Am I the only one who cries every month when O'ing???

I feel like I post this every month. DH wont BD b/c he is feeling too pressured at the moment. My relatives are coming over late afternoon so I wanted to BD before they came because I dont know what time they are leaving and if DH has a few drinks all BD'ing will go out the window.


Some men are dumb!!!!!! Thanks for listening to my vent. I hate that he has to ruin my day b/c instead of spending time enjoying my company I have to be worried the whole time if we are going to BD later. I think he should have just BD this morning so I can enjoy my day off!!!!!! ALso since we just got into a fight and I cried he will say he is too mad to BD.

BTW, I never found out the SA results. The doctor is supposed to call me today. Perfect timing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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i am so sorry. I think you and DH should sit down and talk about this. You should let him know how stressful this is for you and how important it is so maybe he will stop giving you such a hard time each month.

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I'm so sorry your DH puts up a fight every month. That must make it extra stressful for you. If DH was pulling that on me every month I would be furious too. Maybe you need to have a good talk about it, when it isn't O time

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Do you initiate at other times of the month. I realized I was not initiating or really even reciprocating at any other time, so I get where DH can feel used a little.

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Thanks everyone! I have tried talking to DH at other times but he keeps telling me that I am crazy and to stop going on the internet. lol I tell him that there is only a 15% chance every month which it why it is VERY important to BD on the good days even if we are mad at each other or have other things going on. It doesnt help that every single one of his friends got PG right away and there are all in their 30's too.

I dont initiate at other times of the month b/c my DH was in an accident right after my D & C in the winter and got hurt really bad. He is still not 100% recovered so I dont initiate b/c since there is always a chance he wont BD due to "pressure" or pain I just initiate on the days leading up to O.

I got my smiley yesterday and we did BD. This morning I had no smiley but I usually get it for 2 days each month which is why I wanted to BD so bad.

We BD on smiley day and 4 days in a row prior.

Did I cover my bases?

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I cried last night (yup on my b-day night)..DH had work & I was out with my family & when I came home it was after 1 am & he was up waiting for me. I was too tired to & we got into a huge fight over it & I just cried & cried. I feel like crap today!
I got my yesterday so we missed that day & now we wont get to until late tonight since DH is working late again.
I feel like I am already out this month
Thanks for letting me vent.

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Posted by letsmakeababy

i am so sorry. I think you and DH should sit down and talk about this. You should let him know how stressful this is for you and how important it is so maybe he will stop giving you such a hard time each month.

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Thanks everyone!!

I am so sorry this happened on your birthday. That really sucks! Feel free to vent any time!!!!!!! Were you able to BD the day before smiley? I hope you are not out this month!!!

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Posted by BeachGal

Thanks everyone!!

I am so sorry this happened on your birthday. That really sucks! Feel free to vent any time!!!!!!! Were you able to BD the day before smiley? I hope you are not out this month!!!

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I hope so too!