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feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

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keepingsecrets
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feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

so right now DH and i are just "going with the flow" and Chat Icon as much as possible around when i THINK i ovulate. no temping, no opk's, etc. i really thought this month we hit the "good" days and stupidly i took a FRER this morning at approx 9DPO and it was a BFN. i know it's still early but is there really still hope that i may get my BFP? feeling so sad and tired of ttc for over 1.5 years with no baby Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 11:34 AM
 
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MrsDeVito
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

First of allChat Icon And yes, there is still a chance. 9dpo is WAY to early to count yourself out. Wait a few days. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 11:37 AM
 

keepingsecrets
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

Posted by MrsDeVito

First of allChat Icon And yes, there is still a chance. 9dpo is WAY to early to count yourself out. Wait a few days. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



thanks. i guess i know that in my rational mind except no part of me is rational when it comes to this process. i just can't believe how long this has been going on for. i know you know how i feel so thank you Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 11:38 AM
 

BabyLoveBug143
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

def still a chance! your not out till af shows up!!

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Posted 10/26/10 11:44 AM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

Posted by keepingsecrets

Posted by MrsDeVito

First of allChat Icon And yes, there is still a chance. 9dpo is WAY to early to count yourself out. Wait a few days. Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



thanks. i guess i know that in my rational mind except no part of me is rational when it comes to this process. i just can't believe how long this has been going on for. i know you know how i feel so thank you Chat Icon Chat Icon



I definitely know how you feel. I can doll out this advice but I sure don't take it myself!

Posted 10/26/10 11:44 AM
 

01ellie
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

you're not out until AF shows! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 11:48 AM
 

JellyBear
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

There's totally still hope! Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 11:51 AM
 

kelkel09
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

you are def not out yet!!! good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 12:09 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

thanks ladies. i guess i'm having a pity party day. i can usually cope pretty well but today i'm feeling very much like "why me"!! i'm so grateful to be able to post here for support Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 12:23 PM
 

Shelleybean11
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

Chat Icon Chat Icon You are still in the game. 9DPO is early! I hope you get your BFP very soon! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 12:28 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

Posted by Shelleybean11

Chat Icon Chat Icon You are still in the game. 9DPO is early! I hope you get your BFP very soon! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



thank you! Chat Icon i really needed the encouragement today

Posted 10/26/10 4:14 PM
 

Pumpkinz
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

9dpo is still really early. i would always test early and get all down on myself too but then realized there is still hope. my best advice to youis try not testing so early in your cycle because if it comes back negative you will get depressed and upset when you shouldnt be yet

Posted 10/26/10 4:18 PM
 

MrsKS
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

You got time girl!!

If I took at HPT at 9DPO I'm sure it would have been BFN as well. At 12 DPO it was super faint!!

Posted 10/26/10 4:22 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Re: feeling like a jerk....tell me there is still hope!

you guys are awesome. i SO know it's too early but i convinced myself that this month was THE month and so i also convinced myself that i have super powerful hcg levels that would show up at 9DPO. it's such a total mind game i play with myself! AF is due on sunday or monday so i'm going to try to hold out until then to test again Chat Icon

Posted 10/26/10 5:05 PM
 
 

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