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hotsauce345
my love, my life, my son
Member since 1/09 4169 total posts
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Melody
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Just ran into a friend of DH...
I was in a store with Dh and he ran into a friend who's preggo. and she said "I can't believe how quickly everything came...it's like married, house, baby...it was so fast...you know!" and I just felt like  no...I don't know...it doesn't happen so quickly for everyone...
It sucks because it's so natural for thing like that to come out of peoples mouth and i know its not their fault and they aren't doing or saying anything wrong...but you wouldn't understand it unless you understood the struggle.
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Posted 9/12/10 2:31 PM  |
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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
Member since 5/10 1756 total posts
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Aim
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
Maybe the jealously gets to me, but I always think people who have to brag how "easy" and "fast" and "great" eveything came or is are a bunch of liars and they only say that crap to make themselves feel better. That's just my opinion. Like I said, I could be being a brat right now. 
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| Posted 9/12/10 2:33 PM |
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DaisyGirl
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
I think people are just clueless and don't realize it doesn't come that easy for everyone. It would be nice if people thought before they spoke. Sorry that happened to you 
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| Posted 9/12/10 2:36 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
right there with you.....
so sorry.
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| Posted 9/12/10 2:57 PM |
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AllyCat
Twin Mommy!
Member since 8/09 1346 total posts
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Allyson
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
I'm sorry that happened to you. TTC is such a private struggle... Being on this board has made me much more aware of it.
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| Posted 9/12/10 3:59 PM |
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wants-2-b-a-mommy
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cant tell ya yet!
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
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| Posted 9/12/10 4:52 PM |
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ns1011
I'm wide awake
Member since 4/09 2697 total posts
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Nic
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
I know how tough it is. But I truly feel that people who have things come to them so easily will never fully appreciate them as much as those who have to work hard at it.
Hang in there
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| Posted 9/12/10 5:15 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: Just ran into a friend of DH...
Posted by ns1011
I know how tough it is. But I truly feel that people who have things come to them so easily will never fully appreciate them as much as those who have to work hard at it.
Hang in there
This is basically what I wanted to say but couldn't come up with the words.
Also, I think having to deal with a struggling ttc experience gives you a maturity that others wouldn't understand. I hope that came out the right way  I know what I'm thinking, I just can't explain it.
I know I will never take even a MOMENT of pregnancy for granted EVER AGAIN!! 
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| Posted 9/12/10 6:50 PM |
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