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does it get any easier?

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01ellie
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does it get any easier?

i know my IF journey has really just begun but i am so overwhelmed with emotions. every appt i am anxious and now all i can focus on is IF.

this morning i had an appt for blood work and sono...its my first visit since my HSG and i was told that they found an issue with both tubes.Chat Icon (i had absolutely no pain or discomfort during the HSG so i thought maybe everything was clear) i'm waiting for Dr. Brenner to call me later today with more details...dont think i'm moving on with IUI this month.....

Posted 9/2/11 10:15 AM
 
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BaseballWidow
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Re: does it get any easier?

I wouldn't say easier, but more manageable. You just kind of learn how to deal with everything as it comes. There are so many bumps in the road, hang in there!!

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Posted 9/2/11 10:43 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: does it get any easier?

Posted by BaseballWidow

I wouldn't say easier, but more manageable. You just kind of learn how to deal with everything as it comes. There are so many bumps in the road, hang in there!!

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I agree with this entirely.

Posted 9/2/11 10:49 AM
 

RGEC47
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Posted by PennyCat

Posted by BaseballWidow

I wouldn't say easier, but more manageable. You just kind of learn how to deal with everything as it comes. There are so many bumps in the road, hang in there!!

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I agree with this entirely.



I agree. It is definitely a roller coaster ride of emotions. There will be ups and downs, but the inner strength you never knew you had, appears. This will make you and DH a lot closer and stronger so rely on each other and you both will get though it. Good luck. Chat Icon

Message edited 9/2/2011 10:53:44 AM.

Posted 9/2/11 10:53 AM
 

01ellie
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Re: does it get any easier?

Thanks ladies...dont know how you all found that strength to keep going thru it all.
i am focused though....so i will do whatever i need to...

Posted 9/2/11 11:52 AM
 

gina409
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Re: does it get any easier?

i wish i knew..all i can say is for me it flucuates..there r days i am fine and then days it takes so much energy to get out of bed

these past 3 monthsd have been the worst..i hate everyone and everything...i hate that IF has done this to me

but theni think of something pennycat said..if i quit then what was all this for? what was all those needles,doc appts,medical bills pilss co pays etc etc etc ...it all will be for something one day

all i know is when it does happen we will all love and be so thankful for what we have been given!

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Posted 9/2/11 7:22 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: does it get any easier?

Posted by gina409


but theni think of something pennycat said..if i quit then what was all this for? what was all those needles,doc appts,medical bills pilss co pays etc etc etc ...it all will be for something one day




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Posted 9/2/11 7:24 PM
 

eyeontheprize
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Re: does it get any easier?

I agree, it is very difficult some days but then other days I feel good and optimistic. It helps to focus on the positive things that you have going on and be kind to yourself. It also helps to do fun things with your husband and indulge a little once in a while (a lot of times I do this by shopping haha). Also remember that you are allowed to feel all the emotions you are feeling and you are not alone!! Good luck!! Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/11 7:31 PM
 

gina409
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Re: does it get any easier?

Posted by PennyCat

Posted by gina409


but theni think of something pennycat said..if i quit then what was all this for? what was all those needles,doc appts,medical bills pilss co pays etc etc etc ...it all will be for something one day




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this is why you are the best! the one who keeps us sane!Chat Icon

Posted 9/2/11 7:32 PM
 
 

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