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Aww, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Your time will come!!

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I wish I had some words of wisdom to say to make you feel better, but I don't. I just want to say that I'm so sorry you're going through this and please do not lose hope. All of our journeys are very different, but we are all in the same boat, at least to some extent. And don't you worry about a "pity party" - somtimes you just need to sit down and have yourself a good cry.

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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Your bfp will come and you will forget about all of the heartache you are going through, and it will all be all worth it.

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Awww Gina!!!! Please don't loose hope!! I know trying to stay and tihnk positive is easier said then done!!! Just hold on to hope! It will happen!!! It's going to happen to all of us!!!!

I'm here for you giirl!!!!!

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Just want to send you lots of hugs!

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im so sorry Gina... I wish i had some words of wisdom to help... but i dont... we're here for you!

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I can relate to feelings of disappointment (losing a pregnancy) and hopelessness (worrying if will we ever have a baby).

Our paths are not the same but I know what it feels like to hurt. There are days where I feel great and I say to myself "we're going to have a baby" and then there are days like today where I am a wreck with worry. Wondering if I'll miscarry again, wondering if I'll even get pregnant again.

I'm sitting here waiting for test results today and I'm more worried that they will find nothing wrong with me and that my miscarriage will forever be a mystery. I am so afraid to go into the next pregnancy without knowing what my chances of success are. I know the only way to find out is to try but I'm scared, scared that I won't ever get to be a Mom.

So when you say you are losing hope I know how you feel even though it's for different reasons. The only thing I know is that we can't lose all hope. We have to have some even on the worst of days because its the only thing that will get us through it. We have to have some faith that things will work out for us.

I think it's okay for you to feel sad. I think it's okay for me to feel sad too. I think we deserve a pity party once in awhile, just don't let it consume you. Think of all the blessings you have in your life. When I'm really down that is what I do. I think of all the good things I should be thankful for and it makes me feel better.

I will pray for you, pray for me too girl. Hang in there.

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Oh Gina! I totally understand your frustration! Hang in there...we're all here to support each other. You'll have that BFP before you know it!

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thanks everyone..cant lie going to be a rough few days but what can u do but move on..

btw..who the hell is the 500 plus people who looked at this

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Posted by MrsDeVito

Aww Gina please do not lose hope! I know how you feel. Just do your best to try and stay positive. Allow yourself a day or two pity party and then just jump right back in. Or if you need to take a cycle or two break do it. Just please do not give up hope. If you need to talk, vent or just scream call me!

You will get to that BFP some way, some how. And when you do I am going to be soo soooo soooo happy!!!!

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i am so sorry gina. please don't loose hope. you will get there! and you will be the best mommy!!

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Oh Gina, Im just seeing this and Im so sorry You can't give up hope! I just know its going to happen and you and Tommy are going to be the best parents!

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So whats the update????

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I absolutely know how it is.

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Gina dont loose hope!! I know how hard it must be for you, but just keep in mind the end result of what all the medications and needles will bring!!
Confidence and and being positive will help soo much!


i love you girl! it will happen!
and ps your not out yet untill af comes!