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Posted by PennyCat

Posted by KMCGK

Posted by PennyCat

Posted by KMCGK

You've said it to me once and I'll say it to you again.

"You never know what's around the corner."

You can't give up on hope so hang tight.

Flush the negativity out...things, people, everything...FOR GOOD!

Thanks Kelley

In response to those two things...

Thank god I don't know what's around the corner because I think I'd jump through a window

and. .. I can't give up hope because lately I have none


You can hit me over the head now

Umm...Penny. Negativity is taking you over. Enough. I'm not gonna let it happen!

Now, deep breaths. You have to make the decision to be positive, think positive, to not let your mind wander to those familiar unhappy places. It's obvi more difficult than it sounds. But you can do it. I promise you can. It's not going to be easy to choose "happy thoughts". Shit nothing with IF and miscarriage is ever easy. But, its worth it. Even if it's for five freakin' minutes, the smile, is worth it. Envision and be thankful. It's almost like The Secret with the visualization where you don't dwell on the past but you dwell on the end result, in the future- of you holding your baby in your arms.
So stop rolling your eyes and try it. Little by little you can restore your hope. That's the great thing about Faith. It'll never turn it's back on you.

Thanks I know you always make a lot of sense, it's just hard. One thing I appreciate is I know you will never 'forget' where you came from and it means a lot.

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Ugh, your situation absolutely sucks, but I know it will happen for you. I know it's so hard to be positive, but try your best.

And yes, those moments spent with other people's babies are just the hardest.

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You are right the waiting to hear good news is getting old. I just hope you don't have to wait any longer, and they get on their game and find you that perfect match.

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