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BigSmooch
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/10 747 total posts
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FMOTW & Update
Hi everyone.
Happy Easter to those celebrating!
I have been MIA most of this week due to a computer crash. During the week I may have experienced a chemical or false positive BFP. I'm not sure what happened and neither is my Dr. (I had 2 betas) but AF finally showed, thank god!
I've decided to take a break from hardcore TTC. Getting a BFP (whether a true one or not) was scary and I don't know if I'm ready to be pregnant again. I wasn't that excited about it and when my beta came back negative I wasn't that sad either. I just felt annoyed to not know what was happening and I felt frustrated and very stressed. The miscarriage really messed me up I guess :( So we are going to stop trying for a few months. We aren't going to be careful and if something happens it happens but I'm over thinking about it 24/7. I just want to enjoy my spring and summer without worrying. I don't know if I'm ready :(
I'm not sure if I'll be chatting on the boards anymore either. A few days without a computer was great for my head.
Anyway, I'm not sure who has been FMOTW and who has not. Any suggestions?
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Posted 4/24/11 7:40 PM |
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MySunshine
In love with my Baby Boy

Member since 3/11 2783 total posts
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Re: FMOTW & Update
Sometimes taking a break is best. That's what I did last month and my mind is in a totally different place. Hope to see you either here or even better on the Pregnancy boards in the next couple of months!
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Posted 4/25/11 10:34 AM |
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Puppy-Love
LIF Adult

Member since 7/10 1394 total posts
Name: J
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Re: FMOTW & Update
Aww hang in there and I agree, a break from these boards may be a blessing. I find it hard to stay away but I know it would prob do me wonders too!
Hang in there and
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Posted 4/25/11 1:12 PM |
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CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!

Member since 10/07 4937 total posts
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Re: FMOTW & Update
I completely understand. Sometimes I think a break from hardcore TTC may be just the thing we need. Hope to see you here again in the future
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Posted 4/25/11 10:12 PM |
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WinginIt
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/10 599 total posts
Name: Kim
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Re: FMOTW & Update
Hugs for you! Take some time off and clear your head.
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Posted 4/26/11 7:38 AM |
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MrsFishstick
LIF Adult

Member since 5/10 935 total posts
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Re: FMOTW & Update
I know how you feel when I got my bfp i was panicking like crazy that we weren't ready that we didn't have a house...and then we lost it and I was devastated. Now we're waiting a while and will try again soon, but knowing what I know now will prepare me better for the next time
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Posted 4/27/11 4:40 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
Name: M
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Re: FMOTW & Update
Im so sorry. I agree with PP's a break sometimes is best. I hope it does you good and you get your BFP soon
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Posted 4/27/11 10:07 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!

Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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Re: FMOTW & Update
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Posted 4/28/11 12:19 AM |
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