and several people have yet to respond. Would it be rude of me to send out a mass Facebook message to those people asking if they plan to attend or not? Or should I contact each person individually?

Posted 7/30/12 11:20 AM
 
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JDubs
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Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

this happened to me. after following up with them (and messaging some directly via FB) and no response, i just put them down as a no.

Posted 7/30/12 11:29 AM
 

moonmist09
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People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

if your going to use FB, i would send them a message individually, but i would not post a mass comment about it.

Posted 7/30/12 11:37 AM
 

MrsSx2
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Valerie

Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

Individually!

Posted 7/30/12 11:41 AM
 

Strawberry2468
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Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

I messaged a few on fb individually since it's normally how we commuicate.

Posted 7/30/12 11:58 AM
 

Cheeks24
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Cheeks

People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

Individually! Give them until the day after the RSVP though.

Posted 7/30/12 12:08 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

Individually...by phone is your best bet to get an answer.

Posted 7/30/12 12:18 PM
 

YourMama
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YourMama

Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

I definitely wouldn't do a mass facebook posting. I messaged each person individually and had my MIL call the people from her family that aren't on FB. The people who still haven't responded I just put down as not coming.

Posted 7/30/12 12:21 PM
 

babycrazed
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Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

I wouldn't reach out to anyone individually or as a group if your RSVP date hasn't even come yet. You gave them up until a certain date to respond, so you should wait at least until that date to contact them.

After that, I would send a mass message. If they weren't considerate enough to respond to your invitation, you don't need to be considerate enough to send an individual message. JMO.

Message edited 7/30/2012 12:29:43 PM.

Posted 7/30/12 12:27 PM
 

readyornot2
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Me

Re: People who don't RSVP - WWYD?

Posted by Cheeks24

Individually! Give them until the day after the RSVP though.



Agreed.

Posted 7/30/12 5:46 PM
 
 

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