My body has decided to play tricks on me

For the past 4 months we've been trying I've Oed 13, 14, 15 at the latest, temping for 2 months, using OPKS all 4. So this month, we decide to wing it. We 9,11,12,15 (we missed 13 and 14 due to Thanksgiving). Didn't temp, did use OPKs. So today, CD 19, I have major EWCM and cramps. ***!!!!!!! Am I not ovulating till CD 19? I know that's not late for most of you, but it is for me. Since being off the pill I've had a 28 day cycle (over a year now) and since I've been tracking (4 months), I've had a 15 day LP. Just to clarify we went off the pill last November, but didn't start trying till this past August. I am not getting home tonight till late and DH has darts so I just texted him that we have to tonight, and he has not responded, so we'll see. I have averaged 3 hours of sleep for the past 2 nights and feel like crap, and I am majorly stressed at work this week, I was off and calm all last week, so not sure if that is affecting anything. Anyway, sorry this was so long and it really had no point except to complain. for all the December BFPs!!!!!!!

Re: My body has decided to play tricks on me

Did you have any EWCM last week or no? Hmm I think it is possible to ovulate at different times each month. I think most people are consitent but stress can affect it, etc.

Just BD to be safe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Also question! You said you use all 4 OPK's...are they all the same and consistent?

Re: My body has decided to play tricks on me

Try to relax as best you can, I know thats SO much easier said than done but I would def tonight! You'll be glad you did in the morning!!
Good Luck!!

Re: My body has decided to play tricks on me

i would take a opk if u have in the house..and def try to the next few nights

good luck i really hope u get ur bfp!!!!!

Re: My body has decided to play tricks on me

Posted by MrsH2009

For the past 4 months we've been trying I've Oed 13, 14, 15 at the latest, temping for 2 months, using OPKS all 4. So this month, we decide to wing it. We 9,11,12,15 (we missed 13 and 14 due to Thanksgiving). Didn't temp, did use OPKs. So today, CD 19, I have major EWCM and cramps. ***!!!!!!! Am I not ovulating till CD 19? I know that's not late for most of you, but it is for me. Since being off the pill I've had a 28 day cycle (over a year now) and since I've been tracking (4 months), I've had a 15 day LP. Just to clarify we went off the pill last November, but didn't start trying till this past August. I am not getting home tonight till late and DH has darts so I just texted him that we have to tonight, and he has not responded, so we'll see. I have averaged 3 hours of sleep for the past 2 nights and feel like crap, and I am majorly stressed at work this week, I was off and calm all last week, so not sure if that is affecting anything. Anyway, sorry this was so long and it really had no point except to complain. for all the December
BFPs!!!!!!!

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I did have EWCM last week, but I know that just means I geared up to O and didn't actually O. I know you can O at different times, and that probably did happen, it just frustrates me b/c I finally took the just relax advice. I had off from work all last week, I was lazy, had wine every night and when we wanted to. I didn't get upset that I missed a day or two. And now this so obviously relaxing isn't for me. Well December will most likely be a wash, but I did purchase and new CBEFM from Egg so I'll be starting that next cycle.

Re: My body has decided to play tricks on me

aww.. Im so sorry. It gets so frustrating. Just when we think we understand our bodies, it goes and fools us!! I hope he texts you back and says lets get it onnn!!!

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I know how you feel...i am frustrated with my body...

We bd on CD8 and CD11 and again today (CD13)...

The past few days had very slightly stretchy cm but barely (it was mainly milky lotiony n slightly sticky)..Monday (cd11 when we bd) it was sticky/milky...

This morning woke up to what seemed to be watery down there and it was extremely slippery/ewcm kind..so i got all excited...everytime i went potty during day it was like that!

Then when i get home to bd tonight (which we did) was on the dryer side (although right before we bd it was stretchy and could stretch forever when was excited (granted i know your not suppose to test when aroused)

I hope i didn't miss my opporunity by not bding in the morning and waiting til night! UGH