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kokomo181
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Def Bummed

So I know this is our first month trying and the liklihood of getting pg is slim..but I have been having spotting and some other symptoms (cramping) so I was getting my hopes up that I could be PG (even though i kept telling myself your crazy your crazy).

Its so hard not to over analyze everything!!

My hubby convinced me to test this morning (my period is due on Wed) and I got a BFN. I am disappointed and have lost all hope at this point and preparing for the next month cause I am assuming I am a no go...

I know I knot its not over until AF comes but I don't want to get disappointed again. Will wait til at earliest wed to test again (assuming af doesn't come)..

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Posted 11/14/10 10:59 AM
 
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ttc2011
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Posted 11/14/10 5:42 PM
 

01ellie
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Posted 11/14/10 5:43 PM
 

bettybcafe
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Re: Def Bummed

Please, please do not be bummed. This is only your first month. I do hope that AF doesnt show but if she does remember you have only just started. No need to feel sad just yet. I too just finished my first month of trying and AF showed. Yes, I am sad but I keep reminding myself that its only month #1..its too early to start feeling blue.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/14/10 5:50 PM
 

Teach
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Re: Def Bummed

I wouldnt be bummed. I am in the same situation. I am only 7 dpo, but if this was not my month, i will move on to next month. I have had bad cramps, but you never know. I feel like this is a mind game.

Move on to CD 1. Good luck!

Posted 11/14/10 6:48 PM
 

kokomo181
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Re: Def Bummed

Posted by Teach

I wouldnt be bummed. I am in the same situation. I am only 7 dpo, but if this was not my month, i will move on to next month. I have had bad cramps, but you never know. I feel like this is a mind game.

Move on to CD 1. Good luck!



I know ..I think would be easier if didn't have any signs or if didn't spot around 7-9 dpo....we shall see I guess not over yet til AF shows up (which should be around wed)....i guess you never know...

I know its only been 1 month and hasn't been long..my heart goes out to those who have been trying for a while because I know how impatient I am just after 1 month of trying! Maybe you girls are just far more patient than me hehe

Posted 11/14/10 8:09 PM
 
 

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