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In Need of some hugs.....

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RobeyMuse
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Jenn

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Posted 8/10/06 4:24 PM
 
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tiki03
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Posted 8/10/06 4:33 PM
 

sunny
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Posted 8/10/06 5:14 PM
 

Kate
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Posted 8/10/06 5:26 PM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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I am sure you guys will work it through. You guys have so much love for one another that I sure it is just built up stress. I also wanted to add like someone else had mentioned that it could be birth control pills that are doing this to you. When I was on Ortho I was either really sad or crying and that last a good 6 months until I asked my doctor to switch. Everything will work out Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 5:51 PM
 

dld4e
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DJ

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As others have said, it is very hard for the first year. Communication is the key. It will get better. Just know that you are not alone Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 6:19 PM
 

KangaMom
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Posted 8/10/06 6:28 PM
 

Natay
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Nate

Re: In Need of some hugs.....

Chat Icon Hang in there. My DS is 2 months old and DH and I argue more now than we ever did. Its been helpful for me to realize that our lives have changed drastically and we are both dealing with the change in our own way. So, I think trying to be realistic about our current situation and realizing (and hoping) it will get better helps me. Remember how things used to be and know that you can get that back. Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 6:37 PM
 

mommy2Alex
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Posted 8/10/06 6:49 PM
 

Michelle1123
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Posted 8/10/06 7:45 PM
 

Eireann
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I hope things get better soon...
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Posted 8/10/06 8:22 PM
 

emc
The Boys!

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Posted 8/10/06 8:46 PM
 

MommaG
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Gloria

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You should consult with your doctor to make sure your mood swings are not from a physical cause or medication, and you should consider speaking with someone to find out why you are feeling this way. I hope you feel better soon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 11:07 PM
 

CheeChee
HI THERE!!!!

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Dont give up, i'm sure you can work things out. You created a beautiful little girl together. Chat Icon Hang in there sweetie. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/10/06 11:07 PM
 

puppylove
LIF Adolescent

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Summer

Re: In Need of some hugs.....

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I'm not sure what it is....

I know he can't take my mood swings anymore and neither can I
I know I'm fed up with the way my life is

and I don't know if I need the help or we need the help



When you say you are "fed up with the way your life is" what exactly are you fed up with because that's a pretty general statement. I'm sure you are not fed up with Aly or your beautiful house, or your DH.

Can you pinpoint one thing that you are unhappy with? I think that's where you'll find the start of a solution. Then, together start trying to work on one thing at time to make it better.

For example, let's say you are unhappy with your job. Take one step today to work toward making it better. Send out a resume, call a temp agency, etc.



I agree. Perhaps you and DH can go to a counselor? A counselor might be able to pin point where the root of the stress is coming from. And then you two can work through it together. I hope everything works out for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/11/06 12:02 AM
 

aja
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Posted 8/11/06 7:50 AM
 

pharmcat2000
Mom of 2 + 1

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Catherine

Re: In Need of some hugs.....

I know exactly how you feel. DH goes to play softball every Sunday and I have fantasized about whether I could pack up everything for me and the baby and hit the road before he gets home. I hope knowing that you are not alone helps you. Chat Icon Good luck to you, I hope everything works out for you. Chat Icon

Posted 8/11/06 8:19 AM
 
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