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WannaBeAMom11
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bfn and dh is upset with me
Dpo10 and I didn't listen to you girls and tested with a cheapie. Bfn. I didn't want to hide it so I told him on our morning call. He was po'd to say the least. He didn't want me to test till Sat and I did it anyway. It was our first iui so he wanted to share the result together whether good or bad. Now I feel ******.
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jams92
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
im sorry
it is so cute that he wants to share the results with you. it is still early though so test again saturday
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| Posted 5/23/12 9:09 AM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
DH and i always tested together, esp when we were going through infertility. there is very little the guys can do during the process except produce a specimen here or there, so it was very important for us to find out all results together. during IVF we were going to wait for the beta but because we couldn't figure out how to find out together, we ended up testing the night before.
honestly, 10DPO is so early that i wouldn't consider it a final result. but IMO def test with your husband. at least then you can deal with the ups and downs together and not have to do it on your own. 
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| Posted 5/23/12 9:52 AM |
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NYCGirl80
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
I'm sorry!
But 10dpo is still really early! Though some women get BPFs this early, the majority don't. And many who do, often miscalculate their O date.
I always test without DH. Sometimes he knows I'm testing but usually not. We're going through IF treatment so he always knows what's going on, but I still want to one day walk into the room and surprise him by saying I'm pregnant! Just talk to your DH and I'm sure he'll understand.
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| Posted 5/23/12 10:17 AM |
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TessMike214
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
Don't worry, I'm sure your DH will understand & come around in no time! Sorry about the bfn, still early though!
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| Posted 5/23/12 10:19 AM |
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BeachGrl
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
I tested at 10dpo after my IUI and it was bfn, I tested again 3 days later and it was bfp! So def test again on Sat, good luck!
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| Posted 5/23/12 1:20 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
Posted by BeachGrl
I tested at 10dpo after my IUI and it was bfn, I tested again 3 days later and it was bfp! So def test again on Sat, good luck!
A couple of people told me this so I'm hopeful.
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| Posted 5/23/12 5:08 PM |
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LInMI
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
Fingers crossed for BFP
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| Posted 5/23/12 8:54 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
10dpo is too early to get bummed out....
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| Posted 5/23/12 9:24 PM |
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MaeDe
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
10 days is early you still have another chance.
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| Posted 5/23/12 10:50 PM |
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gina409
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| Posted 5/24/12 12:23 AM |
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
my hubby gets mad when i don't test with him, i just tell him i'm a POAS addict. can't help it lol
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| Posted 5/24/12 8:00 AM |
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Re: bfn and dh is upset with me
We're going through IF, so I usually test the morning of my BETA so we have an idea, but I call him as soon as I find out the final result.
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| Posted 5/26/12 9:44 AM |
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